posted October 16, 2014 05:34 PM            

Hope someone can shed some light on a little dilemma I'm having. I did a Grand Tableau and this little combo came up - yes, the question was if he and I will be a couple and/or what can I expect in my love life in either case. Now, I am not a very experienced Lenormand reader, but whenever I asked about the potential of a relationship and the Man was behind me.. it never worked out. So my heart skipped a tiny beat when I saw that he is behind me, but the connection between us seems so good (Ring)? What do you guys think? He seems to have friendzoned me and I'm too proud of a fire woman to woo him back.

For the record, the GT was something like..

Stork---Snake---Ship---Birds---Fish---Cross---Book---Tower
Man---Ring---Woman---Rider---Heart----Lilly---Clover---Garden
Key----Fox-----Stars-----Tree----Child---Clouds---Scythe---Anchor
Coffin---Mice---Roads--House--Flowers-Mountain--Dog---Whip
-------------------Moon----Bear-----Letter----Sun-------------------------

Thank you!

posted October 17, 2014 02:34 AM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Maybe he's ending something?

While ring is positive between Man and woman it's more of an obligation kept or promise kept. If it was Heart it would be more of an emotional connection.

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He ended something a while ago, his marriage..

I see.. it doesn't fully make sense to me, because there was no commitment or promise made.

posted October 17, 2014 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I would look at the cards surrounding each card before calling it. The ring is topped by Snake and something else, and the man - the key and ...something else (lol i can't remember). You being topped by the Ship and Star makes me feel you'll move on to something closer to your dreams or closer to your ideal.

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That was my impression also. Whenever the guy is behind me, I'm moving on to something/someone else. The Stars are beneath me though. But I like my future cards a lot. I hesitated again because he shows up as Lilly a lot, but since I specifically asked about him, I cannot have him as anything else but the Man, no? Despite leaving him behind, this is one of the most positive spreads I have had in quite a while. I don't believe it yet lol, but it is a bit encouraging on some level.

posted October 17, 2014 02:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
That was my impression also. Whenever the guy is behind me, I'm moving on to something/someone else. The Stars are beneath me though. But I like my future cards a lot. I hesitated again because he shows up as Lilly a lot, but since I specifically asked about him, I cannot have him as anything else but the Man, no? Despite leaving him behind, this is one of the most positive spreads I have had in quite a while. I don't believe it yet lol, but it is a bit encouraging on some level.

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posted October 17, 2014 10:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
That's how I learned it too. So it's bad lol.

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posted October 17, 2014 10:18 AM            

I'll take a look at yours.

posted October 18, 2014 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
What do you mean by "charge the man card"?

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posted October 18, 2014 11:56 PM            

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Originally posted by littlecloud:
Do you do this before you shuffle/draw?

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posted October 19, 2014 04:55 AM            

Do you guys also get the impression that.. uhm.. someone from the past might be that someone in my future?

posted October 19, 2014 12:17 PM            

I did another GT asking about him.. I'll post it soon. There we have Woman-Man-Sun. Funny how cheeky my cards are, the dude from my present shows up in my past, the one from my past shows up in my future.

I knew that, about cards' position, yes.. I forget to look at the "houses" though. Man is on Flowers, Ring is on Scythe.. some union does come to an end. Coffin sits on the house of the Ring.. Definitely.

On the other hand, Heart sits on the Child house = a new beginning in love; Anchor sits on the Heart house - a steady one, long term one.

I don't trust this anymore lol.

posted October 19, 2014 12:29 PM            

The GT on him looks like this:

Garden--Clouds---Moon----Book----Ship----Woman----Man----Sun
Stork----Tower----Anchor----House----Fox----Mice----Letter----Dog
Heart----Fish-----Birds-----Flowers----Stars----Child----Ring----Bear
Coffin----Lilly----Whip------Snake----Rider----Tree----Clover----Scythe
------------------------Key----Roads----Cross--Mountain---------------------------

posted October 19, 2014 12:56 PM            

I initially got worried about that Ring in his present. I knew he was with someone.. I thought omg he's gonna tell me they're getting married. I've written to him on FB but he hasn't replied yet. However, he deleted his pictures with her, so maybe he is single once again (I usually don't vibrate so strongly about him unless he is.. but who knows.. it's been 8 years lol).

I noticed Coffin on the Ring house again.. who knows what that's about.

I got worried about the fate line too.. Key-Roads-Cross-Mountain.. I will need to make a choice between these two guys for certain. Bull and I, despite having profound feelings for one another, have not been able to be together, even during that famous Sun-Venus progressed conjunction. We have always had obstacle after obstacle after obstacle coming our way. And we're VERY karmic. So Cross-Mountain make a lot of sense. We also think we've been cursed (we started as a love triangle). Whip+Snake make a lot of sense. They're in diagonal from where we're sitting, but in the past. Idk what to say though. I'm rarely, if ever, objective when it comes to him.