posted August 24, 2012 01:40 AM            

i normally do not ask for interpretation of cards for my spreads but i did this reading for my friend and she is at a crossroad in her relationship. I did a CC for her and I normally pull out 3 cards for outcome position , inspired by Michelle Knight.

For her I got Page of Pentacles, 5 of Swords & The Moon. Both 5 swords & Moon look scary & deceptive to me so I wanted to seek some opinions on this. The future positions look fine for her but the outcome looks strange. why is that?

here is full spread in case you want to analyse
http://tarotscrapbuk.blogspot.com/2012/08/celtic-cross-reading.html

Thank you for taking a look <3

posted August 27, 2012 06:01 AM            

Basically she wants something permanent and he doesn't, however, she doesn't really think he is the one for her. She is very much an 'in my comfort zone' kind of person and therefore tends to just keep going in something even if it's not right.

I think they may have some kind of tie or commitment together and they both need to operate from a more independent point of relating and keep their concerns/finances more separate.

She needs to plan for the probable outcome that they will part, otherwise she will be making the same mistakes that she did in the past as she tends to end up in the same type of relationship.

She is fragile and needs to focus on taking better care of herself and regaining her confidence apart from a partner as she tends to let her self be overtaken/overshadowed by the partner and finds it equally as hard to resist falling into that pattern time and again.

She would do better in building relationships with women, for emotional/moral support and be more sheltered until she is older and can cope with the dominating males she tends to attract.

Dating and living separately and keeping things separate is what she needs, and try not to get to embroiled in all aspects of a relationship. If she can bide her time she will meet and form a similar but better pairing in about ten years, but she will be better equipped to take on this same personality type that she gets involved with.

posted August 27, 2012 04:54 PM            

What she should be focusing on ~ building her own financial stability for the future.

Causes of the situation ~ indecision and lack of action.

This spread is a classic where the other person is not interested. The outcome of 5 swords with the moon indicates that someone is being led by their unconscious habits. It's a no win situation with self deception built in. the 7 discs is always a nightmare because it half promises rewards but how long have we got?

It's not a great reading and I'd be telling her to cut free now. The 7 discs could also be saying that unless she does focus on the ace of discs she'll end up financially broke.

posted August 28, 2012 06:31 AM            

I have looked at your detailed reply and it just reminds me of the way she appeared so vulnerable and how she was not so happy with herself because of being so dependant in this relationship.
I also asked her if she sees a pattern in the men she date and she admitted most of them were bossy, dominating & playing type who would hinder her development as a person.
Thank you a lot for the great advices. Much appreciated.

Thank you quinnlycanastro
I liked the way you have looked at the cards, thank you so much for your help. I just have a question, you said the relationship will end when she starts showing up as Queen of Swords. Did you mean Queen of Cups & mistakenly wrote Queen of Swords?

Thank you