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Topic: Soul Mate Synastry Calculator: Updated
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 04:31 PM
yes IQ said squares are very maleficIP: Logged |
songwriter Knowflake Posts: 319 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 04:39 PM
I thought they could be valid links.Thanks DD and Alia. IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 7076 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 04:47 PM
Alia,yes, squares can be malefic, but really, look at some socalled soulmate synastry or at passionate relationships. They usually have several squares. I especially noticed squares to the fated objects (those can be really difficult though) and also between the "sexual" planets and asteroids (Venus, Mars, Pluto and also Eros and ASC); I haven`t found those TOO devastating, even though they probably create an imbalance. They give a lot of energy to the attraction, though. Even though this is never an easy attraction, but pretty intense. It depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking for easy, loving, happy, content, gentle, affectionate, tender, balanced love, then you really should stay away from too many squares. IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 05:03 PM
i know... squares are really powerful..i just dont remember why and i cant find the post where IQ said the reason why squares didnt fit for the calculator..i have a synastry with my moon squaring his saturn and believe me is total glue at least for me, the moon person IP: Logged |
Kismet* Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Venus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 06:14 PM
Alia:1st Rule: Her ASC trine his Eros (121) 4 His Eros conjunct her Aphrodite (038) 2 Her Pluto trine his Aphrodite (107) 2 Her ASC trine Eros (121) 1 His Moon opposition her Eros (029) 1 Her Mars opposition his Amor (033) 1 Her Sun opposition his Karma (022) 1 Her Sun quincunx his Destinn (048) 1 His Moon quincunx her Saturn (042) 2 His Venus conjunct her NN (044) 2 His Pluto conjunct her Destinn (019) 1 Her Pluto opposition his Tyche (007) 1 His NN opposition her Valentine (109) 1 Her Venus in earth his Sun in earth 1 His Sun in earth her Psyche in earth 1 His Eros in fire her Aphrodite in fire 1 His Eros in fire her Juno in fire 1 His Venus in earth her Pluto in earth 1 His Aphrodite in earth her Pluto in earth 1 His Juno is earth her Pluto in earth 1 his Psyche in water her Eros in water 1 His Psyche in water her Mars in water 2 Her Pluto trine his Sun (102) 1 His Lust trine her Mars (011) 1 His Lust conjunct her Eros (127) 5 His Psyche trine her Eros (009) Score: 37
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 06:43 PM
KISMET* !!!!! <} <} <} Thank you so much!with my skills i had 17 score but you saved me! the most difficult thing in this calculator is the soulmate pair link to fated object. i hoped i had one of those..sigh..6 points! that alone scared me away from the computer love u kismet!! xoxoxox EDIT: IQ dont you think tighter orbs should get higher score? like if u have a 0 orb or 1 orb wouldnt it be stronger than having an orb of 2 or 3? just pushing my luck here hehe IP: Logged |
Kismet* Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Venus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 09:46 PM
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 09:53 PM
thanks Kismet so you didnt count the descendant angle? i have angel conjunct his DC so i wanted to see if i could stretch it to 40!u think 37 is ok? many of you have over 50.. those are amazing! but im happy at least to have the chance! xx IP: Logged |
Kismet* Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Venus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 10:10 PM
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 10:15 PM
yes it wasnt included at the beginning but then many ppl objected and IQ included the DC as well. not sure if he also included IC we ll have to wait until is after midnight in India and his babies go to sleep!did u see the rest of the synastry other than the calculator? what a bummer to have ASC conj. his DC with such a loose orb (8 degrees !) that alone would have been huge IP: Logged |
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posted May 26, 2009 10:16 PM
Alia, scores ultimately don't mean much. The scores don't tell you if you're going to be together forever.I had 47 with my last boyfriend and I dumped him after 2 1/2 years because I was bored with it. The person I scored 50 with I will never be with again and I haven't seen him in a year (since I jumped ship). The last time I talked to him was 3 months ago over Facebook chat. I have vowed to cut ties with another person I scored 40 with because he is really disrespectful and doesn't seem to really give a damn about me. IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 10:23 PM
wow Amowls.. that sucks... maybe there should be a calculator for 'togetherness' -chances of-... this is just compatibility..probably the fated calculator would tell if two are going to be together soulmates or not... my mom and dad have probably a - 50 but they ve been married for 34 years lol IP: Logged |
Kismet* Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Venus Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 10:29 PM
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 26, 2009 10:36 PM
oh thanks Kismet now makes more sense..oh well!! this was fun and hope one day we ll have a destiny calculator! IP: Logged |
iQ Moderator Posts: 5397 From: Lyra Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 03:47 AM
Hi All, Like DD, I too believe in the power of squares but too many people are yet to attain the maturity to accept challenges and grow. These kids will use the calculator, probably score a 50+ and then a month later dump the guy/girl citing boredom whereas the truth is they are too lazy to evolve and run at the first activation of the square aspect. Such people are better off finding their true soulmate in stages, who may score just 25-30 due to many squares but by then they will have attained the maturity.This calculator hence has safety measures to protect the immature from disappointment. Yet again, those who are above 35 and have some degree of spiritual maturity will uncannily find a 50 plus score without squares, because their higher Selves have decided that it is time to meet. ------------------ Soul Mate Love Calculator http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html IP: Logged |
iQ Moderator Posts: 5397 From: Lyra Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 03:58 AM
About long lasting relationships, culture plays a part. Asian cultures have programmed morality and many cultures still have different social events for men and different events for women. Hence the opportunity to be tempted is minimal, and the soulmate aspects help sustain the long lasting relationship.Aussie legend Shane Warne's wife Simone is very much his true love soul mate but he could not resist quickies with hot chicks in UK nightclubs. Hence they divorced, even though they love each other. 50 years ago, they would have been happily married till death did them apart. Don Bradman and Jessie Bradman did show this with a happy 70 year mariage. IP: Logged |
Ruben Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 06:35 AM
It is mentioned that Nessus square Dejanira is a negative aspect. What about Nessus opposite Dejanira or the conjunction in that case? Is the negative impact just as valid?IP: Logged |
DiandraReborn25 unregistered
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posted May 27, 2009 06:52 AM
that is very true - it depends much on the maturity of the persons involved.and the time when the two meet.sometimes it is not the best timming,and the couple might meet and then go apart for awhile. IQ What did you thought about me and J΄s Draco?it sure looks much more stronger than our tropical. IP: Logged |
Izo Knowflake Posts: 327 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 12:41 PM
quote: Izowhy dont you send a private mail to IQ asking his opinion about those particular placements? i think that it is only of concern if one was really in fact abused by the other person..
I would like to ask here, if IQ has time to look into it and doesn't mind. Maybe there are others in a similar situation as mine. We scored 64 points, but we also have these aspects: -his Dejanira - my Mars: sextile 0 deg -his Dejanira - my Pluto: trine 0 deg -his Dejanira - my Nessus: quincunx 2 deg -my Dejanira - his Mars: square 1 deg -my Dejanira - his Pluto: no aspect -my Dejanira - his Nessus: trine 0 deg I feel I should also mention that his Nessus squares my Venus and Chiron and MC/IC (speaks volumes, doesn't it? ), and my Nessus squares his Pluto and Nodes. I called it "the match made in hell", but I'm open for more suggestions. ------------------ Every day is a battle with yourself, one you can never win, nor lose, nor abandon. IP: Logged |
songwriter Knowflake Posts: 319 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 02:26 PM
What about Pluto square Dejanira DW and A's Nessus conjunct B's Dejanira? "Male's Nessus/Pluto/Mars squaring Female's Dejanira even by 3 degrees is dangerous." Dejanira (Latinized in Greek, Δηϊάνειρα or Δῃάνειρα; Deοaneira 'man-destroyer' [1] or 'destroyer of her husband' [2]) is a figure in Greek mythology, best-known for being Heracles' third wife and, in the late Classical story, unwittingly killing him with the Shirt of Nessus. wikipedia.org
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comica23 Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 27, 2009 02:36 PM
hmm iQ, if squares are included in this calculator, what's the orb/degree you would consider valid, and how many points would you give them? X3IP: Logged |
iQ Moderator Posts: 5397 From: Lyra Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 03:53 AM
Hi Comica, I would use a 2 degree orb for Squares.Hi Izo, Nessus sq Venus is quite common in soulmates who may have not learnt how to handle posessiveness. My wife's Nessus sq my Venus. She burns with rage for a few seconds if she sees girls staring at me, and cools down after that. Mars sq Dejanira would have sexual aggro. The male might use sex to assert dominance. There may be physical abuse too but there need not be sexual assault. Sexual Assault is mostly restricted to Nessus sq Dejanira. Also, as Songwriter has pointed out Dejanira unwittingly kills Heracles. A very powerful myth. A guy should be aware if his love interest has her Dejanira sq his Sun. ------------------ Soul Mate Love Calculator http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html IP: Logged |
Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 06:17 AM
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Alia Knowflake Posts: 527 From: az Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 06:18 AM
IQ is there an asteroid of break up for a couple?IP: Logged |
venus in gemini Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 01:25 PM
IQ, When you did our relationship analysis, did you use the soulmate calculator on us? I was hoping you might still have it, because I am trying to look at all of our aspects, and my brain is fried. I am embarrassed to admit that I am mathmatically/number challenged. I did want to include our calculator number on this thread, because I thought it would be interesting to show everyone a twin flame relationship using your calculator. Or if anyone wants to take pity on me please? You can see all of our squares and quincunxes! Venus in Gemini July 18, 1958 at 5:05pm Baltimore, Maryland Mr. Capricorn Moon June 24, 1956 at 6:00am Anniston, Alabama
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