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Topic: Why won't this man tell me the truth about spying on me?
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whitewitch111 Knowflake Posts: 3371 From: Hillsboro, OR, USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted February 26, 2017 05:46 PM
The Tower King of Wands King of Cups The ChariotHe was spying on me for a man who was and may still be in love with me. But now that its over I just don't understand why he won't tell me the truth. Maybe he feels like he doesn't want to betray the person? The man who spied is the King of Wands and the man who loved/loves me is the King of Cups. So, is it a pride thing? Do they feel upset about being found out, or were not expecting me to confront him? I asked if they are still talking. nine of wands the lovers eight of pentacles ten of wands I don't personally think they are. But they definitely have in the past week. I think either the King of Wands(spy) or person he was spying for, King of cups has decided to drop the burden of it. That it is just too much work. What do you all see? Any help would be most appreciated. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78430 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 27, 2017 10:48 AM
Hope you figure it out.IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 1275 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted April 20, 2017 11:42 PM
I have dealt with similar situations and thought of all reasons, also observations from those persons and their actions to better conclude things.If he is currently doing this, I think that there could be several things that he may be trying to do. 1. He may want to see how you are doing to figure out if he has a chance to rekindle things in the future. Admitting this might would cause you not to want something in the future as it may be too intense for you or he may feel like you would judge him for it. 2. It may be his own comfort to know that you are ok and doing well as he still cares for you. 3. He may use this information to find ways to connect to you in some way. Hopefully it is innocent and nothing bad results from the situation.
I find that sometimes, for whatever reasons for some to admit would one possibly land them in trouble or that they may be too ashamed to admit it. I personally have had a few people in my life who seemed to allow things to be known without actually telling me this is what they were doing. It is hard for me because I don't do this therefor leading me to just observe the situation , things said and action taken. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78430 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 21, 2017 05:05 PM
Good advice.IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 1275 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted April 21, 2017 11:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Good advice.
Thank you Randall!!! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 78430 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2017 03:06 PM
You usually do!IP: Logged |