posted July 18, 2013 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by T:
Lexx, it came to my attention awhile ago that you were telling long time members here to not talk to me (as if your commandment or instruction would make them not do so). They did and told me you did. I think at the time I had p*ssedd you off somehow. I was actually really surprised about that (you telling people to ignore me on and offline). I never thought a woman at your age would have done something like that. Or believed that people didnt have a mind enough of their own and took your word as law.

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I'd have thought anyone passed high school would've known better than to fall for such a juvenile tactic. Turning people (such as yourself) against someone (such as Lexx) by claiming that they heard the intended victim saying nasty things about you is classic middle school behavior. By the time I was in high school (where that tactic remained popular) me and other kids even made a game out of it to see what ridiculous unverified rumors we could get other kids to believe, though at least we weren't mean about it (or didn't mean to be), just silly. Naturally, those who did it for control and more malicious reasons often didn't get silly, they said things like "So and so told me not to talk to you." I'd have hoped that by the time kids become adults they'd know better than to believe that without solid evidence as some people never outgrow middle school.

In any case I don't believe it. Lexx doesn't call for people to be shunned, she's someone who confronts/debates. Therefore, not only would I demand proof before falling for a mere rumor designed to turn me against someone, I'd have noticed that it's not Lexx's character to freeze someone out so that they go unchallenged AND I'd note that those who couldn't handle her challenges WOULD love to turn others against her at an emotional level which would, at the very least, discourage her from confronting them and/or their beliefs. If someone wanted me to give them more of a benefit of a doubt then they'd have said Lexx was trying to inspire a dog piling of someone (NOT saying it happened, just speaking hypothetically here), but even then I'd demand proof before I believed it. Granted, I'd observe, but I'm about certain I'd come to the conclusion I was dealing with middle school behavior by whoever was "sharing" about Lexx and discount it, not just assume it was true.

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PixieJane Thank you.
I know I am not perfect but anyone who knows me knows I tend to charge in,
often maybe too much.....
but sneaky behind the scenes high school shunning actions?
Ugh.
Seriously not my thing.
I knew of one person who years ago;
would insert their text into my e-mail to them;
then mail it to another person and that person would think I wrote the horrible things.
I trusted this person and was shocked at what she did just to get another person to hate me.
So yeah;
one cannot even trust e-mail;
people can "edit and add" before sending to others.
Sigh.......
I feel paranoid now here........
wondering who will have a go at me now...or later.....

posted July 18, 2013 01:54 PM            

My summed up response to everything you said is: Okay!

posted July 18, 2013 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
Lexx, i don't think the person has a facebook or that you talk anymore anyway.

My summed up response to everything you said is: Okay!

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posted July 18, 2013 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
I don't believe the person was trying to start drama either. They arent that type.

Now back to the thread topic!

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posted July 18, 2013 03:20 PM            

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All I know is what I was told... <snip> ...We can instead stop talking about it.

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posted July 18, 2013 03:24 PM            

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All I know is what I was told. If I want proof, I'm sure I can get it. TBH, I don't care at this point.

The thread doesnt need to be closed. We can instead stop talking about it.

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posted July 18, 2013 03:26 PM            

I usually prefer to trust my intuition on certain things and don't always need proof.

We need a good bible quote right about now.

posted July 18, 2013 03:30 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Agreed, this middle school fiction shouldn't be discussed any more, it lacks credibility to be taken seriously at all and I can't believe you brought it up in the first place. But then the cynical part of me notes that it was very successful at distracting from what Lexx said and/or a way to punish her for saying something that probably offended or disturbed you.

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posted July 18, 2013 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
Sorry to hear that Lexx. I know the feeling!

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posted July 18, 2013 03:45 PM            

We are VERY different people Lexx. I handle things like this differently than you do.

I in no way am enjoying anything about it or now you being super upset. I've let it go and am choosing not to reply to most of what you said for a reason. I'm sorry you are super upset now.

Don't try to make it seem like I am enjoying anything when I just handle things differently than you do.

posted July 18, 2013 03:48 PM            

Talking about bible quotes, these aren't my favorite, but my favorite about gossiping....

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Proverbs 11:13 Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.

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Corinthians 12:20 For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find you not as I wish, and that you may find me not as you wish—that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder.

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Timothy 3:1-5, But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. Avoid such people.

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posted July 18, 2013 03:51 PM            

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Proverbs 11:13 Whoever goes about slandering reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing covered.

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posted July 18, 2013 04:15 PM            

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NO I"M NOT!

We are VERY different people Lexx. I handle things like this differently than you do.

I in no way am enjoying anything about it or now you being super upset. [b] I've let it go and am choosing not to reply to most of what you said for a reason. I'm sorry you are super upset now.

Don't try to make it seem like I am enjoying anything when I just handle things differently than you do.

JESUS CHRIST! CALM DOWN! [/B]

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you are enjoying it just like all your other many staslker thbreads and randall trued toi b an you but you did some sneaky IP thing and he was unable to.
too bad folks here like jellyfishtry did not notice your multiple attacks.
leave me alone and tell your sack of lying shite buddy she won.
hope all are fraking happy...
you wish me the woyuse and you know it...
stipo poretending you fraking gice a fk.
you have wion
and if there is a god then damn you all to hell

yes randall
i am lost it...
too many attacks un justrfied
fk it all

bet yiou are verry hnappy now,,,
brioke me
go laugh yur ass off

posted July 18, 2013 04:27 PM            

Nice try at trying to make me out to be something I'm not. I changed my IP to post here awhile back, LEXX. Then later was able to post from my regular IP and did so for a long time and everything was fine. That somehow means I am stalking now?

I'm sorry you feel like anyone has "won" something now. I don't quite get it.

There's more to say....but I feel like it's best to say less with you, especially right now.

I find it strange that you are getting this worked up. It's really not necessary. I mean, really.....think about it. LIfe is too short.

No one is laughing their ass off btw. I'm rather disturbed tbh.

posted July 18, 2013 04:29 PM            

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stipo poretending you fraking gice a fk.
you have wion
and if there is a god then damn you all to hell

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too many attacks un justrfied
fk it all

bet yiou are verry hnappy now,,,
brioke me
go laugh yur ass off

may you madb your lyingn buuddies get whatt you all fraking deseerve

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....I feel like I"m in the Twilight Zone right now....

are you alright?