posted May 15, 2009 05:29 PM            

no it doesn`t point to R.

BUT in Jude`s 13th harmonic the name Kerstin is exactly conjunct Juno and it is EXACTLY conjunct my own natal Sun-Mercury-conjunction on the GC.

There is more, in my 13th harmonic chart the name Davida is exactly conjunct NN and opposing Juno.

posted May 15, 2009 05:37 PM              

some of them just pass through at significant times to "wake you up" or charge your batteries, or even - as i suspect in cases like this, to set you seeking again when you have fallen into a pattern that is too comfortable? and also i think sometimes they may just show up because they miss you and want to remember what being with you is like...but not to settle down and live happily ever after with! whether they are showing up to teach you a lesson or not i am not so sure. i think the lessons are what we make them, as is the life we live.

but in pining for someone who is not here, we can miss the guy next door who might ALSO be a soulmate and here to cherish us for a lifetime!!

posted May 15, 2009 06:23 PM            

I did mine with the opposition.

10 His AC opposes my AC (1)
10 His psyche trine my AC (1)
(20)

10 His moon opposes my venus (2)
10 His mars trine my Saturn (2)
10 His mars trine my NN (3)
10 His Saturn opposes my psyche (1)
10 His eros opposes my Pluto (3)
10 His eros trine my valentine (1)
10 His psyche trine my AC (1)
10 His karma trine my juno (2)
(80)

5 His amor conjunct my moon (4)
5 His amor conjunct my Saturn (4)
5 His amor conjunct my NN (4)
5 His union trine my moon (4)
5 His union trine my venus (2)
5 His union trine my Saturn (4)
5 His union trine my NN (4)
5 His union trine my amor (1)
5 My amor opposes his moon (0)
(45)

3 my angel trine his psyche (0)
3 my angel opposes his amor (4)
(6)

posted May 15, 2009 07:35 PM            

It resonates with Pluto!

Example: Johnny has my name conjunct his venus and mars witch are in opposition.
they both square the MC and George wich is in opposition of the Moon.

posted May 16, 2009 04:11 AM            

According to this calculator, our score is 249.

The calculator is a little confusing because some aspects are on there twice, with different values. For instance, if you have moon trine Karma with someone, it could fall in either the 10 point category or the 5 point category. It's easy to accidentally count some aspects twice.

We have conjunctions/sextiles/trines between the following (I just tallied it, didn't write down which aspect):

Saturn/moon
Saturn/Eros
Karma/ASC
Karma/Valentine
Karma/Juno double whammy
Karma/Saturn
Valentine/moon
Valentine/Eros
Juno/Moon
Eros/Eros
Eros/Venus double whammy
Eros/Mars
Psyche/Node
Psyche/moon
Psyche/Venus
Psyche/Pluto

(180 points)

moon/ASC
moon/Pluto
node/Venus
Amor/node double whammy
Amor/Eros
Amor/Venus
Amor/Mars
Union/Psyche

(45 points)

Sun/node double whammy
Sun/Venus
Sun/Mars
Mars/Eros
Angel/moon
Angel/Eros
Angel/Venus

(24 points)

Total: 249

posted May 16, 2009 06:54 AM            

I agree with you. Only orbs under 3 degree, maybe 3.1, but really not more than that.

Also since some aspects appear multiple times, I only counted the strongest, but didn`t counted it twice.

I do agree that conjunction, opposition and maybe trine are the strongest for soulmate-interaction and should be used.

Sextile is more friendly like in a friendship, and square, even though can be highly sexual and attractive, might be too combustible energy, and could indicate a swaying between irresistible attraction and animosity.

Vesta,

this 13th harmonic is just creepy, the one between Jude and me.
my Davida / NN-conjunction also falls onto his Sun in the 13th harmonic, and on my natal Part of Reincarnation.

Actually his harmonic Sun falls onto my Part of Reincarnation and my harmonic Sun opposes his Part of Reincarnation. Interesting. If that is anything more than just playing around, it looks interesting.

Well, I definitely would have to loose that much weight, too. Congratulations to you, that you did it.
Personally I started not thinking too much about it, and consequently, but slowly, having lost a bit weight, only a few pounds, but it is a rather steady development.
But I must not think about it too much, cause I realized, whenever I fixated on it, it wouldn`t work.

So, I just go on living and doing whatever I want and am losing a bit of weight in the process.

posted May 16, 2009 11:50 AM            

I would think that conjunction and trines would probably point to a more harmonious kind of soulmates, whereas oppositions and squares might bring more energy but at the same time also tension and friction.

On top of that I would examine what kind of planets / asteroids make the score.

Is it more through Moon and amor and Angel?
Or is it through Saturn and NN and Karma?
Or is there a high involvement of Mars, Eros and Pluto?

DEFINITELY a different vibe.

posted May 16, 2009 03:10 PM            

no to sextile.
yes to squares and oppositions.

posted May 17, 2009 10:57 AM              

is it important?

do you compare with the natals or bwtween the Harmonics?

His 13H vENUS cj my N.mARS/vALENTINE/Karma 1
His 13H Mars cj my N.Lilith
His 13H Saturn cj my N. Union/Destinn
His 13H ANNA exact cj my N.JONNHY!!!
HIS 13H ANNA wide cj my N.DSC
his 13H AMOR cj my N.AMor
hisa 13H KARMA cj my N. KARMA / Widely my Valentine/Mars
his 13H VALENTINE cj my N.JUP.OPOse my ANNA 0
HIS 13H ASC cj my D.ASC 0

mY 13H Sun cj his N.SIVA
MY 13H Moon cj his N.UNION
MY 13H VENUS Solstice cj his Boda
MY 13H MARS opose his Valentine
MY 13H NN EXACT CJ HIS ANNA IN CHART!!!OMG
MY 13H KIRON cj his N.NN
MY 13H VX cj his IC AND HIS PSYCHE

MY 13H JUNO exact cj his D. Sun
MY 13H jonnhy CJ HIS N.AMOR!!!
MY 13H JOHNPAUL cj his N.ASC!!!
MY 13H ANNA solstice cj his BODA
MY 13TH AMOR wide cj his VENUS 5
MY 13H KARMA cj his N.DSC!!!!
MY 13H VALENTINE OPOSE his Anteros and Valentine ( ALSO opose his D.Venus..)
my 13H UNION cj his ASC...

posted May 18, 2009 04:48 AM            

I am also going to innovate for addition of more points. Like even if Mars and Venus are not trine or conjunct, I would add 1 bonus point if A's Mars is in the same Element as B's Venus.
Next level would be Sabian Symbols, I would add 2 bonus points if select love asteroids of A are in the "lovey dovey" Sabian Degree of B and vice versa.

This new calculator should give more valid results. Pls stay tuned....

posted May 18, 2009 12:17 PM            

" I am also thinking of reducing points for some placements"
You mean squares and certain oppositions?

" elimnating unrelated aspects"
Which aspects would be unrelated?

" and would retain the double whammy"
Would you give bonus points for double whammies?
And if so, for what aspects?

" plus generous bonus points for Soul-Mate pairs. "
Like Eros-Psyche?
Are you considering to also include other soulmate pairs like Pluto-Proserpina or Siva-Kaali?

"Like even if Mars and Venus are not trine or conjunct, I would add 1 bonus point if A's Mars is in the same Element as B's Venus. "
Yes, I definitely agree.
I think it will not make the WHOLE difference, but it weighs in.

"ext level would be Sabian Symbols, I would add 2 bonus points if select love asteroids of A are in the "lovey dovey" Sabian Degree of B and vice versa. "
What are lovey dovey SAbian degrees?
Or are you talking about two lovey-dovey asteroids /planets being on the same Sabian?
Like for example Amor and Juno on 2 - 3 Sagittarius?