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what's that pluto transit like? elaborate? pluto rules my seventh as well and it falls VERY near the cusp but still in the sixth house.. i read something online about it being your 'shadow' and that to prevent having that dark side be projected out (getting sick was also something i noticed with someone experiencing the transit of it conjuncting their pluto in libra) i decided to get one of those long prayer candles and stick a pluto glyph right on it and light it from 4 angles to avoid a shadow at all..

or just having a framed glyph of pluto and having 4 candles around it to immerse it in light, almost.. so as to not have it be projecting any shadow? or maybe even a picture of oneself lit up as such..

just not sure if metaphorically, it would put one right smack dab with the spotlight on them but it'd certainly not cast a shadow it lit by 4 different angles, thus, no projection of that pluto onto somebody else.. seem reasonable?

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It doesn't help that I also have pluto transit conjuncting my mars in the 8th house. I really can't put into words how this transit is affecting me. Its hard to articulate but I have one word- struggle- emotionally. Saturn left my 5th house & I left a 6 year relationship to only fall deeply madly in love 6 months later. My past relationship felt superficial & parasitic. When I met the one I'm with (?) It was like fireworks. Intense, loving, we bonded quickly but because my last relationship was superficial, my issues of intimacy was never a problem. Until now. I always knew I had intimacy issues I.e: being close & actually feeling that spiritual bond with someone-but now I'm forced to deal with them. Its like a fight or flight reaction with a little bit of pluto thrown in. I want to run like hell but I need him to physically hold me down to prevent me from leaving. Its so contradictory but my fears seem to be winning and I know that's not the appropriate thing to do. It keeps me at my wits end and I know I'm not giving the right reactions but my shadow is a demon.

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posted December 16, 2022 09:27 PM            

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Saturn will be transiting through my 7th house from March to September of 2023, then Saturn goes into retrograde in October and returns back into my 7th house in December. (and it will be conjunct my Descendant from March to April of 2023 and again in December 2023). We'll see how that goes.

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posted December 17, 2022 08:45 AM            

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It was about 8 years ago when Saturn transit into my 7th house. Back then I didn't know anything about astrology. I was 22 and that was when I had my first relationship, I met a guy who is 10 years older than me, Capricorn Moon and Venus, he has Venus square Saturn and Mars conjunct Saturn in his natal chart. I was in this relationship for almost 4 years.

It was a karmic relationship, super toxic and unhealthy but I couldn't get out like I was gonna die if I don't have him in my life. I gave gave everything I have for this man (love,money,gifts,time,etc) but I never get anything in return. I was with him for 4 years but never get one birthday cake from him. I cried myself to sleep almost every night. My friends asked me to name 3 good things about him and I couldn't name a thing but I couldn't leave. Until one day when all my karmic debts have been paid, then our ties were cut and I was free.

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posted December 17, 2022 10:41 AM            

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Transit Saturn will be on my Descendant in February. Right now it's making a 6°39a degree opposition from my Ascendant. I notice that a lot of Capricorns have been matching with me on dating apps. I don't know what to think about this transit. I hope things won't be bad people say sometimes they lose all of their relationships. I don't really have many right now to begin with. I've been casually seeing this guy since September. He has Moon trine Saturn and Mars square Saturn in his chart. So far it seems to be going ok but with Saturn coming along I'm wondering if it'll end things.

Before this situation, I was talking to a Sag sun with Venus in Capricorn guy but it didn't work out.

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posted December 17, 2022 04:00 PM            

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It was about 8 years ago when Saturn transit into my 7th house. Back then I didn't know anything about astrology. I was 22 and that was when I had my first relationship, I met a guy who is 10 years older than me, Capricorn Moon and Venus, he has Venus square Saturn and Mars conjunct Saturn in his natal chart. I was in this relationship for almost 4 years.

It was a karmic relationship, super toxic and unhealthy but I couldn't get out like I was gonna die if I don't have him in my life. I gave gave everything I have for this man (love,money,gifts,time,etc) but I never get anything in return. I was with him for 4 years but never get one birthday cake from him. I cried myself to sleep almost every night. My friends asked me to name 3 good things about him and I couldn't name a thing but I couldn't leave. Until one day when all my karmic debts have been paid, then our ties were cut and I was free.

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Interesting! What sign and house is your natal Mars in and what planets are aspecting it?

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posted December 24, 2022 04:06 PM            

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posted February 23, 2023 06:00 AM            

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Going through saturn return here in this house now. It's also conj my moon so a bit hard to tell what's causing what. Either way, seems like my temper is shorter than usual and I'm very happy to isolate myself. I must say I'm doing a fabulous job of cutting people out of my life these days! And a lot of evaluating the current happy/loving relationship with my bf but so far no serious issues.

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posted February 25, 2023 04:06 PM            

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Transit Saturn just started transiting my 7th house and I started therapy last week.

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posted April 26, 2023 10:17 AM            

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Interesting! What sign and house is your natal Mars in and what planets are aspecting it?

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My Venus and Mars are both in Aquarius 9th house. I have Venus conjunct Mars, Venus/Mars both conjunct Saturn, Venus/Mars both opposite Chiron in my natal chart.

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posted August 02, 2023 01:58 AM            

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Great thread, thanks for the bump. As someone here said "we need a freaking support group for Saturn transits" 6 months into the transit - it's no fun. Having to rebuild social network due to people (including me) moving. Dating life just died - it's almost funny. It's sad actually, but I'm tired of crying. The only good thing is that I realized I had a trauma from last two men in my life and I'm healing. Though healing is not Saturn's job - it's the other harsh transits being over.

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posted August 02, 2023 08:35 AM            

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I've been more focus on my career and studying. But transit Saturn is square my Mars (my mars is in my 10th house). And I've been going to therapy. Still haven't felt like dating too much. I still go to therapy but I don't know how I feel about that.

As for dating I still haven't been out with the Sag guy. If I go out with him it'll be just to get out and have fun. But not to be in a relationship. And I'll know he will want to keep going out consistently.

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posted August 03, 2023 02:36 AM            

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I've been more focus on my career and studying. But transit Saturn is square my Mars (my mars is in my 10th house). And I've been going to therapy. Still haven't felt like dating too much. I still go to therapy but I don't know how I feel about that.

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Isn’t Uranus transiting your Midheaven too? That’s very significant.

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Isn’t Uranus transiting your Midheaven too? That’s very significant.

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Yes transit Uranus is currently transiting my Midheaven.
So something new I found a new born baby squirrel that had fallen out of a tree. So it looks like I’m going to be busy nursing a baby squirrel for awhile.

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Isn’t Uranus transiting your Midheaven too? That’s very significant.

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Yes transit Uranus is currently transiting my Midheaven.
So something new I found a new born baby squirrel that had fallen out of a tree. So it looks like I’m going to be busy nursing a baby squirrel for awhile.

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posted August 12, 2023 10:53 AM            

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So my friend of 20-plus years just basically ended our friendship. (His moon is in Leo in the 8th house) Saying he's tired of hearing me talk about my boyfriends. He's told me in the past that he wanted to be with me. Yet I told him so many times that I didn't like him in that way.

Then I find out this guy's girlfriend blocked me on Facebook for no reason. I've never done or said anything to that woman. She always gives me stupid looks though. Yeah, I guess people just don't like me nowadays lol.

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So my friend of 20-plus years just basically ended our friendship. (His moon is in Leo in the 8th house) Saying he's tired of hearing me talk about my boyfriends. He's told me in the past that he wanted to be with me. Yet I told him so many times that I didn't like him in that way.

Then I find out this guy's girlfriend blocked me on Facebook for no reason. I've never done or said anything to that woman. She always gives me stupid looks though. Yeah, I guess people just don't like me nowadays lol.

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Ouch... that's harsh, Saturn is really cleaning up the closet! As hard as it is, I hope this opens up doors for better relationships and friendships! I hope you're ok.

I think it will get easier when Saturn turns direct again on November 4th.

Venus will be in my 12th house for another month and a half. Still thinking a lot about my exes. I know I won't heal completely until I start dating again and having some fun. However, I'm more selective than ever, and even the men I started talking to recently on dating apps, I unmatched them quickly because they seemed self-oriented. I'm not expecting anything to move forward at least until November. On the positive side (and this has nothing to do with Saturn), with Venus transiting the 12th house and Jupiter in the 9th, I'm attending more art events, I have more international trips lined up, and I'm starting a foreign language course - those things bring me joy.

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