posted July 17, 2014 05:55 AM            

one deck tells me

knight of cups -7 of pentacles -10 of cups

another one tells me

posted July 17, 2014 07:43 AM            

because I want him to leave!

I asked another deck

9 of pents - the fool - 2 of cups

posted July 19, 2014 01:23 PM            

One has already taken some risks, here. And while the "fruition" may not be 100% successful, we're not talking about the failure in 7/P.

Will is important, of course, 7 fall under The Chariot.

posted July 21, 2014 07:06 AM            

9 of pents - 10 of pents - the star

another deck

the star - the devil - 5 of wands

posted July 21, 2014 06:37 PM            

The 2nd is more concrete... Wishing (Star) to provoke (Devil) you into action (5 of Wands) = if I read this linearly.

If I read it like I'd read one of my own... I'd say they're very toxic and very determined against you. Devil + 5 of Wands corrupt the Star, her waters.

posted July 22, 2014 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
The 1st spread is so positive, it's an eyesore. All eyes set on you. Random thought: They are not sociopathic, are they? (yes, I know I using the wrong term)

The 2nd is more concrete... Wishing (Star) to provoke (Devil) you into action (5 of Wands) = if I read this linearly.

If I read it like I'd read one of my own... I'd say they're very toxic and very determined against you. Devil + 5 of Wands corrupt the Star, her waters.

They are not going away.

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What makes you say sociopath?? Is it the pentacle cards?

Yeah my cards speak in a very linear way. I knew the second deck would give it to me as it is.. Hmm it's starting to make sense to me!

Thanks so much for your insight venus!

posted July 24, 2014 07:17 AM            

Now - why would "good" cards show somebody like that? Most likely they're unaware of the damage they can create. They can't process it. They can't connect something bad to their personality (the spread had Sun (!) too) - to think them bad, they would unravel in horror.

- It's like the perfectly wrapped present from he'll - it looks so good and at some point a red flag starts rising. Of course, it's hard to shake off this sort of impression - and furthermore you end up saying to yourself "Paranoid!" "Take a chill pill" and so on.

That's the issue when you're drawing for yourself - you project more than usual.

If your tell-it-like-it-is deck shows a Devil, then I would think you're wise to want them away from you.

We always say the context and the rest of the spread is important before reaching to the conclusion, but Devil is never a naive card. It means business. Maybe Devil can spin a more malignant meaning to 5/W.

If you're intent on keeping them away - and by looking at both of the spreads - I can't imagine what keeps them so hopeful that there will be some kind of development.

posted July 25, 2014 02:40 AM            

I don't think the person is a bad person or is someone who is against me as wanting to specifically hurt me. This is after all a love interest. Someone I have been talking to for a long time. Someone I have constructed a rapport with. However, the overall situation is not what anyone would like to be in considering it is a relationship. I was thrown off by the cards that I was drawing that didn't mirror the situation at all. I took in what you said and I was mulling over the cards yesterday night and I'd say the person is refusing to accept that I have decided to no longer encourage this situation.That he is actually waiting for 'this mood to pass' It is very irritating.

posted July 30, 2014 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Gosh, they are optimistic.

If you take 5/W with a light hearted spin on it (childlike really) maybe he feels this is just a whim you won't let go of?

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Yep you were right.

I don't understand it. and my cards are not helping