posted November 23, 2016 02:45 PM            

In a recent reading for the question, 'what will my dinner date be like? " I got
6 of swords, judgement, sun
I took 6 of swords as indicating past events, but it turned out that the dinner date got cancelled because of a disagreement. So, 6 of swords was predictive of the future.

posted November 24, 2016 05:53 AM            

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted December 04, 2016 12:01 AM            

7 of Cups, King of Pentacles, 5 of Cups RX

The King sits in the middle here - since I asked about a couple, I would look at this spread and tell my querent that what happens next depends on him. In my deck, the king is looking to the left - away from the 5 of Cups RX, which for me might suggest that he is (or was very recently) pretty down in the dumps and is looking toward the future. He may be feeling overwhelmed yet slightly hopeful about the fact that he can do whatever he wants next - it's as though he's been freed from a very hopeless situation and now doesn't know exactly what to do with his newfound freedom. As he's looking at the 7 of Cups, the right thing to do feels elusive and he stares into a fog. Because he is of Pentacles, he will take his time to make the right choice for himself. Because the 7 of Cups appeared here I would think that my querent was somehow being factored in to his decision in some way, whether directly (Should I date her?) or indirectly (Do I want people like her in my life?).

To answer my querent's question, I would tell her that the guy in question has to start the process of making better choices for himself, so things will move slow between them and he may be a little back and forth while he tries to figure that out. But he will likely be in touch and wanting to explore the potential between them a bit more than he did in the past. It will be a period of getting more acquainted with a warning that she may not be the only option he's entertaining so take things slow.

posted December 04, 2016 11:40 AM            

I tried a spread for a question:
What would happen between my ex and me if we reconnected?
2 of swords, 9 of cups, hermit
9 of cups speaks of wish fulfilment -the card shows a man about to awaken a sleeping women (kinda like a sleeping beauty). But is this really what I want? Two of swords speaks of fears that might colour the relationship, someone withholding affections or not being fully involved. I could be one with fears - not sure who is being indicated here. Hermit can indicate a variety to things. The relationship will lead me on a journey of self-discovery; it may end in a separation - that would be indicated by Hermit in a future position; Hermit may be him - someone who is likely to be distant emotionally.

posted December 04, 2016 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Thanks FmVenus. That is helpful.

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yay. I'm glad

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
I tried a spread for a question:
What would happen between my ex and me if we reconnected?
2 of swords, 9 of cups, hermit
Would like to hear what you think .

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I don't know that this type of pull will help you get a good answer for this kind of question. I usually only use an open 3-card pull for "What's ahead for me? What's going to happen with this? How will things change between me and someone in the next few months?" - these are all pretty vague questions. Since there isn't a specific thing to hone in on, I think the open 3-card pull works really well here because it allows for anything to come through - usually what comes through is the main theme or is a main event and is usually pretty accurate.

Your question is situational and would probably do better with a "Pros/Cons" spread or something that gives you a bigger picture of how re-connecting with your ex would affect you and him. A few more cards and a structured spread would give you more clarity and allow you to make a more informed decision.