posted November 27, 2005 03:56 AM              

It is very appreciated man, really it is....

I send you love and magick from Ireland

posted November 27, 2005 02:40 PM              

I've never had sex with anyone I didn't respect or care about in some way or vice versa, but that's just me. Whatever floats your boat is the name of the game as long as no one gets hurt.

Enjoy yourselves!

posted November 30, 2005 10:24 AM              

Being a massage therapist, sex for me is definately more than a purely physical act. Touch in general is definately therapeutic, and combine that with the magic of sex, utterly mind blowing.

Sex, to me, is something that should not be shameful or elicit feelings of guilt. I was raised in an environment where sex was an open discussion and felt very comfortable talking about sex with both of my parents...maybe not in detail, but to the point where I understood my own sexuality and never felt ashamed of not having "normal" sexual urges. All people are beautiful and sex is a means to enjoy that beauty in more than just a physical manner.

I have a Virgo friend who I have a sort of arrangement with..HEHEHE..He and I were friends initially, (I have venus in aqua in the 3rd, so this is a must!!), and started talking about the "stigma" surrounding sex and sexuality in our culture. Talking about sex is a huge turn-on for me and he definately piqued my interest. His open-mindedness intrigued me and it didn't hurt that he's was absolute doll; intelligent, great smile, soft hands, sensual nature...I could go on..

But he and I have had a sexual relationship for the last 2 years. It has been very fulfilling, transcending, and erotic. He compared our time together to nirvana. It's amazing how when you feel comfortable with someone that all inhibitions fly out the window..and when we are together we have none. I believe that we have taught each other the meaning of bliss. Each time is magical and just leaves us looking forward to our next adventure. We are both allowed to be sexual creatures in the safety of each other's company without judgment. It's wonderful. I could go on for hours, but I won't. SEX definately is MAGICAL.

He refers to our sessions as "therapy". Therapy it definately is.

posted November 30, 2005 12:47 PM            

Maybe such threads should happen in Labors of LOVE. People don't often go there.

That is the argument, right? That it shouldn't be in Universal Codes, and that some people feel it shouldn't be in LL at all?

I think LL is about the human condition, and that sex would naturally be a part of it. It's not like anyone has advocated being irresponsible. At least I don't recall that anyone has.

posted December 01, 2005 07:22 PM              

Sue, I too was wondering on your comment of teens visits to some of the posts at LL. I personally could have been more graphic if it was allowed but was trying to restrain myself as much as I could.

I believe sex and the knowledge of it must really be felt after 16/17. Experience before it, may affect the person deep inside. Not sure what happens to people who experience passion at a later stage.

Faye, I realized that you took my comments out of context. Its not your fault. May be I didn't express clearly. I was referring to the fact that out of million sperms only one penetrates the egg and fertilizes it.
And when that sperm wins the race, no other sperm dare not penetrate the Ova. The Ova shields the other sperms from entering it (Miraculously, if I may use that word because science does not understand why).

Also I have noticed that you tend to associate my views with dogmas. Isn't everyone including you, living their lives with their own philosophies? One must not judge lest they be judged? Have to be short as I don't have much time. Any way its cool. Cheers.

posted December 02, 2005 12:27 PM              

How are you......?

Yes restrain indeed....that is the problem for me here...I dont like to be restrained....so dont know in answwer to yer question man....if teens are reading, then yeah we should have to "tone it down" ....... so that is what leads me to think, this probably isnt the ideal place for me to post?

I think that may be the opinion of a few here......very tiresome for me, but what can one do........???

posted December 03, 2005 08:11 AM              

Oh Wow.....that is so lovely, divine, and a heavenly thing to write...

Oh oh oh how I love to G L O W ......

Thank you for yer words...