posted November 08, 2015 01:34 PM            

I saw you were asking about a spread on finding the truth ( aint nobody want that).

here are two spreads, you may find them interesting:

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Harsh Truths Spread

1*3*2
4*6*5

1. What you want to see/believe
2. What you don't want to see/believe
3. What is true
4. What you want to happen
5. What you don't want to happen
6. What will happen

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"Just the Facts" spread

*1*2*3*4*5*
*****6*****

posted November 08, 2015 02:44 PM            

1. What you want to see/believe
Six of cups:
I was childish and innocent at that time.

2. What you don't want to see/believe
Three of cups:
Me celebrating with him is not the thing I want to see.

3. What is true
Two of wands:
I am heading to my new beginning and I like it.

4. What you want to happen
Two of swords:
Yepp- I want to have my freedom and that from the bottom of my heart.

5. What you don't want to happen:
The Sun:
and no comment.

posted November 08, 2015 03:31 PM            

2. 3/C = "that it was a fling"

3. 2/W = "it was a [romantic] conquest, though" *

4. 2/S = "you are not sure"

5. The Sun = "the truth!" **

6. King/W = "it's up to this man, who may be a ser boast-a-lot, but he's sexy too"

* Was there another woman for him? 2s can point to that... But, I guess we'd get a Queen here.

posted November 08, 2015 03:55 PM            

4. 2/S = "you are not sure"
I have not thought about it that way. The woman always reminds me of : "I do not want to see anymore!"

6. King/W = "it's up to this man, who may be a ser boast-a-lot, but he's sexy too"
He is a busy bee in a large field of flowers .

posted November 09, 2015 03:00 AM            

Leave me your question.

Do you want tarot or runes?

posted November 09, 2015 01:25 PM            

my question would be about the harsh truth about the connection between P and me.

I prefer tarot, but if you feel more resonance with Runes, that is okay for me, too.
Whatever speaks to you.

posted November 09, 2015 02:43 PM            

Mine:

The harsh truth of me and R?

posted November 09, 2015 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:

The harsh truth of me and R?

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I will do yours with tarot, too.

1. What you want to see/believe
JUDGEMENT

2. What you don't want to see/believe
DEVIL

3. What is true
NINE of CUPS

4. What you want to happen
HANGED MAN

5. What you don't want to happen
SIX of WANDS

6. What will happen
KING of WANDS (clarifier: Knight of Pentacles)

What you want to believe is that you are at a crossroad, where a serious reevaluation is being undertaken, and either a relationship that was thought of as dead revive again, or possibly even the other way round, to lay a relationship, that has not been working too well to rest and move on in your life.

What you donīt want to see however is just how much temptation and sexual attraction and chemistry is still running between the two of you, being addictive even, a feeling like despite what you consciously may want, you still feel attached to him and the relationship (or you both do.)

What is true is that there is a wealth of emotion at the basis. There is emotional satisfaction (or at least could be, if you allowed yourself to feel it), though as this is a 9-card, it means you are in a preparation/ waiting phase, before the good can really surface.

With the HANGED MAN It almost seems like you want a "time out", keeping things hanging a little before doing something about it, moving the relationship in a certain direction. Also it means that you want a total change of perspective (sort of seeing the world upside down)

What you donīt want to happen is a victory? LOL
Or actually the initial thought was: to not be another conquest.
Is he flirting with other girls?

Or maybe you donīt want it to be purely physical.

What will happen, King of Wands, I clarified hoping to not pull a suit card, yeah my luck. LOL

Anyway HE will happen probably, or if it is more symbolical, a mature passionate relatedness will happen, and with the Knight of Pentacles it seems to be something lasting that you build up over time.

posted November 09, 2015 03:13 PM            

It is interesting that every card wanted to be the first and nothing wanted to be said. It was like an answer that does not want to be heard.

As I am a newbie to those cards nothing has to be true.

1*3*2
4*6*5

What you want to see/believe
Temperance:
With this card here it could be that you see yourself in a partnership with P.

What you don't want to see/believe
King of Pentacles
Whenever P is represented here he may be bond to his status and career.

What is true
Strength
You are a strong person. With this strength come responsibilities along. You have the ability to control your actions and/or emotions.

What you want to happen
Ace of Swords
Maybe this card came up here to tell you to put your creative thought into action with a little spice of courage.

What you don't want to happen
Two of Wands
Can it be that you do not want to have a relationship with P?

What will happen
Ten of Wands – clarified by 8 of cups
With those cards here you and P have challenging circumstances at the moment and some big changes are ahead in your life.

posted November 09, 2015 03:24 PM            

"Temperance:
With this card here it could be that you see yourself in a partnership with P."

I see it differently, in that I want to believe that some form of balance has been achieved and is being achieved, coupled with the necessary mending/ healing.
Also that things get calmer (at least for me)

What you don't want to see/believe
King of Pentacles

Well that represents his marriage I think.
No, of course I wasn`t too fond of that, but I totally believe it.

"What is true
Strength"
This one stumps me a little. But I think it is a little resonating with the Temperance card, in that everything can be tempered and kept in check.

"at you want to happen
Ace of Swords"
A cut, I think.
Maybe also clarity, I donīt know.
Yes, mental creativity could also be part of it.

"What you don't want to happen
Two of Wands"
This stalemate of wills.

"Can it be that you do not want to have a relationship with P?"
No, I certainly donīt.

"What will happen
Ten of Wands – clarified by 8 of cups
With those cards here you and P have challenging circumstances at the moment and some big changes are ahead in your life."
Yes I think that is true. Seems the burden will have to be carried for a little while longer (10 of wands). But though the 8 of cups is a gloomy card, it also shows that the change for something better will happen.
Which only will happen if the past can be left behind (8 of cups) instead of being like a deadweight carried around (10 of wands).

posted November 09, 2015 03:31 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What you want to believe is that you are at a crossroad, where a serious reevaluation is being undertaken, and either a relationship that was thought of as dead revive again, or possibly even the other way round, to lay a relationship, that has not been working too well to rest and move on in your life.

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quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What you donīt want to see however is just how much temptation and sexual attraction and chemistry is still running between the two of you, being addictive even, a feeling like despite what you consciously may want, you still feel attached to him and the relationship (or you both do.)

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quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What is true is that there is a wealth of emotion at the basis. There is emotional satisfaction (or at least could be, if you allowed yourself to feel it), though as this is a 9-card, it means you are in a preparation/ waiting phase, before the good can really surface.

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quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
With the HANGED MAN It almost seems like you want a "time out", keeping things hanging a little before doing something about it, moving the relationship in a certain direction. Also it means that you want a total change of perspective (sort of seeing the world upside down)

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quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What you donīt want to happen is a victory? LOL
Or actually the initial thought was: to not be another conquest.
Is he flirting with other girls?

Or maybe you donīt want it to be purely physical.

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quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
What will happen, King of Wands, I clarified hoping to not pull a suit card, yeah my luck. LOL

Anyway HE will happen probably, or if it is more symbolical, a mature passionate relatedness will happen, and with the Knight of Pentacles it seems to be something lasting that you build up over time.

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Did you notice that R and X are different men but are both King of wands.

posted November 09, 2015 03:36 PM            

No I actually did not notice, but yeah, go for the King of Cups then.

With the courtcards coming up as last position, it could be that he is somehow going to be "very present", not really dominant (though the thought crossed my mind). Is the divorce finalized?
Or could that be why he is still coming up as the man in your cards?

posted November 09, 2015 03:36 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Shall we exchange again, just me with Leno and you with runes, for a combination with those spreads we did?

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Thank you for the feedback! It helps to improve.

Yes of course. What is your next truth that you want to reveal?

Mine:

posted November 09, 2015 03:44 PM            

sure. I`d be delighted.

posted November 09, 2015 03:45 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
LOL

No I actually did not notice, but yeah, go for the King of Cups then.

With the courtcards coming up as last position, it could be that he is somehow going to be "very present", not really dominant (though the thought crossed my mind). Is the divorce finalized?
Or could that be why he is still coming up as the man in your cards?

Alternatively, one of my thoughts (unexperessed) when seeing the King and Knight was that there could another man "happen". Maybe a tad younger.

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He lives a little bit longer on my ground in a seperate building.
I do not mind and it helps me to heal.

posted November 09, 2015 03:48 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
(not that it was a really delightful spread, but very realistic)

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I like the truth. It helps me sometimes to turn a siuation and make the best out of it.

posted November 09, 2015 03:50 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
H Does that belong to the definition of "tad"?

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