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Topic: Ace of swords-sun-page of cups
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 02:50 AM
As reason for attachment? I asked was his attached to me? What was the reason he's been sticking around? Sense of duty, sex, emotion...I focused on these thoughts concentrating one why he continued to stick around when others would have likely left. Edit: wanted I add that the sun in this deck has two children holding hand playing/dancing in the bright rays of the sun. IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 1091 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 06:43 AM
Great cards!He stays because he finds communicating with your easy and he likes your sunny positive energy and feels blessed, i dont feel any sense of duty here or burdens, he stays because he wants to (are there children involved)? the page could either be a child or because he feels love from you ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/smile.gif)
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 07:29 AM
No, no children. We're not in a relationship which makes this all the more confusing. Most people would've been fed up at this point, but he sort of resigned himself to the way things are without any indication that he's going anywhere. I expected the Emperor to show up here. IP: Logged |
redshoes Knowflake Posts: 1091 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 07:52 AM
He just really likes you then ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/smile.gif) Do you feel the same way? The Emperor could indicate that he is trying to dominate you, but doesnt sound like he is? What sign is he? ![](http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/smile.gif) IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 11:06 AM
He's currently in a relationship with someone else, but yes I do like him. Oddly enough I've pulled 8 of swords for him twice in regards to his relationship. Anywho...he's emperor -like in that he's set in his ways. Not controlling but more practical. If something is useful (not just an object but opinions and such), he keeps it, if not he discards it. The ace of swords made me think that he possibly likes the mental connection, maybe even debating things with me. The page confused me, it's like a possibility of love... IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 08:24 PM
Anyone else?IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite Moderator Posts: 2249 From: Zanguin :3 Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 23, 2014 08:36 PM
I was looking at the three cards in my head as subject-verb-object.I want to take a guess here that you make him feel connected to feelings that he's either never felt before or used to feel but never had a chance to develop. An emotional awakening to feelings that he hasn't experienced, and currently is not, with anyone else. He wants to know why he feels this way as well. I'm kind of bad when it comes to hiding feeling happy. I will grin like an idiot for no reason and my family always laughs at me because they know it's usually a boy that makes me feel like that. I kind of see it that you make this person feel like that as well. If the normally stoic Emperor can't help but smile every time he thinks about you and your interaction with one another, he wants to know why this is happening and particularly why you. My basic $0.02. I hope that helps. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 09:51 PM
Because he should date me and is an idiot for not doing so. We just got into another small argument. Idk, maybe I was being irrational. Or approaching the situation wrong. IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite Moderator Posts: 2249 From: Zanguin :3 Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 23, 2014 10:08 PM
If he's dating someone else, he needs to make a decision and stop playing around. I see the potential for a strong relationship. Not like this though. I wonder if he may be the prince of cups that I pulled for happening in the next month or if it's someone else. How did you two become attracted to one another? IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 23, 2014 10:40 PM
For me it was gradual. He caught my attention when he mentioned a book I love that so few people I know have read. Then I decided to randomly ask him for advice one and he ended up became someone I could depend on. I think he was always initially attracted to me. I wasn't really in the place to be looking for a lover when we met. I was in love with someone else and just in a messed up place mentally and emotionally. He's said that he's not romantically attracted to me, but he's got moon conjunct venus tightly squared Uranus so my theory is that he always chooses girls that are wrong for him because then there will be no real commitment and he'll be free. And free from emotional rejection. I have moon square Uranus so I've pondered it quite a bit. IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite Moderator Posts: 2249 From: Zanguin :3 Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 24, 2014 12:04 AM
What is your intentions overall when it comes to love and romance? Do you want to have a relationship, looking for fun, or do you want to be single(or whatever choice you have)?IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 12:17 AM
I'm going with the flow. If I find someone I like then I'll get to know them better. I'm in no rush. The important thing for me is to be in a healthy relationship. All of mine have been abusive in some way. (Only 3 serious relationships). If I find someone and it's just fun then it'll be just fun. I don't have high hopes or expectations. IP: Logged |
MetalAphrodite Moderator Posts: 2249 From: Zanguin :3 Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 24, 2014 12:27 AM
I'm in the same boat. I'm concerned that the page of cups here won't graduate to a prince of cups for his princess of cups without some sternness on your part. Or what if prince of cups is someone completely different?Idk, but if he knows and feels that connection to you, I think he knows what he should do to be able to do right by you. Have you guys officially said there are mutual feelings between you two? IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 12:40 AM
I told him I like him and he said he's not romantically (relationship-wise) attracted to me. We were friends with benefits, but friends for many months before. It just kinda happened. I never planned for any of it. It's why I asked the question of why he's stuck around all this time. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5607 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 01:16 PM
Cool cards, I agree. But I don't think they would be satisfying to you. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 03:02 PM
Venus- How do you mean?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 5607 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 04:50 PM
I think Page of Cups speaks of endearment only. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 24, 2014 05:45 PM
That could be wearing off... *sighs* I appear to have more self-work to do. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 3053 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 30, 2014 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: I think Page of Cups speaks of endearment only.
This isn't so bad...much better than the reasons I had in mind. IP: Logged |