posted June 18, 2014 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Oh I could see this as very possible.

However I would like to understand what made you come to this conclusion.

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So you asked how is he going to proceed next. I looked at the key as the solution. But with crossroads + sun it looked to me as showing that he has many options how to proceed and therefore with the key at the end to me it seemed he wants the decision how to proceed to be made by someone else because he himself is at a crossroads.

If the spread was key + sun + heart well then I would have interpreted it to mean he decided to open up to your relationship.

Like I said I could be totally wrong... Its just that with 3 card spread depending on the question I look at the last card as the outcome and the other 2 as explanation to it...

posted June 18, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
It has been predicted that he will come back to me when i am with a new man, dont they always lol...you will meet some one new too of course

I think the guy in your reading wants to meet up with you and is into you but something is gnawing away at him, he is worried about what will happen (if he is going away that makes sense). Onto the next one!!

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I was told that too! When my ex will contact me I'll be with someone else.

posted June 18, 2014 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I was told that too! When my ex will contact me I'll be with someone else.

I did the reading about the guy in a few different spreads and the rider appeared in each one... Since we're both leaving I guess nothing can be done ( he's got a gf so I wouldn't do anything but I'm just going to miss his company and with the mice there I hope he's going to miss me too )

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posted June 19, 2014 05:37 AM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
So you asked how is he going to proceed next. I looked at the key as the solution. But with crossroads + sun it looked to me as showing that he has many options how to proceed and therefore with the key at the end to me it seemed he wants the decision how to proceed to be made by someone else because he himself is at a crossroads.

If the spread was key + sun + heart well then I would have interpreted it to mean he decided to open up to your relationship.

Like I said I could be totally wrong... Its just that with 3 card spread depending on the question I look at the last card as the outcome and the other 2 as explanation to it...

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Thanks for explaining. I understand.

I tend to see the central card as focal one, but it makes sense to view the right one as future-oriented.

The key is an interestin one for me, cause it seems to be more a card of emphasis, and it emphasizes what is surrounding it. maybe I should have drawn a clarifier as it was the last card in this spread.

Or the future is simply unwritten.

posted June 19, 2014 10:26 AM            

moon-cross-luck

i am always wary of the cross card as it can means burdens and heartache but as it is next to good cards, i feel it may mean destiny...i wonder if the moon relates to romance and the clover a fortunate outcome. Hmmm moon and cross = emotional burden, so maybe not so positive?

posted June 19, 2014 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
maybe the emotional pain, which shows the depth of feeling, can over a bit of time lead to an overall improvement.

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posted June 19, 2014 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
yes, the cross is unavoidable, karmic, destined, and often comes with considerable pain, yes

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posted June 19, 2014 03:56 PM            

Snake is his wife.
Ship in the case represents he is overseas.
I guess he will contact me and tell me his feelings (letter + heart).
But will he be stupid enough to contact whist he's still with his wife? The only thing that makes me feel better is that the man is with his back to the snake ...

posted June 19, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:

Especially as I was asking about him and myself, it's from my point of you. So for me she's the other woman.

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posted June 19, 2014 07:44 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I asked that will happen between my and the ex and got - letter + heart + ship + man + snake.

Snake is his wife.
Ship in the case represents he is overseas.
I guess he will contact me and tell me his feelings (letter + heart).
But will he be stupid enough to contact whist he's still with his wife? The only thing that makes me feel better is that the man is with his back to the snake ...

Dunno, will see...

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Hi Star

posted June 19, 2014 07:55 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
Hi Star

Maybe because the man has his back to the snake, he will do this *behind her back* ~ sorry, but that came in quite strong xx

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posted June 20, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
That is good to hear! Same here ~ hell will have to freeze over before i did too *applause* for us

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posted June 20, 2014 01:21 PM            

So i asked what would the next man who i went on a date with be like (as it has been so long)

garden-lillies-ship-fish-clouds

does the second card point to an older man or one who is mature? the ship made me feel either he is from abroad, or i will travel to see him with the garden being a meeting place..fish i thought could mean he has money but the clouds card left me feeling as though there would be some confusion about him....as though he wasnt as he seemed or maybe hiding something?

Anyone?

posted June 20, 2014 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
You bet sister!

So i asked what would the next man who i went on a date with be like (as it has been so long)

garden-lillies-ship-fish-clouds

does the second card point to an older man or one who is mature? the ship made me feel either he is from abroad, or i will travel to see him with the garden being a meeting place..fish i thought could mean he has money but the clouds card left me feeling as though there would be some confusion about him....as though he wasnt as he seemed or maybe hiding something?

Anyone?

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Are you planning on travel ?

Maybe you meet an older man or more mature man while traveling ( ship is focus card) clouds could be actual clouds ( on a plane ).
Or he travels a good bit.

posted June 20, 2014 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
So i asked what would the next man who i went on a date with be like (as it has been so long)

garden-lillies-ship-fish-clouds

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I think the guy you'll date next will be financially stable and mature. He might be a foreigner or travels a lot with work. He is very social (garden ) and might go to many business events.
I think the clouds show that when you'll meet him his lifemmight be a bit cloudy, maybe things won't go that well for him or he won't be sure what's going on.

posted June 20, 2014 07:32 PM            

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Originally posted by St@r2013:
I think the guy you'll date next will be financially stable and mature. He might be a foreigner or travels a lot with work. He is very social (garden ) and might go to many business events.
I think the clouds show that when you'll meet him his lifemmight be a bit cloudy, maybe things won't go that well for him or he won't be sure what's going on.

I read your and Vesta's interpretation, I don't disagree but wanted to give a different point of view

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posted June 21, 2014 08:31 AM            

So I was asking about the underlying reason for this fatigue, and decided to do a 5 line spread.

Dog - house - anchor - heart - garden

key: anchor
theme: house-anchor-heart
background/past: dog-house
near future: heart-garden
influences: house-heart and dog-garden

I looked up the combinations for this

Theme:
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House + anchor (35): long-term security, commitment to family

Anchor + heart (24): long-term love, faithful, loyal, certain love

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Dog + house (4): pet, doghouse, family friend, neighbor

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Heart + garden (20): uncommitted, player, multiple partners, public displays of affection

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House + heart (24): loving family, lovely house

Dog + garden (20): social acquaintance, networking, popular friend, meeting a friend at an event

Seems the real reason for my fatigue is me having to process the emotional development; which makes sense judging from my past, even happy emotional excitement can feel very exhausting to me. And I have had received a lot of nice comments, appreciation and had a lot of contact and communication, within my close environment as well as on these public events especially over the last week, and while I am very happy about it, it also threw me off balance a little, indicating just how much my life (or my perspecitve on my role in my own life) has changed.

Add to that that I actually shed over 2 kilos in the last 2 weeks, which is quite a bit (usually i do not lose more than about 400 gram per week). It just shows that much is going on I suppose, and I`d say someone (or even more) certainly pulled at my heart`s strings (heart and anchor maybe?)

posted June 21, 2014 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by redshoes:
Thanks Vesta and Star! No plans to travel but it would be very nice to meet a man that is secure financially as it will be a first!! Maybe i will confuse him and upset his orderly life lol... . Will keep you posted!

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