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Topic: Ace of cups/three of swords
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 20, 2014 11:35 PM
What would this signify? Everytime the drawn card is either Ace of cups or three of swords for a particular Q.IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 2981 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 21, 2014 12:21 AM
HeartbreakIP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5576 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 21, 2014 04:52 AM
Well... What's the question? It can mean many things. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 09:30 AM
This is about a friend of mine. Im married(happily married). He said he started to love me from 2005. He was heartbroken for some years(till 2011 dec). Everytime he talks to me he is kinda too sweet n all. Says things like 'anything for u', 'yr husband is great cuz he has you' ,or if i say something nice he would say 'Im blessed!' He is not the whiny type but..At the same time i wanna do the right thing. Whenever i ask about his feelings towards me i get ace of cups or three of wands. Even on the personal forum page thread. Everytime. Mostly Ace of cups. Sometimes four of wands or three of swords. Thank u Venusdisirius: ) IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: Heartbreak
Thank u for the reply littlecloud. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4788 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 21, 2014 10:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: This is about a friend of mine. Im married(happily married). He said he started to love me from 2005. He was heartbroken for some years(till 2011 dec). Everytime he talks to me he is kinda too sweet n all. Says things like 'anything for u', 'yr husband is great cuz he has you' ,or if i say something nice he would say 'Im blessed!' He is not the whiny type but..At the same time i wanna do the right thing. Whenever i ask about his feelings towards me i get ace of cups or three of wands. Even on the personal forum page thread. Everytime. Mostly Ace of cups. Sometimes four of wands or three of swords. Thank u Venusdisirius: )
''do the right thing..."? I don't understand. If you are happily married why are you asking about his feelings towards you? That was me being a little puzzled about your post, anyways,I would interpret the cards as mental anguish together with feelings of heart ache when he thinks about you. Three of swords is mostly a 'mental' card (lol that actually came out funny ) IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5576 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 21, 2014 10:52 AM
Bittersweet love.. He can't do much about it. I think the reason why is this card frequent in love readings is to stress the 3 parties... All cutting each other. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 11:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: ''do the right thing..."?I don't understand. If you are happily married why are you asking about his feelings towards you? That was me being a little puzzled about your post, anyways,I would interpret the cards as mental anguish together with feelings of heart ache when he thinks about you. Three of swords is mostly a 'mental' card (lol that actually came out funny )
Hi Jessica, He never used past tense while he spoke about it.. n i never asked any direct questions regarding this topic. If he is still in the same state of mind i should stay away from him. That would be the right thing to do. That's my opinion: ) Maybe im wrong but it would be torture to be around someone u love n see them with somebody else. Thank u Jessica...
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 11:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Bittersweet love.. He can't do much about it. I think the reason why is this card frequent in love readings is to stress the 3 parties... All cutting each other.
So true. Thanks VenusdiSirius. And Jessica i guess i should be honest here. I was in love with him. But he played the jealous card. I didnt care to be his doormat. I dont need to be anybody's second choice(thats how it appeared to me at that time). So i cut off ties with him at that time. I see hin as a friend. N i do feel kinda guilty too. Im a Venus in Aries n leo moon. I do wanna see him happily married with a kid or two. He seems to love my son. He yearns for a family of his. Own. Thank u guys. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3450 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 21, 2014 12:40 PM
I see the little angel bearer of a full cup pouring it into the wounds of a man. The wounds become more intensified and more emotional than just mental pain. There is a more intimate involvement into the situation than 3 of Swords by itself. The person feels very vulnerable and quite sad.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: I see the little angel bearer of a full cup pouring it into the wounds of a man. The wounds become more intensified and more emotional than just mental pain. There is a more intimate involvement into the situation than 3 of Swords by itself. The person feels very vulnerable and quite sad.
Wounds become more intensified and more emotional? God Save me.. Intimate involvement? No. That is impossible. Maybe im misunderstanding what u r trying to say... awww KarkaQueen..
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3450 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 21, 2014 01:01 PM
Intimate As in personal and private If I wanted to say sex I would
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geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 01:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Intimate As in personal and private If I wanted to say sex I would
Oh thanks for clarifying that : )) I know that sex was not in the picture. Personal and private? We have stopped talking anf chatting. Just some random meets with mutual friends.. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 21, 2014 01:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Intimate As in personal and private If I wanted to say sex I would
Actually i feel very SAD. I wanna discuss this with my husband. But transit Pluto is sitting on my desc n his MC. Normally he would say 'do the right thing'. My husband is such a sweetheart : )) IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3450 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 21, 2014 02:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: Oh thanks for clarifying that : )) I know that sex was not in the picture. Personal and private? We have stopped talking anf chatting. Just some random meets with mutual friends..
I believe he still has some intimate feelings and memories of you that are still hurting him.
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4788 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 22, 2014 02:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by geminigal2805: So true. Thanks VenusdiSirius. And Jessica i guess i should be honest here. I was in love with him. But he played the jealous card. I didnt care to be his doormat. I dont need to be anybody's second choice(thats how it appeared to me at that time). So i cut off ties with him at that time. I see hin as a friend. N i do feel kinda guilty too. Im a Venus in Aries n leo moon. I do wanna see him happily married with a kid or two. He seems to love my son. He yearns for a family of his. Own. Thank u guys.
I guessed you knew him..but didn't want to say it.. 3 of swords and ace of cups said it all... yeah, it is emotional torture to be around someone you still love and especially if you haven't found someone to love and be with. At some point it would really hurt to have to let him go but I think yes it would be the right thing to do.. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 22, 2014 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: I believe he still has some intimate feelings and memories of you that are still hurting him.
To quote him ' my best memories are always about u', 'im living in my past'. So yeah KarkaQueen u r right i guess.. he should have moved on long ago. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 22, 2014 11:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I guessed you knew him..but didn't want to say it..3 of swords and ace of cups said it all... yeah, it is emotional torture to be around someone you still love and especially if you haven't found someone to love and be with. At some point it would really hurt to have to let him go but I think yes it would be the right thing to do..
Wow. All these while i thought Ace of cups meant he is moving on or has already moved on. I definitely dont want a three of swords situation. But Jessica i did lose contact with him many times. He somehow gets back with him. He is tormenting himself a n putting me in an awkward situation. I will speak to him openly now. Thank u. This helped a lot. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 22, 2014 11:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I guessed you knew him..but didn't want to say it..3 of swords and ace of cups said it all... ..
But nothing happened between us. Very weird he would still feel attached after all these yrs. Again thanks Jessica. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 543 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 22, 2014 11:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I guessed you knew him..but didn't want to say it..3 of swords and ace of cups said it all... ..
But nothing happened between us. Very weird he would still feel attached after all these yrs. Again thanks Jessica. IP: Logged |