posted January 06, 2010 12:51 AM            

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In a modern stand point people would just associate them as prostitutes, but after my first sexual experience I've just realized how ridiculous and idealized sex can be in western culture, it's a very primal thing and it bothers me at how crude people can make it seem.

Especially in regard to female sexuality, it is so frequent that a women is labeled a **** , what exactly is being a **** , enjoying sex? This relates back to our patriarchal society! What happened to Gaia, IQ, and the equality of the female sex?

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Whether it is in regards to a man or a woman, sex is supposed to be an "Expression" of love between to people. If there is no love between them, but they simply just love to have sex, what is it that they are expressing? Self-indulgence? Ego satisfaction? What?

Whether it is from cultures of the past or from modern culture of today, the human design remains the same. There is a healthy way to approach sex and there is also a dysfunctional, unhealthy way to approach sex.

posted January 06, 2010 08:54 AM            

In general, the person whose Saturn and Pluto aspects the other's Venus, Aphrodite or JUNO can be considered the past life male. I know of no better way to assess. With Mars to Mars or Mars to Venus or Venus or Mars, it is very difficult to assess who was male.

posted January 06, 2010 09:14 AM            

T. JUNO conj your IC will help you feel or introspect those qualities that make you an ideal partner or wife for the man of your choice.

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posted January 06, 2010 09:16 AM            

If anything, try placing the bet when the Asc of that day conjuncts your Natal TYCHE.

posted January 06, 2010 09:20 AM            

EROS-CERES double whammy helps create a powerful love bond because of the positive way the couple nurture each other. Their nurturing turns them on very strongly.
Or even the way they nurture others.
Think of a MASH Unit romance where two selfless doctors fall deeply for each other.

I think this a wonderful double whammy to have in synastry.

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posted January 06, 2010 09:46 AM            

I dont see anything that can disrupt your Moon - (her)Venus/CERES- (your)NorthNode Grand Trine, which helps in maintaining a happy relationship.

You have asked some very transformational questions. I hope my answers are not wrong and do not mislead you in anyway.

Astrology tells the Matrix Escapees, people like you, Lara , DD and many many members here how the Matrix affects them.
To start beating the effects, one needs to maximize the knowledge and practice of Hermetic Laws, as shown in the Kybalion.
After this, we need to maximize the connection to our Higher Self through more and more application/practice of Higher Conscious Awareness.

You can skip the Hermetic stuff too but this will entail plenty of karmic suffering in your path.

The more your awareness improves, yes, the more you will sense the Asteroids impact in your chart, and in transits. Law of Attraction will work very powerfully for you.

The second question about your elevation raising the others, well to the best of my knowledge this works as a double edged sword. If she is totally in the Matrix, then just as much as your awareness helps her see the truth, her entrapment will create pitfalls for you. The Matrix will speak through her in certain emotional states. Lets say she disbelieves in Astrology, and some tragedy were to befall you, she will be 'made to say' that your wrong belief caused the tragedy. Thats not her Higher Self talking but the programmed Self that is stuck in the Matrix. This discouragement can weaken your resolve and drain your awareness energy. This path gets steeper as you progress.

Should your love for one another increase, then then her Higher Self will pave the way for her to break free too. And then, your life becomes heaven. You dont need a twin flame to be truly happy if your present soulmate has evolved on her own in understanding the truth.

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posted January 06, 2010 12:09 PM            

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2 major challenges in the composite:

1. T-Square of Saturn, Chiron and Uranus
2. Pluto opp Proserpina, this can be converted into a positive when the guy is evolved.

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What challenges do these present?

Based on your interpretive insight, is she karmic partner, or Twin flame? I do not feel her to be a soul mate because of the intense obstacles we continue to face.

posted January 07, 2010 07:04 AM              

i also thought that he seems much more cancer than Leo.

i will stcik to the birth time i had before then.

His crisis had passed and he reassured that he was being egoic.
I think this New Year will be very positive to us.

Polo

i loved your post about Sex-i agree with it completely.

about yor gf if you feel that she is your Divine complement...then..She Is.

posted January 07, 2010 07:26 AM            

/* Code of Soulmates */
IF
there are intense obstacles
THEN
she is a Soulmate for sure ;

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1. T-Square of Saturn, Chiron and Uranus
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Clash of Established Order/rules/lifestyle, Sudden Changes and wounds that refuse to heal. If they heal, a new wound appears.
Solution is to NEVER REACT IN ANGER, even for the worst verbal barb. Even if she calls you un-evolved for any reason, I know that would hurt you a lot if she said it.

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2. Pluto opp Proserpina, this can be converted into a positive when the guy is evolved.
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Here you can become the instrument of her Transformation, and be her hero.

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There has always been a sense of divinity to this relationship and that, along with the (her)Eros/ (my)Psyche conjunction combined with (her)Juno and (my)Psyche conjunction, which I feel explains the extraordinary telepathy, has always made me view her as something special. Honestly, that may be just another Matrix dream I need to awake from... What's the Reality? What do you see astrologically? My best educated guess is that she is a "Potential Divine Complement." She has the Right Stuff in terms of raw materials, but she lacks the necessary construction of consciousness.
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Astrologically, she does not seem to be your Twin Flame, but a loving soulmate.
Like in the Matrix Movie, Neo is one incarnation away from being The One. Same way, it is possible that you have found her one incarnation too soon, but this could turn out to be very fortunate for both of you than if you become 4D in your next lifeline and she has one more Earth life. You could be the instrument of her transformation.

She is a lot younger to you. Maybe you will see the changes if you both keep up the good work in transcending obstacles.

posted January 07, 2010 07:41 AM            

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what would be an aspect between soulmates meeting on the astral plane?
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I would look at composite Anubis and Moon aspects or Composite Aura and Moon aspects.
If A's ISIS links to B's Moon/AURA/ANUBIS and B's OSIRIS links to A's Moon/AURA/ANUBIS, then they might meet Astrally as well.

posted January 07, 2010 10:10 AM            

" would look at composite Anubis and Moon aspects or Composite Aura and Moon aspects.
If A's ISIS links to B's Moon/AURA/ANUBIS and B's OSIRIS links to A's Moon/AURA/ANUBIS, then they might meet Astrally as well."

I was intrigued by this, and so I checked for some charts:

I
a) composite
No Moon to Anubis or Moon,

BUT

SUN exactly conjunct AURA (on my natal Sumeria and Urania)

Actually there is

[SUN conjunct AURA] sextile ANUBIS: all aspects are exact

[ISIS conjunct OSIRIS] inconjunct MOON

b) synastry:

[his ANUBIS exactly conjunct my SATURN]inconjunct my MOON

my ANUBIS exactly inconjunct his OSIRIS

my ISIS / OSIRIS conjunct his AURA
his ISIS widely inconjunct my AURA (3)

interesting these inconjunctions; probably an "almost, but not really"-connection.

II
a) composite

no connections like you suggested, but

[SUN conjunct ISIS conjunct OSIRIS] trine ANUBIS
- probably this just emphasises the egyptian theme

b) synastry

his MOON exact square my ANUBIS
his ANUBIS Exact opposite my ANUBIS
his AURA sextile my ANUBIS

not really so convincing, I guess.

III

a) composite

ANUBIS conjunct NEPTUNE conjunct ASCENDANT
- well, even though it is not what you suggested, it is ... something
Orb is 1 degree

Actually [ANUBIS conjunct NEPTUNE conjunct ASCENDANT] trine [OSIRIS exact conjunct IC]

b) synastry

his MOON exact square my ANUBIS
my MOON trine his ANUBIS (3 degree)

his OSIRIS exact square my AURA

posted January 07, 2010 08:00 PM            

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Astrologically, she does not seem to be your Twin Flame, but a loving soulmate.

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posted January 08, 2010 04:19 AM            

" I always thought that the Eros/Psyche conjunction was an indicator of this."

An Eros/Psyche-conjunction, even though indicative of complimentary energies, alone is not enough.
Otherwise John Cusack would be MY Twinflame, as his Psyche is precisely conjunct my Eros on 20.5 Cancer.

I don`t know if twinflames really can be shown in the charts, but if so, then I would expect exact aspects (conjunction or trine) to the angles or even Moon, as these are absolute unique relations, totally depending on not only the birthDAY but birthMINUTE.

posted January 08, 2010 04:49 AM            

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An Eros/Psyche-conjunction, even though indicative of complimentary energies, alone is not enough.
Otherwise John Cusack would be MY Twinflame, as his Psyche is precisely conjunct my Eros on 20.5 Cancer.

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posted January 08, 2010 05:54 AM            

Actually our synastry (from quick glance) is very interesting, karmically speaking.

posted January 08, 2010 06:27 AM            

If there is such a thing is twinflame astrology, Psyche-Eros conjunction is not enough.

Christian Bale's Psyche conjuncts my Eros, and in drac synastry his Eros conjuncts my Psyche.