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posted March 18, 2015 03:10 PM            

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I asked whether I should cut my "friend" out of my life? (I have some good reason).

I got whip + book + mountain.

However, I am not too sure how to interpret this.

Do these cards mean no, and that if I do... it will cause further distance between us?

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posted March 19, 2015 02:12 PM            

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Isn't cutting out supposed to bring distance?
I suggest you always ask in a manner so that the positive cards reflect what you want. For example, in this case, if you don't want to cut him out, but feel compelled to do so because he deserves it or if you actually want to cut him out because this will help you two reconnect better (a strategic cut-out), I think your should ask: "Will cutting out my friend bring us closer eventually?"
Positive cards would mean what you really want is possible.
Or "is cutting him out the best thing for me" (that would be an "asking for advice" approach) although I personally suggest as many open answers spreads as possible: for example, "what is the best course of action with this guy?" and the cards will show you, rather than a yes/no question.

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posted March 26, 2015 05:36 PM            

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Whip + Book + Mountains

Sure, there's no "Scythe," but maybe that means the removal won't be that cut and dry. This spread spoke to me as there are secrets that make being friends an obstacle for you and it hurts (Whip). If you like emotional torture then yes, be his friend lol, but otherwise with those cards I would take it as no you should not be his friend or have him in your life. Whatever you want to happen will be stonewalled at the moment (Mountain.)

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