posted January 20, 2009 08:58 AM            

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When talking to him, I felt immediately at ease, and comfortable, and when I leaned over and brushed passed him, it was like a magnet or something. I just wanted to be CLOSE to him, so I kept finding reasons to touch him! LOL! SO WEIRD!!! The rest of the night, he was holding my hand, and had his arms around me, as if we'd known eachother for years. I've had this strange sensation in my chest ever since and I can't stop thinking about him. I looked up our synastry and behold, his moon is 2 degrees from my mars, and 5 degrees from my Venus both in Taurus.

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posted January 20, 2009 10:58 AM            

I think aspect can be a little deceiving though, cause it's so based on physical attraction for me, and probably not true compatibility. This guy I met Saturday is not even my type at all, and I wasn't attracted to him at first. When he was talking to me across the table, I actually thought he was kind of annoying. But when he got close is when I FELT it! Then I just wanted to be near him. I just loved whenever he touched me. (And like you, I am very weary of people touching me!)

posted January 20, 2009 08:14 PM            

My story almost began in a similar way too. He's cute, but if it weren't for work...we probably would never have known eachother or even crossed paths. He isn't my usual type and I'm pretty sure I'm not his usual type either. And without talking to him, I was pretty irritated with him on first impression but it had nothing to do with his personality (we hadn't spoken to eachother) and everything do with something I st00pidly took personally because of the fact that I was having a bad second day of work. *shakes head* He made this gesture of taking dishes for another person I worked with that he could've easily done for me (we both had piles of dishes in our hands) but didn't. I was like 'WTF is his problem?' But then he and I actually spoke to him 4 days later and smartly decided to write it off....I really had a soft spot for him after the first convo. Then came the physical contact (he's very tactile person I noticed), and; he also seemed to make more polite gestures towards me after we first talked. I'm guessing he probably realized I wasn't such a cold bish afterall.

posted January 29, 2009 02:55 AM            

He and I have the same moon and mars (me the moon, and him the mars in cap). And even though it’s not aspected, it’s still felt VERY much so. In fact his actions do have the ability to hurt me, but we happen to have a Moon Venus conjunction in Taurus (that's less than one degree! He's the moon, I'm the Venus) that keeps me from ever being that mad at him for too long. I will say though that physically I want this guy badly lol (we also have a TON of mars aspects, my Venus squares his mars, his mars opposes both my asc, sun and mars, are Venuses are in traditional ruler ship...his Libra, mine Taurus, and we both have earth moons, sextile suns, and the same mercury’s in Leo).

posted January 29, 2009 10:02 AM            

One nice thing about having an office crush is that you have a reason to look forward to going to work!

posted January 29, 2009 10:25 AM              

But surely it doesn´t add up to too much compatibility, does it? Just saying so, because even though you must take other factors into account obviously, in my case it didn´t last...

posted January 29, 2009 11:35 AM              

Most interesting since you´d think the mars role would be better suited to the man, at least I thought so.

In any case I suppose it must be nice for a man to feel the directness of a woman from time to time, (jeje)

posted January 29, 2009 11:40 AM            

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DL, are you and your co-worker together now, or still flirting at the office?

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Bad News: No, I'm not with co-worker now, nor do I work with him anymore. When we worked together, I never planned on making a move since we worked together and all; thats a big deal breaker for me for political reasons..LOL. But I do agree that it did give me a reason to look foward to going to work sometimes even though that place sucked. In the end, he walked out on the job and I got fired around the same time...eerie.

posted January 30, 2009 08:14 PM            

WW, what happened? Did the passion burn out? So you were the Venus/Mars and he broke it off, or you?

posted January 15, 2010 12:49 PM            

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How about Moon conjunct Mars in the composite? The same?

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posted January 15, 2010 03:31 PM            

I know a very temperamental couple with this aspect. They are always fighting and he gets so upset he throws her out of the house regularly (he is the squared Moon). But she is back the next day again. Now it might not be this aspect that's doing it - they have a lot of Saturn aspects coming from her to him - but things she does, inadvertantly often, seem to make him irrationally upset.

Atlenta said: "considering the moon is the gay man's significator, more than the sun usually)"

posted December 06, 2011 02:57 AM            

Do you think this effect is a result of the combination of the two aspects, or is one more responsible than the other?[/B][/QUOTE]

posted December 06, 2011 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by winky_winky:
Funny also that most snowflakes mars´are women´s I would have thought it would have worked better if the moon was the female and the mars was the man, what do u think?

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posted December 06, 2011 06:32 AM            

I had a strong attraction for a Libran who's moon formed a close conjuction to my Mars.

Nice thing was that the feelings were reciprocated fullly. But since I was the Mars here, I think I made them feel insecure as my approach made them feel like , as they put it,"a sex object".

But the desire for them NEVER waned. It was weird being the "pursuer".

Now with the other person(also a libran), it was like I was a bit more cautious. They were definately the one being aggressive and initiating affection.They often said that whatever I did seemed to turn them on. Made me feel very sexy!

Now I share a Venus-Mars conjunct with a new friend(you guessed it, a Libran). And the friendship is quite sensitive- almost like we don't want to get on each other's nerves too soon. Their moon opposes my Mars too.