posted July 14, 2005 12:14 PM
Laura I really don't feel that comfortable with the Celtic Cross I have never liked it! So I decided to use a Relationship Spread for you being that you want info on you and your BF it also uses 10 cards and I used the cards you picked. I hope that is OK. Jade 1. You - 5 of Wands - Laura you seem to be in conflict with yourself. You are at odds as what to do. Wands are energy cards but the energy around you lately has not been all good. You are looking for a way to resolve things within yourself.
2. How you see your Partner - Strength-you see your boyfriend as a strong force in this relationship you want to depend on his strength. There is also a gentle side to him that you can relate to a side that is nurturing and wants to take care of you.
3. How you see the relationship-4 of Swords - right now everything seems to be on hold. Stalemate. You don't seem to find it moving forward in the direction that you would have expected. This is a good time for both of you to step back and see where the relationship is going and what you both want from it.
4. This strengthens the relationship-Hanged man - Again you feel as if this relationship is in a state of limbo, in a rut, and you are not sure how to proceed. You are willing to make sacrifices and to compromise this is a strength as long as the compromise and sacrifice is not all on your part.
5. This weakens the relationship- The Lovers- There are some things that are not out in the open. There could be things that could cause a serious problem for you. There is a decision that needs to be made. There are 2 thoughts here, you may have to chose between an emotional commitment or between love, passion or security and stability. One half of you wants to follow your heart, the other is torn and wants to follow their head. This dilemma weakens the relationship.
6. Your Hopes- Ace of Wands R- you hope that you can move forward in this relationship. You want to move forward and be creative and challenged in this relationship You want to feel confident in this relationship and feel excited. because this card is reversed, it is saying to me that your energy is low at this time in these areas. your self esteem and enthusiasm is not where it should be at this time.
7. Your Fears- 10 of wands - You fear that you re going to have to be the dominant one in this relationship, make all of the important decisions and be the one to decide if this relationship will move forward. You don't want to shoulder all of the responsibility. You want this to be a joint effort. Deep inside you know all you really need to know about this relationship You may not want the responsibility of deciding which way it will go, how it will turn out.Laura, With the knowledge of knowing deep inside exactly where things stand you fear the burden of being the one responsible to decide what to do. Ignorance is bliss but with knowledge comes responsibility.
8. Your task in this relationship- 10 of Cups R- you would bring a feeling of love and joy into any relationship that you are in. This card is telling me that you should start to feel better about what you have accomplished on your own. See where you are in your life all the good that has happened and is ready to come to you Look to yourself Laura, if you persist with the things that you have been doing on your own aside from your BF you will be happy and feel content and complete within your self. This card is reversed. and it is saying to me that you have been so concerned and concentrating so hard on being a couple you have not thought about yourself, and all that you have acquired. If you focus on you then you will be find. This is what you must do to turn things around. Accept your BF for who he is, you cant change him, but you can change you, how you look at and perceive things.
9. His task in the relationship- 3 of Wands - to embrace life, to find his own way and to decide if this is what he truly wants. to know that if he is not ready to commit at this time its OK to be honest and move on. His task is to complete what he has started not necessarily this relationship but to take some action in his own personal life. This card is saying to me he may want to explore his options. He may need to take a stand, be honest with you and himself and move in the direction he really wants to go in.
10. This will come out of it - The Empress - Laura no matter what happens you will be fine. you will come away wiser, and feel more confidant as a woman if you take care and nurture yourself. you will walk away feeling good about yourself if you focus more on you. you want to expand your life, look for ways to do that. its time to enjoy your creative side, and make the most of your talents. Don't worry or focus on your BF more than yourself. This card is saying to me if this relationship is right for you, that you should feel emotionally fulfilled, happy and secure and feel as if you have room to grow.
Laura I hope this reading has been helpful to you let me know OK Jade