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Topic: Venus in Scorpio- Submissive??
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BLKFox
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posted January 02, 2009 12:27 AM
 
Meta, I wish I knew how to upload my chart--here's my info:
9/30/49 6:20am New Orleans, La.IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 02, 2009 12:56 AM
MVM
its interesting how you say they come to you even after a break up.
I've dated 2 venus scorpions one sag sun and one libra sun. I always got this feeling of intense something going on inside. and instead of me going to them...they seem to come to me. my venus is in cancer so i have the same "lie in wait" thing too >_< IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 02, 2009 01:08 AM
leaping, yes, I sometimes track my exes down too, when I feel something is going on with them, and when I find them, they're usually like 'HOW DID YOU KNOW I WAS TRYING TO FIND YOU'. lol. I think it's us Venus water signs. We tag people, release them into the wild, and then can find them in a single afternoon no matter how long a time has gone by 
My Venus in Scorpio ex found me, and my other Venus in Scorpio friend looked me up after forever of us not talking. Same with my Venus in Cancer friend, who I've known forever Ok...that does sound kinda creepy...but I swear, I'm not a stalker  IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted January 02, 2009 04:28 PM
BLKFox,Hope you don't mind if i post- i use photobucket.com  I love the intensity in your chart- Venus square Mars/Pluto, and sextile Moon/Saturn. How emotional! I love it. Synastry-wise i think we'd get along well. IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted January 02, 2009 04:35 PM
leapinglemur14, quote:
I always got this feeling of intense something going on inside. and instead of me going to them...they seem to come to me.
my venus is in cancer so i have the same "lie in wait" thing too >_<
See, i feel the same way- they're shackled to you. It's like you've got them on a leash- whether you know it or not. Maybe it does have to deal with chart placements- i have Venus in Cancer as well. So these Venus in Scorpios i have interacted with must have touched my Cancer Venus & Taurus Mars. Where's your Mars? IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted January 02, 2009 04:37 PM
BLKFox,Just thought of something else- when you rejected intimacy during that earlier period in your life, was it easy for you? Moon in Capi can make it feel natural to inhibit your emotional expression. And maybe Mars in Leo gives you so much pride you don't want to express or admit vulnerability..? IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted January 02, 2009 04:38 PM
meta 4 i think more passive aggressive than submissive.
it is a trick. love you venus in scorpio's, but I am on to your tricks. IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
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posted January 02, 2009 04:43 PM
coral and libra love are onto them too!oh....those slick willies trying and vying for control. .... MVM - do you find it hard to let go of your ex'es, as in no matter what they have done to you, you still have a soft spot for them? that i don't get. when i am done I am DUN. IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted January 02, 2009 06:11 PM
Is it just me, or do Aquarians know what Scorpios are thinking?IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 02, 2009 06:31 PM
Sunshine_lion, well...soft spot as in I look at them with nostalgia and truly feel in my heart that I hope they are happy.
I don't find it hard to let go at all, especially not now. But it's a personal struggle between only me and me to let them go. They never have to deal with it because it's happening on a personal level within me. Once I've given plenty of warnings and I've withdrawn and nothing has changed and I find myself carrying the relationship alone, then I cut them loose.It's done very quickly, and I don't do long, drawn-out break-ups. Th thing's already dead. All I've done is amputate the dead part.
And after a time, I don't hold a grudge. I just can't maintain it. I already cut it, so what would I be holding on to? Does that make sense?
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FistOfLegend
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posted January 02, 2009 06:34 PM
^You're not a typical Scorpio.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 02, 2009 07:22 PM
Maybe not. What's more typical? Maybe holding a grudge?IP: Logged |
meta_4
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posted January 02, 2009 07:31 PM
What are you attracted to- sexually and romantically? What hooks you? Like what qualities in a partner?IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted January 02, 2009 07:43 PM
Who, me, Meta? Gosh, I get hooked if I feel a connection. What creates a connection? Generally someone who loves nurturing and who is not afraid of a level of intensity or real depth (on all levels). But then those who reject nurturing and intensity hook me too, because it's like an alarm bell goes off in my head signaling that they need it and then a power struggle ensues A couple of those became long-term relationships and ironically, they ended up being the ones who needed the most (and who systematically drained me - I felt like their main drug supplier after a while) I also react to a twisted sense of humor and strong intelligence/perceptions - major turn-ons. Those are conscious desires. IP: Logged |
leapinglemur14
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posted January 02, 2009 08:28 PM
Meta-
My mars is in aries in the 1st. what's kinda weird is that im a pisces asc..had i been born like 5 min later i'd be a aries asc. so im very confusing even to myself >_<IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted January 02, 2009 10:25 PM
I haunt Scorpios at night. IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 03, 2009 01:48 AM
Meta, thanks for posting my chart.
I think that Capricorn energy along with the Scorpio creates an emotional force field...do you agree?IP: Logged |
IWDWSWLM
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posted January 03, 2009 03:59 AM
I never become submissive LOL Its just against my nature. But I do get deeply involved and attached. IP: Logged |
BLKFox
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posted January 03, 2009 02:36 PM
Meta,
The "earlier" part of my life refers to my childhood & the drama resulting from my parents' separation. I lived in situations in which I was the ONLY, only child, so I learned to keep my own counsel & accept my introverted tendencies. I was intellectually inclined, so I escaped in books. By the time I got into young adulthood, NOT sharing my true thoughts & feelings seemed natural.
I guess, I did want to submit to the right person...someone who could "see through me" and give me the ultimate emotional & sexual experience.
---One part of me is still looking...IP: Logged |
FistOfLegend
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posted January 03, 2009 02:50 PM
Capricorns and Scorpios are DELICIOUS together. IP: Logged |
evander
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posted January 03, 2009 03:30 PM
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I guess, I did want to submit to the right person...someone who could "see through me" and give me the ultimate emotional & sexual experience.
thats just what goes through my head all the time. and i cant help it but crave and deeply hope for that kind of experience and i've got a bad case of cappy and scorpio. scorpio pluto, venus,
cappy moon, saturn, uranus, neptune IP: Logged |
Nyah
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posted January 03, 2009 04:03 PM
I have one friend that has Scorpio Venus and she is obsessed when she is with someone (which is pretty much all the time, but let's say the object varies  ). Her relationships seem to have some sort of intense worshipping in them and she has a constant focus on her partner (forgetting her friends a bit) when she is in love. Even when a relationship goes bad she has trouble leaving it, still seeing the good sides of it. Her relationships often include a lot of drama - both love and hate.Also, almost every guy that meets her is taken by her "magic".. she is really breathtaking and her eyes implies sex in some sort of innocent playful kind of way.. very cool to watch hey, _I_ could make out with her - that's how intense her Scorpio vibes are...  Oh, I almost forgot.. maybe this is a Scorpio trait as well? She has an unique ability to separate love from sex. To her, sex is a very deep human need that comes from the animal instincts within us, and she thinks it's a beautiful part of the human nature that we shouldn't interfere with too much. So, she doesn't feel too guilty about being unfaithful, because if she has sexual desires for someone other than her partner, that isn't a big deal since it's a natural urge and hasn't necessarily anything to do with love. Any inputs on that? I must admire her way of not letting sex be such a big deal.. sounds sort of relieving in our sex-addicted society... ------------------
Ascendant: Gemini
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Capricorn
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Capricorn
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Green Fairy
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posted January 03, 2009 05:20 PM
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So, she doesn't feel too guilty about being unfaithful, because if she has sexual desires for someone other than her partner, that isn't a big deal since it's a natural urge and hasn't necessarily anything to do with love. Any inputs on that? I must admire her way of not letting sex be such a big deal.. sounds sort of relieving in our sex-addicted society...
Relieving? 
You really don't wanna know what I'm thinking right now.My dad's a Scorpio Sun/Venus and a Cancer Moon. I wouldn't call him submissive but once he found his ideal lady [mom] he turned into butter. He's stubborn as hell though. IP: Logged |
Nyah
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posted January 03, 2009 05:29 PM
Green Fairy, uhm..?  I choose to play the "english-is-not-my-native-tongue"-card now! Relieving to me is.. hm, well, I don't know - to lower the pressure about something? but I'm sure your mind is dirtier than that hehe
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Green Fairy
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posted January 03, 2009 05:37 PM
I think you misinterpreted my post. What I meant is that there is nothing relieving about your friend's views of love and cheating. "Hypocritical" is a better word.IP: Logged |
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