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Topic: How do these cards represent fears: Fool, Judgement, Strength
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Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 3281
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 23, 2015 01:14 PM
  
I asked this question about my relationship: what fears does my bf have?I ask because I have many anxieties and uncertainties. We are certainly similar in that respect, and I wondered whether tarot cards could reveal these. What I got was Fool, Judgement, Strength - in that order. Am wondering if these would make more sense if interpreted as past, present, future. Perhaps he is nervous of following his heart and finding that it misled him. He wasn't actually in love, or the thing he loved was not as he thought. Judgment is reflecting his internal conflict about making a big decision. However, the future will bring greater decisiveness and fears will be laid to rest?? Any other interpretations please? IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 4134
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posted April 23, 2015 01:18 PM
I would say its breaking apart and not being together anymore. A new start without each other that requires a great death of strength to deal with.IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87
Moderator Posts: 3845
From: Curitiba, Brasil
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 23, 2015 01:21 PM
Let's see...Fool, here he can fear to start new things, to be like a child that will learn but don't know what will face ahead!!! Judgement, the fear of the the awakening for new things, to leave behind the things he hd for sure in his life... Strength, the fear of his own strength... So, for this combo I see that his biggest fear is to learn new things, change with them and don't know how to do with this new strength he can get. I see that your relationship with him will start to teach more him about things than he sees right now. He's sensing that these things will reflect in a manner he may not be prepared to deal. Boys... who understands them??  IP: Logged |
Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 3281
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 23, 2015 01:23 PM
So, could it be that is something he fears if that was in response to my question? What if we had to break apart, for example.Edit:
Oh, just saw your post Dani. Very insightful  . He is fearful of the unknown - new territory where he is unsure of his footing. Whereas I like and look forward to the new. Yes, who said men were simple! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 11326
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 24, 2015 06:21 AM
Interesting  Personally, I don't think he has fears about the issue, based on this spread.
Did you use majors only? ------------------
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Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 3281
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 24, 2015 09:20 AM
Nope. It was surprising that only majors came up. So, it must have been significant. How would you interpret?IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 11326
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 24, 2015 09:22 AM
He doesn't have fears/insecurities in this relationship, he feels strong and/or on top of the game, this is what I see.------------------
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Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 3281
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 24, 2015 09:27 AM
Wow! That's a new angle - I've often been told otherwise, so have been thinking along those lines. Very good, if that is the case. Maybe I'm projecting on him.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 11326
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 24, 2015 09:35 AM
That would be a BFF stereotype, AK, you know that ladies always say that to each other, with good intentions, of course  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 11326
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 24, 2015 12:11 PM
I was just trying to say, AK, that girls say this to each other: "he's afraid of his feelings for you"; personally, I believe it's a bit of a misconception about male psychology. It sometimes happens though, with men/people who are very very insecure about themselves, they prefer to withdraw rather than being rejected; it usually happens at the beginning of relationships, not with old ones; it happens very rarely though, IMO. In most cases, when women believe men are evasive because they fear something - to be understood I am rambling here about the issue, not about your particular case- they are actually evasive because they feel confident about the woman, they are sure of her, so why being decisive when you can get what you want anyway? It's that psychological game/situation. ------------------
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Astro keen
Knowflake Posts: 3281
From: UK
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 24, 2015 01:10 PM
Ok, that's much clearer ! So, moral of the story is - don't fall into his arms quite so readily . Actually, female psych is not so different. I get bored with the one who plies me with attention. Was trying to figure out why - surely it doesn't make sense to be less impressed by ones who like you so obviously - unless, one has low self-esteem. But that couldn't generally apply to all. Weird! Women too find the unattainable more exciting, I guess. IP: Logged |
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