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From: Alexandria, VA
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posted January 06, 2015 08:40 PM            

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I have been getting this card a lot lately cause I am obsessed with an ex which I am trying desperately to move past from. I keep busy but when I'm not busy...there he is in my head again. I know it's a process but god I wish it would end.

What does the 10's represent...the culmination of that suit (good and bad) the end of that feeling/situation.

Or....
could it mean to actually STOP?

For Example: i asked if an ex wanted to be friends.

10 of SW
3 of Pt
Justice R

I read this as a "STOP" trying what's done is done spread.

Thoughts?

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posted January 06, 2015 10:05 PM            

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I would agree especially with Justice, kinda like you won't find that peace or final verdict.

If you really want to get past him start by not reading about him. I'm sure the feelings you have for him won't disappear or go away for a while but you can make a conscious effort to stop caring and putting energy into him by doing readings or other things. Sometimes. The best thing to do is to let yourself mourn. Let yourself feel bad and cry. Just don't let it be the controlling factor in your daily life. Say yes if your friends invite your out. You'll thank yourself later.

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posted January 06, 2015 10:35 PM            

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Ha, yeah...the readings are doing it to me or I'm doing it to myself. I must stop...put the cards away for awhile, force myself not to ask about him. Like you said, Mourn.

Thank you for your kind words.

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