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Topic: Looking For A Mod Here!
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 25794 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 28, 2013 12:00 PM
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Venus Moderator Posts: 1673 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 01:57 AM
i nominate FAITHIP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3914 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 08:07 AM
LOL, because of my name?  Thanks, Venus! I'm too argumentative to be a mod, but I appreciate that.  IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1673 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 09:45 AM
no not really though it's a cute coincidence  honestly Faith i think you would make a great mod. aren't we all argumentative? that's what makes this website fun 
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juniperb Moderator Posts: 6145 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2013 03:14 PM
I will volunteer and would enjoy Lexx`s company here  ------------------ We need to listen to our own song, and share it with others, but not force it on them. Our songs are different. They should be in harmony with each other. ~ Mattie Stepanek IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39975 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 01, 2013 05:36 PM
I nominate Padre.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 05:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by juniperb: I will volunteer and would enjoy Lexx`s company here 

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Faith Knowflake Posts: 3914 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 01, 2013 07:26 PM
I agree, Venus, fighting is fun for all! LOLSeriously though...Juni and Padre would do a great job. But I would like to nominate PixieJane. She's one of the smartest people here, and she isn't a mod yet. Plus, she is a Libra...need I say more?? If Sweet Peas comes back, I also nominate her as mod for Sweet Peas. She knows her stuff, and is tough enough that people won't give her too much...I was going to say cr*p but this is DD so...I doubt they will give her too much nonsense. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39975 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 01, 2013 08:03 PM
Yes, Pixie would be cool, too!------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lei_Kuei Moderator Posts: 900 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2013 08:08 PM
Pixie gets my vote -nods-
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Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2013 11:10 PM
Fighting is not fun nor productive.  PS. I do not know Pixie well enough to nominate her; but yeah, being a pagan, she might work out here OK. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1673 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 02:29 AM
Lexx we meant beIng argumentative and not starting fights..I also nominate PixieJane. Juni too ofcourse! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3914 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 07:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lexxigramer: Fighting is not fun nor productive. 
Obviously Venus was not being totally serious, or she wouldn't have used the laughing emoticon. Obviously I was joking, I wrote "LOL." Followed by "Seriously though..." which reinforced the fact that I wasn't being serious before that. Why is that hard to understand? Why choose to ignore my cues that I was kidding, and instead post and ? I feel that you are argumentative yourself. IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 6145 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 02:32 PM
I have a post missing  ------------------ We need to listen to our own song, and share it with others, but not force it on them. Our songs are different. They should be in harmony with each other. ~ Mattie Stepanek IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 02:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by juniperb: I have a post missing 
Me too.  Will try and re-post my 2 missing ones when this thread stabilizes.IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3914 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 02, 2013 03:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lexxigramer: I do NOT know you or Venus well enough to grasp your trains of thought in the "kidding" department.
Lexx, I'm sorry that humor may offend you, strike you as deceitful/lying, but it's a way that people communicate, and it's usually not done with malicious intent. Here's what I'm confused about: If you don't understand humor, why do you even comment on an exchange where there are obvious signs (like LOL, , and ) that humor is being used? If two people are speaking a language I don't understand, I can at least recognize that it's a foreign language. And if one person mentions a phrase that sounds like English, I won't assume it was English and comment. I might ask for clarification, however. In your case, when people are apparently joking, why not ask for clarification before commenting? When you ignore the humor cues, take the words at face value, and express disapproval, it can set people on edge. Maybe there's a better way to seek understanding? In this case, if it was your intention to engage us in discussion, I wish you had asked something like, "Are you serious? What's so good about fighting?" before the and which struck me as contentious. If you asked, I could have told you that I know fighting is usually NOT fun, but in some cases I derive (admittedly base) satisfaction from airing out my frustrations with someone. It's a trade-off: there is the stress of the argument, along with the strange pleasure of being direct and perhaps accelerating the rate of communication exchange, since the "impediments" of customary restraint are removed. My laughter here was somewhat self-deprecating, to offset the heaviness that might accompany an admission that I sometimes do enjoy arguments. But fighting is an extremely varied phenomenon, and it would be absurd for me to try and specify all the various instances when it is and isn't fun. So my "LOL" was also to signify all that complexity. I hope my explanation there made sense. You are a great person, and I didn't mean to insult you. If I thought being argumentative was a terrible thing...I would stop being argumentative myself. My own preference is to be around people who are nice but capable of argumentation, as I think some blunt and potentially controversial honesty is part of any genuine relationship. Otherwise all you have is stifled, shallow politeness. I hope this has cleared things up a bit. My apologies if I hurt your feelings at all. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 25794 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 05:13 PM
Server is spiking. I am about to fix it. When it gets slow, that is a good indicator.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 25794 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 05:17 PM
It's fast again!  IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 6145 From: Blue Star Kachina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 06:09 PM
boo hoo but my post is gone 
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Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 06:33 PM
Tried replying and now 3 of my replies have vanished.  Three lost posts .... I give up trying to reply properly. Well in a nutshell; I simply do not see fighting as a form of a fun/funny thing to do. I am entitled to my pov. Sorry my not finding fighting a joking matter or fun, offends folks.  
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Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 06:46 PM
thread still glitching/posts vanishing. 
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T Knowflake Posts: 8443 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 06:53 PM
Lexx, I remember in a post many years ago you said you did not understand humor at all, due to an issue similar to Aspergers (?)I notice there are times when you are able to joke around and other times when you take things extremely literally and don't seem to see the humor or intentional lighhearteness in something. So, maybe these people arent trying to be mean, or start fights, but their humor just differs from yours. Most of the time, I don't think anyone here is trying to be malicious or mean-spirited. I agree with what Faith said about finding it healthy and positively challenging to be able to discuss things with people (especially controversial) - disagree with them, even passionately, but still remain friends and be polite about it. I've kept that in mind about you since you said it a long time ago. TBH, I have notice you have quite a good sense of humor most of the time. You have also been under a lot of stress, so that doesnt help ones outlook either and can contribute to making one more touchy than normal. All the best......  IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 8443 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 02, 2013 07:04 PM
Something I've noticed with online friends from your age group in general.....they can snap and take things way more seriously than they were meant. I've an idea of what it could be astrologically, but it might just be a generational and age thing on top of it. Whatever the case may be, it is interestisng.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 39975 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 02, 2013 07:06 PM
Yes, disassociation can make you not understand humor, emotionally.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Lexxigramer Moderator Posts: 1637 From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 02, 2013 07:18 PM
T{{{hugs}}} I agree with actual fun humour; but fighting is not a form of fun or humour to me. Why am I bad just because I do not see fighting as a fun thing????????????????? Fighting was called a form of "fun". That is not right to me. That would be like saying beating people up is fun.  And Ami; stop trying to analyze me. Your opinions of me are not welcome madame. quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Yes, disassociation can make you not understand humor, emotionally.
I have been to professionals. I do not suffer from disassociation etc. You have no right to label me.
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