posted April 30, 2009 02:18 AM         

He'll have to find his own path for channelling his anger.

I've also got a Martian T-Square, and a little bit of a temper. Mine involves Mercury, Venus and the Ascendant, so given those energies I find creative expression is helpful. Also, I found non-work activities that are very male and can accomadate some female aggression.

With his blend, my first thought is sport. The Jupiter Aqua in 9th I think might appreciate some outside activity that is charity based but involves him being physical. He might benefit from finding an environment where a bit of assertion is what is needed.

There's little point in denying you have this kind of energy, suppressing it only makes things worse. My Mars is Sesquiquadrate Moon/Pluto. Ignore it and one day Krakatoa will explode.

posted April 30, 2009 04:40 AM         

I have gemini moon and its hard being me lol

And that mars / pluto aspect is bad too..

And then to make things worse he has firey placements of aries so he probably has no patience and cant even sit still.

Moon on ascendant makes u severely moody. He probably senses peoples ill intentions and become protective of himself and people around him..

Uranus in 7th is another issue.

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posted April 30, 2009 05:13 PM         

When he gets angry it takes over him completely. Thats the problem. He forgets everything else. All that matters is that he gets what he wants. He's told me how he feels so out of control. He can't stop how he's feeling at the time. Like if he doesn't get what he wants he's going to go crazy. He doesn't know why it's so important, he just know he NEEDS it.

And also a disturbing thing is he likes being angry and the power it gives him.

posted April 30, 2009 06:21 PM         

I agree the Tsquare I think would be it......Mars - Pluto opposition is hard then add Jupiter for acceleration.

posted May 01, 2009 12:15 AM         

I think that if you are concerned about the anger issues, you should talk to him about them. Find out the source of the anger issues. It even could be things like abuse.

I have a history of anger issues,and it was from being verbally,physically abused at home. I had a love n' hate relationship with my mother. She and I made peace with each other in 2006 when I told her that I forgive for abusing me.

I believe that hard aspects to Pluto can indicate some type of abuse,trauma

but I also feel that hard aspects to the Pluto Nodal axis can too.

I also believe that hard aspects to Pluto's fellow transneptunians do too. I have hard kuiper belt aspects to my Sun,Moon,Ascendant,and Midheaven.

I do have the South Mars Node conjunct my chart ruler,Mercury too.

If you want, I can check out his chart and see what I come up with.

He has Heliocentric North Uranus Node conjunct the Ascendant, and that adds to being unpredictable. a collective Uranian energy of unpredictability,change,unconventionality,innovation

posted May 01, 2009 12:25 AM         

we do talk about his anger a lot, and actually there is no abuse. other than getting spanked. he has a very good relationship with both parents which further confuses me. His shrink said it could be 2 reasons, his dad has a "my way or the highway" attitude, and he's an only child and may therefore have abandonment issues.

posted May 01, 2009 12:40 AM         

I am not saying that's how he is like

I am just saying that's how abused people can be

It was only until I was 25 years old, I realized that I was abused by my parents,and it really made me more angry and resentful towards my mother until 2006. my stepfather was already out of picture in 1990.

abuse doesn't have to be physical either. It can be be verbal....it can be psychological,emotional abuse that doesn't stem from physical violence.

there could be a pastlife karmic thing involved. Karmic astrologers would definitely focus on that Mars in 12th house opposed by Pluto in 6th as well as his retrograde Mercury and Venus in Aries that are disposited by his 12th house Mars.

posted May 01, 2009 03:52 PM         

OK, I have Chiron conj Moon in the 12th in my own chart (but it's in Aries), so I can kind of relate to the whole feeling of empowerment from getting angry, and expressing it. But it took me YEARS to express it in a healthy way, and I'm still learning, and I still have a mean temper, but can hold it in pretty well when I want to. I think if he's aware of it then that's a huge start. I agree with Blue Moon that suppressing the anger is just terrible, won't work. It's going to make explosions.

I also think the anger itself though brings a level of catharsis and maybe that's why it's empowering for him and he 'likes' it. I don't think he likes himself after it though, and that's the issue. HOW he uses the energy is the question, because energy doesn't just go away, it has to go SOMEWHERE, so HOW it's expressed (as opposed to suppressed) is the key, so this is the thing to focus on for him I would think. He's got all that Aries energy buzzing...he should find a passion, something he loves to do and just throw himself into it completely and utterly, and that's how he'll feel the same empowering catharsis, but probably without the damage.
And I think that the NN in the 12th might point to him needing to deal with it (I can't say I agree with controlling it, as Writes says - that just ain't gonna happen and it's pointless to try and control) thru release, and even surrender. That's what the expression would bring him, I feel.

So he just needs to find a passion, something he loves to do and that stirs his soul, and to throw himself into that. I think this is part of the clue. Do you know what he likes to do, what he loves doing? I'd definitely have him focus on that.