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Topic: So... anyone know a good deal about Aquarius men?
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted February 02, 2009 02:25 PM
Um... so I've started to notice an Aquarian..... feeling a bit embarrassed and immature writing this... a tad stalkerish too (might post on the stalker thread in a sec... oh dear!)
But yes I fancy him..... but having had no experience with them, I have no idea of how to make myself seem more amazing or interesting than all of his thousands of friends... or how to talk to him when he's always round his friends!
We were chatting at a party... he seemed interested... but who knows with Aquarians?
Help! Any signs that signal he might fancy me back? How to astound them? Attract them? Plans that don't involve building time machines preferable! Thank you  IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted February 02, 2009 02:33 PM
Go over to the "When Aqua's have a problem with you" Thread in Soul Unions it will tell you alot..IP: Logged |
augentier
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posted February 02, 2009 03:01 PM
In my experience Aquarian Sun men do love deeply and can get quite jealous and hurt when rejected. the Aqua sun men i've known have all been loyal, passionate about something, cool and collected (on the surface), friendly, intelligent. i love Aqua men Aquarian VENUS men, however, are a whole new horror story. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted February 02, 2009 03:06 PM
AGREE Augentier! down to aquarian venus
up to aquarian sun IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted February 02, 2009 03:10 PM
"Aquarian Sun men do love deeply and can get quite jealous and hurt when rejected."This is true..When they really love you they never go away they haunt you like a ghost. My Aqua is back for the umpteenth time and well this time I am not where I usually am when he comes back..The hard part is telling him that.. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted February 02, 2009 03:12 PM
thumbs down to Aquarius moon too!IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted February 02, 2009 03:14 PM
Well I guess its different for a female bc I have all those placements..Venus and moon in Aqua.. IP: Logged |
augentier
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posted February 02, 2009 03:18 PM
Venus in Aqua feels so cold and uncaring. i hate this placement in men =/ i also dislike Aqua mars.. my sister has Aqua venus though and she doesnt seem this way with her boyfriends..though when she's done, she's DONE.
i think Aqua moon men are alright..maybe im used to this one because my dad is an Aqua moon (and aqua ASC) and while he doesnt show love verbally or physically, he does show love in the massive amount of things he does FOR us.
The Mutable Night Force - do you know his other placements? This would give a better picture of what type of Aquarian sun he is 
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Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
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annaf
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posted February 02, 2009 03:19 PM
The Mutable Night Force,do you know any of his other natal placements? As the others hinted at, one with a venus in aquarius will be whole different package in how they act and what they like than one with venus in pisces and so on. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted February 02, 2009 04:02 PM
Thanks for the replies guys!Nice to be posting on LL again. Well I know his birthday, which I *think* gives him Venus in Pisces ( :S Brilliant... just like two other men I've been mad for) Mars in Cancer...
And Moon is either Aqua or Capricorn (most likely Aqua) and Mercury is also an Aqua Cap toss-up (again, likely to be Aqua)!
I myself can only see my Aries Moon and Leo Venus as potential head starts between us... (Virgo Sun & Mercury, Cap ASC, Gemini Mars while we're at it, too)!
Does that help..?
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The Mutable Night Force
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posted February 02, 2009 04:13 PM
Btw, thanks for the Topic recommendation Mama Mia! Looks interesting.
And which is a better way to reach them- going up to them and talking or email?
Or just wistfully saying "Hi" whenever you see them... which may or may not be making progress, I don't know haha. IP: Logged |
augentier
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posted February 02, 2009 04:19 PM
One of the most amazing guys Ive known is an Aqua sun w/ Pisces venus and Capricorn mercury. The best tactic for this man: take the initiative. talk to him first. ------------------
Capricorn sun / Scorpio rising / Sagittarius moon Mercury:: Sagittarius
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amowls
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posted February 02, 2009 04:32 PM
GENERALLY Aquarians are pretty frank and matter of fact. If they like you, they'll want to hang out. If they don't like you, they'll tell you... or ignore you haha (which is my preferred method since I hate upsetting people).Aqua Venuses DO care, btw. They just don't like to show it. IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted February 02, 2009 04:38 PM
Thanks for the advice, augentier. I remember you! You have the same big three as the first person I loved.Is there any way of walking up to someone when they're with friends...? I mean, from I've read, this seems very Aqua- he is never alone! Plus, we're at college which just makes things awkward!
Any accounts of ways you've approached Aquas for the first time?
Do you need to be quirky?? (I'm paranoid...)
My good Aqua girlfriend is so different in some ways... well, she is very abstract and original. Quirky, haha. But she has only a few good friends and is very open about all her feelings. Also, anyone here ever been victim of the Aqua absent minded "Looks like they hate you when really they are just staring into space" gaze? haha IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 02, 2009 04:39 PM
This is ridiculous.
I am married to an Aqua Venus and he is one of the most caring people I know.IP: Logged |
The Mutable Night Force
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posted February 02, 2009 04:43 PM
amowls- So if they say "Hi" back and smile when you pass each other... is this a good sign?IP: Logged |
amowls
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posted February 02, 2009 10:52 PM
Uhhhhwell that I would just say it's because he knows you and he's being friendly? I wouldn't say he's into you or not into you. You can erect a horary chart to see if he's interested. IP: Logged |
augentier
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posted February 02, 2009 10:54 PM
*ears perk*how exactly does one erect a horary ? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted February 02, 2009 10:56 PM
I don't see the fuss, I've always seen Aquas as very open when they like you. If you don't know the person, talk to him. I'm not a big fan of Aqua Venus, I don't see them as demonstrative, but that's just me - their Venus squares mine naturally, so our love styles are completely different. IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted February 03, 2009 12:47 AM
i agree aqua venuses do care - i had one cry to me after mos of me thinking he didn't care [and id also blatantly let him know how little i think he feels for me, in a bitter sort of way, not emotional] and the tears came through: "i care, you have no idea how much i care about you." - ugh by that time it's almost like...what difference does it make.and i agree that women with aquarian influence are different than the men. in them it's more charming than exasperating. IP: Logged |
blue moon
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posted February 03, 2009 01:03 AM
Never try to timetable him or tell him what to do. Suggest, imply, go around the houses. You will get what you want quicker. Don't forget Aqua's traditional co-ruler is Saturn. You will spot that when you see how predictable he really is, not that he will like you pointing that out. Don't agree with everything he says. If you think he is wrong, say so, preferably by presenting a balanced and rational argument. Make sure to tell him to stop pestering you with 'phone calls because you are busy. If he suddenly decides to go off and do something and leave you on your own, don't be offended. Just carry on with whatever you want to do. He's just an Aqua doing his thing, nothing personal. a generalisation, I know, still, the first one is also quite true of Sun/Uranus types, there being a few in my acquaintance IP: Logged |
amowls
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posted February 03, 2009 01:29 AM
My boyfriend with an Aqua Venus sent me this text the other day:
"I miss you so much! I just want to show you how you make me feel but it's so hard to... just know that you are always on my mind whenever i have a spare moment"See, they can be sweet. You make a horary chart by asking a question, looking at what time and date and place you asked the question and make a chart using that information. IP: Logged |
praecipua
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posted February 03, 2009 05:57 AM
Blue moon:Don't agree with everything he says. If you think he is wrong, say so, preferably by presenting a balanced and rational argument. that's very very true. probably the best way to catch his attention. but don't bring up an argument just because you want to catch his attention, cause he'll get it, and find it childish (emotional so childish in aqua language) i would feel free to question what he says if i don't agree with him. he wants equality. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted February 03, 2009 06:21 AM
I beg to differ. I think Aquas like emotional difficulty or challenging LOL
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Lara
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posted February 03, 2009 06:33 AM
From my observation of Aquarian men they don't like pussies.
They like challenging women, not necessarily difficult but women who mentally put them through hoop. They love original and unique women who stand out and up for themselves.They love you to be yourself and will allow you to be yourself! Personally l don't like moon or venus in Aqua as they both square my sun/mars. I like Aquarian sun men more than any other sign though because they are the only ones who don't try to change me and they are great fun, loving, intellectual with fantastic wit! IP: Logged |
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