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posted April 20, 2011 10:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by iQ:
The Fraud "Guru" must have transferred a Demonic Spirit as a "contract" or deal using dark Tantrik Sex. He may have been the conduit to transfer the entity. The Entity now is a perfect psychic vampire, pretending to be a well wisher but enjoying the victim. A real Guru is never happy when his Disciple is sad. They take the karmas and pains of the disciples, not the other way round.
And one's Higher Self can only heal, not hurt. Yes, the energy of our Higher Self is intense but certainly not harmful. Higher Selves are NOT Masochistic.

Thank you iQ. I feel deep in my bones, that what you're saying is the situation here.

But, why does this woman come my way? Am I at risk? How could I potentially be helpful to this woman in any way that I am qualified to be, as that is my instinct here...

Is there any sort of pleasant way to purge a demon? Likely not.

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posted April 20, 2011 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SunChild:
I believe essentially people choose their own path obviously, and it may seem totally insane to others, but when it becomes destructive you know something is not right. I don't know how much intervention is truly needed. Some come out, some do not.

I thought of this situation, too. As I have met up with other people, "dark" people who I realized must have made some choice to go that way, because they are unresponsive to positive energy and health.

I don't want to believe that help is possible for this woman - if it's not. Not so naive anymore to believe that everyone dies at peace.

But, at the same time, I don't want to feel as if I didn't consider helping her. Or, consider the possibility of hope.

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posted April 20, 2011 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This might help you and her. Maybe you could print it out for her.

Evaluating Spiritual Guidance http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/003847.html

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posted April 20, 2011 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Deux-antares,

Yes. It is possible that she was picked out as an easy target, because she described herself specifically as "naive" when she talked about her decision to merge with her higher-self. She could very well have been a sitting duck.

Thank you for also pointing out that I may be dealing with a pseudo-sane personality. Of course, that would be a possibility... I don't know what to say.

Lastly, I will ask her for her birth information. And, then I will post her chart here for analysis.

Thank you.

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posted April 20, 2011 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I still had this book, I'd send it to you. It had some useful info, though I don't believe the same way I used to. You might want to pick it up. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum13/HTML/000578.html

Try not to let yourself get into fear-mode with this PS. They say that's what attracts negative energy and spirits, Fear.

Stay brave!

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posted April 20, 2011 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by abcd efg:
Genuine gurus are like a loving mother and a sensible firm father, both put together. They know their child and how far to go and where to stop. I think this #@^%#^%$% of a 'Guru' didn't know the abcd of spiritualism and left things when the situation turned out of hand. Or it could be case of black tantra as many have stated above. PS please ask her whether she would like to come out of this and is ready to receive help. Take your time. This will need both time and cajoling. In the meantime, you get hold of a GENUINE person to help you to protect yourself and to help her. Do you know anybody of such stature in your place?

Thank you, abcd efg. I do feel that I need a helper to help ME, if I am in any way going to give this woman any advice. I know that I am not positioned to be strong enough, wise enough, or intelligent enough to be battling with a spirit, spiritual affliction, (mental illness), etc.

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posted April 20, 2011 11:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you again, T. I will look up the book and purchase it, to give it to her...

Also, the evaluating spiritual guidance is very helpful, too.

First, I have to ask her if she wants to come out of what she is suffering with...

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posted April 20, 2011 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like she had surrendered herself to a psychic vampire.
He may or may not even know he is one.
Psychic vampires are not automatically unethical.
or evil or in league with evil.
Also I theorize her 6 personalities are some of her past life identities coming through.
This can be a very positive and rich relationship with one's selves.
However when one is told or thinks of these things from a superstitious and or religious point of view,
The truth becomes hidden and one becomes lost in fear and confusion causing them to withdraw into self even whilst appearing to function well or well enough in society.
I will continue to watch this thread and post as I think of what could free her.
http://www.llewellyn.com/journal/article/513

PS.
Another thing I have warned folks about;
See,
folks talk of the "light" and of "Spirit",
without getting an identification, without questioning exactly what they "think" they are communing with or allowing to guide them.
I have posted much on this topic.

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posted April 20, 2011 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rajji:
Just my two cents It sounds vaguely familiar to me...
The highlight being that she sufferes severe repercussions if she were not to obey her spirit guide!must be a stubborn entity which has its wishes fulfilled by using her as a medium!
So on retrospection I could only attribute it to being something similar to exorcism!
Im just being doubtful and curious however rushing into an exorcism where one is not necessary can have serious consequences! So please be patient enough to understand her situation only after having a thorough check of her background ...you can try to help her...just in case to avoid back fire to you ps.
Here is a conscised list of how to identify
The warning signs of demonic possesion http://fspp.net/warn%20poss.htm http://www.spectralintelligencesolutions.com/demon_possession_facts.html

Thank you, very much, Rajji. I would not even THINK of undertaking an exorcism. Only finding an avenue for her to get an exorcism...

And, that is a very interesting website. Thank you for pointing me in that direction.

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posted April 20, 2011 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd recommend this one even more.

Psychic Shield
by Caitlin Matthews

Chapter 5 "Soul Care"
Chapter 6 "Uninvited Guests"
Chapter 7 "Mind Games"
Chapter 8 "Power of the Word"

example of some of what the book's about.

There are some great exercises & prayers she can do on her own for banishing negative energy or forces at work (if there are any).

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posted April 20, 2011 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And, for her sake, and for the sake of your prayers... her name is Elizabeth.

Please pray for her.

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posted April 20, 2011 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm saving all the listed information on my computer, T. Better organized and prepared that way

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posted April 20, 2011 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I almost wonder if it's our first priority to protect ourselves? Are we called to help others in spiritual afflictions, or are they just outcasts?

Is it the spiritually healthy thing to walk away from a person like her?

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posted April 20, 2011 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for emitres     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how very sad for this woman PS... how often do you speak with her? there have been a lot of very interesting points brought up... personally, i don't subscribe to the demonic possession point of view - but that is completely irrelevant... i do think it's very possible that she unwittingly tapped into something that is not benefitting her psyche...
what troubles me is "spirit" tells her to do things - and when she does not, there is a "punishment"... this is generally linked to a borderline personality disorder - the fact that it started when she was young, there was a specific event that "triggered" subsequent events... has she ever been assessed? bear in mind that many people can function completely well within a mental disorder...it is unfortunate that we have created a horrible mental image for ourselves of what insane is... i'm not saying that this is the issue - only a possibilty... as for her 6 personalities - again, generally speaking MPD's don't really manifest that way... personality 1 doesn't know what/when details of personality 2 unless a journal is kept, and this usually happens only when a diagnosis has already taken place...
the fact that you feel "disturbed" by her energy is interesting - is that simply because you are focusing on her obvious distress or are you genuinely picking up on something amiss? either way, i think that you need to protect yourself first...pray, meditate etc etc... ask for guidance.... you do the drowning man no good if you can't swim either...

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posted April 20, 2011 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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you do the drowning man no good if you can't swim either

I like what emitres said. Especially that part.

Yes, sometimes it is best to just walk away. In this case, maybe you could hand her some helpful info, point her in some directions and let her take it from there. I have a feeling if you don't help her in at least some small way, it will bother you for awhile.

It's not your responsibility to save her, but as a fellow human being you may want to provide her with some info or options she hadnt thought of to help her save herself and make her feel less alone and hopeless.

This one may be too much for you (or anyone who isnt a professional) to handle. And yes, you do have to look out for yourself and protect yourself first.

You will figure out what's the best way to proceed for you.

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posted April 20, 2011 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abcd efg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoSquared:
I almost wonder if it's our first priority to protect ourselves? Are we called to help others in spiritual afflictions, or are they just outcasts?

Is it the spiritually healthy thing to walk away from a person like her?


(Priority to protect) YES IT IS. We can help in our own capacities but not at the cost of our safety. So best is take help of a 'BIG BROTHER' to fight a bully. But not run away. So why walk away without trying our level best?

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posted April 20, 2011 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Emititres,

Good points. I may be tough, but not THAT tough. And, this is not the first time I've run across someone who is likely demon possessed.

The last time almost ruined my whole life

That is why I am being cautious. I would like to pass on helpful information. And, likely the points made here, I will combine and send to her... even at the risk of her not speaking with me anymore.

I don't speak with her frequently, but I know she would like to speak regularly. I just can't handle that kind of closeness... considering the implications.

However, I did just get a reply from her through email, and sent her another email asking for her birth info, in order to do a natal chart.

I intend to share her info here, in order to allow the professionals to perhaps get a better view into what's going on

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posted April 20, 2011 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I may be tough, but not THAT tough. And, this is not the first time I've run across someone who is likely demon possessed.

The last time almost ruined my whole life


...if I had a nickel for everytime............

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posted April 20, 2011 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by T:

...if I had a nickel for everytime............


I'd be rich!!

And, the worst part is, I come out with more ticks, more aversions, more suspicion, more anxiety, more fear, every single time.

This stuff is really bad... life is not just a big, fun playground. There's a lot of very dangerous stuff going on.

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posted April 20, 2011 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Great to hear from you. Here's my chart info: Birthday September 22, 1949, in Lincoln Nebraska. My birth certificate says 6AM. I doubt that was really accurate....way back then I think they generalized quite a bit. Anyway, that should give you everything you need. If not, please let me know.


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posted April 20, 2011 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted April 20, 2011 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what relevant asteroids to look for, other than lucifer, kaali, nessus, eris, etc.

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posted April 20, 2011 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

This one has Dejanira included... interesting but Saturn in 12th is opposed Dejanira in Pisces in 6th...

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posted April 20, 2011 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I basically agree with LEXX who said she was the pray of a psychic vampire, but please leave outside the door the glamour of hollywood vampire, I mean psychic vampire in the sense that he's feeding of her and may be not intentionnally.

there are some points, some questions that come to me when I read the thread.

1) why do you think you are meant to help her?

that is a deep question

also, I do not believe in demonic versus higher self. I do not subscribe to "evil" that can take over. I do not believe in the cristian rethoric of good versus evil

and... I do not believe in demonic spirit whatsoever. why? because I think that free will + the NATURE of the universe are not set up in ways that allow dark entities to rob people of their power.

I would have to explain myself better on this matter because here the problem with this so called demons lies in oversimplification. unfortunately, I don't have the time and energy to develop.

regarding this lady issue, after questioning your own feeling that you are meant to get her out of a perceived trouble, I would look at her natal chart since it is provided.

her time of birth may not be exact, but to me, it is likely that her rising is virgo because I suppose that she was born before 6 and not after, since I would expect a nurse that doesn't care about the time to have round up the time to the nearest hour, and it would have had to be almost half past 6 for her rising to become libra, and I suspect that even a "lazy" nurse would have round the time to 6:30 am and not 6.

all that because I consider chiron the ruler of virgo. not everyone does, I know.

her chiron (for me her chart ruler) is semi square mercury and jupiter rulers of her MC and IC. it is on the mercury jupiter midpoint who are in square to each other. I leave out the quincunx to uranus I don't know how to interpret it. but her axis of her roots and what she aspires to be is in a tense aspect to her chart ruler.

also her murcury is afllicted. it is retrograde, conjunct the south node. I have an afflicted mercury too, also not retrograde, but conjunct the south node and ruler of 12th and in pisces. let say that it is troublesome to express oneself. it is like feeling sometimes unable to fully express oneself. and hers is conjunct neptune so it works like for my mercury in pisces. the understanding is erratic and doesn't come in a logical way, but somehow and sometimes.

my impression is that there is nothing about evil, except, forgive my sarcasm, the glamourof speaking of others suffering from "dark" entities coming from god knows where, demons attacking from the astral world. it sounds like a promising scenario of a blockbuster, but nothing else, TO ME.

I think this women came to this world with the potential to be misled, but also with the free will to choose to corrct that. why did she had this possibilty? only her soul, and god knows I believe. and she was unfortunate enough to be let down by this guru. she is probably a gullible person that was led astray at some point, and her afflicted mercury didn't help her a bit.

now you are the one who says that she needs help. I guess I would agree, but I would not look for some kind of help that link everything to evil vs good.

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posted April 20, 2011 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pire,

I appreciate your contribution. Please tell me what you would recommend for this woman... as in, how would you help her?

I mean, I am totally willing to accept that I should not help this person, walk away, and leave her in her present state. I would not want to do more damage to her, at all.

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