posted January 03, 2009 03:58 AM         

I have Moon, Jupiter, Chiron, SN and some asteroids in my 12th house. Both of our 12th houses fell into the other's so all of his planets got dumped into my 12th and mine got dumped into his 12th.

I was way less trusting of him than he was of me. I always felt like something was off, even though I had no reason at all to distrust him. In fact, he was so sweet and I still love him, but I sort of felt like he was experiencing our entire relationship behind a glass wall.

It was as though I could see his face experiencing all of these emotions and I knew he was feeling them, but he wasn't sharing them with me.

Plus an Rx Mercury in one person's 12th falling in to another person's 12th is honestly not something I would recommend. Especially to me, with Merc in Gemini, in my 1st house conjunct my Ascendant and trine Pluto.

So in my case, we were both the planet people and the 12th house people, but he had way more planets in his 12th so I would unofficially nake him the planet person.

Did all that make sense?

posted January 03, 2009 11:45 AM         

Why does he always try to pin my words down to such specific meaning, can he just pick up the feel of what I'm saying and let it kind of unfold...

Anyway I think it feels the same to him, confusing and he needs breaks from it. If I bombard him for to long with my loft ideas about the subconscious, or the meaning of life he feels the need to go do something real and productive.Isn't dreaming real and productive, after all this reality is but an illusion produced by our minds so we can learn what it is we are here to experience. See what he has to put up with??