posted March 04, 2010 02:20 AM            

But, you know if you can separate the two and enjoy it for what it is, that's one thing, if you cannot, because you're getting emotional, that's another thing.

Yeah, see, I wouldn't want to get involved with someone who has that ex he can always fall back on either, cause it's just too easy. If things aren't going just perfect, he gives her a call. Not cool. But, what I don't get is why he is so obsessed with what you are doing, if he is doing stuff with her???

Anyway, I have a special book, it's in a room I cannot get into right now, because someone is asleep in there. I will get it in the morning, and tell you the interp for 7 of cups. I really like this book, cause it's kinda of unconventional in it's descriptions.

posted March 04, 2010 05:44 PM            

You are dealing with an Aqua, so, IDK, I don't date them, they put me off, I need someone with alot of water and some fire. Otherwise, I disconnect, then I don't want them anymore. K, hang on, lemme grab your book while I have a minute before the troops expect dinner....scuse any spelling errors, I probably wont have time to edit.

SEVEN OF CUPS ~ Nancy Shavick

As a card of expansion, the seven of cups symbolises wanting more than you can have, approaching a problem by viewing the big picture, completing the necessary preparations to fulfill your destiny, getting a mental glimpse of the future, realizing what is deeply satisfying to you, procuring your dreams through the visionary cup world.

In any case, you must keep your options open and examine the entire field with a wide perspective before you narrow down your scope to what you can realistically develop.

The seven of cups represents activation of your creativity through the proper use of your imagination where you choose from a myraiad of ideas, interests and activities that attract you. You explore the one or two chosen pathways that give you the greatest potential for success in this incarnation.

posted March 04, 2010 09:50 PM            

clearly, not all his needs are being met through her, or why would he seek outside the relationship. But, that still doesn't give him the right to hurt someone else.

I guess, the ball is in your court, so to speak, to decide if this is enough for you.
I mean it's POSSIBLE that the two of you will fall in love, and he will dump her, anything is possible, but, IDK, I've heard it on this board soooo many times about airmen and their first or major loves, that they never get over them. Is this a chance you are willing to take?

I know that Aquas grow relationships that stem from friendships first, so, maybe if you really want him in your life, you can stop the sexual part, become really good friends, and then maybe something more can develop from that? I'm bad with air, like I said, I don't understand them whatsoever, the detachment thing befuddles the heck out of me, and I have an air moon!!

posted March 06, 2010 11:42 PM            

I'm glad you made the choice that you did. I know it hurts, but it's better a little hurt now then a big heartache later.

I know it's difficult to understand these long lingering, but going nowhere relationships. Like I said, I have one myself.
It's hard to explain, you love that person, but there are just too many variables that make it impossible to be together, but that doesn't take away the love. So, maybe that is how it is for them too, IDK.