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Topic: your mars/venus combination
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stopandstare Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 06:46 PM
lonake: thank you so much for your time and for sharing all of this information it's really fun reading all of your postings here. i think everyone is enjoying this wealth of knowledge! take care.IP: Logged |
Virgo/Leo Cusp Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 07:02 PM
can you please doMars Libra/ Venus in Cancer and Mars Aqua/ Venus in Aries thanks!!
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 12:39 AM
hi fiona, quote: If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Gemini you are... the Playful SensualistYou are a deft, inventive, good-humored Lover who, nonetheless, has plenty of Mars in Taurus earthiness and sexual stamina. The intellectual distance with which you view your sex life makes you a true connoisseur of physical pleasures--a cool thoughtful sensualist who typically tries to make the most of every sexual opportunity. At times, your tendency to cooly analyze your desires may convince some people that you don't take sex that personally. You know better (and so does anyone who has ever been in bed with you). What you must avoid is letting your approach to sex become so practical and purely transactional that your sex life is totally divorced from your more civilized needs. You may be the most warm-hearted, loyal companion in the world but, when it comes to sex, you are always drawn to the best deal--the most physical pleasure for the least emotional labor. If you let this tendency get out of hand it will make you seem fickle and opportunistic, when in fact you're just trying to have a good time.
... quote: If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Cancer you are... the Technician of Obsessive LoveYou have an intellectual, playful approach to your love life even though you are one of the more emotional Mars in Gemini Lovers. Your heightened sensuality only makes the game more interesting and your ability to tune into the feelings of others only makes you a better player. You know that, with your sex appeal, you have the capacity to manipulate other people both mentally and emotionally, but you only use this ability for recreational purposes. After all, it's about having fun, isn't it? Of course, it's not only about having fun. It's also about finding shelter for your sensitive and vulnerable emotional self. The fact that you seek this shelter in an idea does not lessen the need. If anything, it makes your obsessive behavior seem strangely calculated and cold-hearted. You are not an easy Lover to understand. You love the things your partner represents more than you love him or her. If they only knew that the person most confused by your contradictory behavior is you.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 12:46 AM
hi librarising, here you go quote: If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Cancer you are... the Maestro of EmotionYou are one of the most alluring and passionate Mara in Leo Lovers. Not only are you a very sexy Lover, you are driven by deep and powerful emotions that few people can resist. You like to dramatize your emotions, your relationships, and your partners. In fact, your love life often resembles a somewhat overwrought play in which everyone, even those who don't realize that they have a part, performs as expected. You are a sensitive Mars in Leo Lover with a remarkable capacity for anticipating the needs of your partner. This insight gives you an incredible amount of control in relationships that is only as apparent as you want it to be. This control can be a wonderful thing for all concerned, as long as it serves your need to be loved. When it starts serving your ego and pride, then you have a problem.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 12:58 AM
hi Izo, didn't think there would be this many requests so changed my mind and will give the book to her on saturday, instead of tomorrow [wed]. hopefully i can get around to doing more of these [busy wk], here you go ~ quote: If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Taurus you are... the Undercover ExtremistYours is a difficult combination. A sensualist at heart, you don't really approve of the headstrong recklessness of your sexual nature. You would like to slow down and give your senses ample time to drink in each erotic experience. But you find that your Mars in Aries nature runs well only in high gear and the more you try to control it, the more ungainly and muddled you appear. You are among the most practical Mars in Aries Lover but, unfortunately, your actions often give little evidence of this wisdom. On the positive side, in the right situation and with the right partner, your unique combination of sexual patience and volcanic passion can make you a gifted Lover. And there is a sweetness and soft conventionality about your sexual nature that allows you to get away with sexual extremes that might land other Mars in Aries Lovers in jail. If you can learn from your frustrations and build on your strengths, your capacity for erotic imagination is unlimited.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:05 AM
Taurean_Scorpion, quote: If you have Mars in Aquarius with Venus in Gemini you are... the Liberator of the MindYou are perhaps the least physical of all the Mars types. This can either be a blessing or a curse, depending upon your point of view. It is a blessing because it allows you to play with sex without being burned by desire. You can be a very exhilirating Lover--free-spirited, inventive, and kind. You will rarely be driven by the physical need for sex to do anything contrary to your own well-being. You treat sex like a toy and never let it assume too much importance in your life. When it comes to expressing intimacy, this intellectual approach to sex can have significant drawbacks. You are always more comfortable when you are talking about sex or flitting around the edges of desire than you are in the clinch. The visceral immediacy of other people's passion is likely to leave you feeling out of place and even a bit intimidated. Some people will consider your attitude cold and clinical. But even though your adventurous spirit, technical skill, and witty conversation may not be enough to satisfy every partner, it will certainly be enough to fascinate many.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:12 AM
hi Adriana, quote: If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Sagittarius you are... the Saucy Slave of LoveYou are the most impulsive Lover of this type and the one most likely to forget practicality and follow your instincts. This spontaneity, when combined with your strong physical drives, makes you a tremendously exciting, adventurous, and unpredictable sex partner. It also gets you into more than your share of trouble. But acting in haste and repenting in leisure is not a problem for you. Like all Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you rather like repenting. What is lacking in your sexual nature is subtlety. Your restlessness and inconsistency make it difficult for you to manage your relationships as most Mars in Capricorn Lovers do. This often forces you to resort to means that are overly direct, blatant, or just plain rude in order to keep control of your love life. The problem isn't that these techniques are crude and clumsy. (You are so charming and effusive with your affection that you could be forgiven for that.) It's just that they very rarely work.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:22 AM
hi Aste*risk, quote: If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Scorpio you are... the Ruthless SentimentalistYours is a poweful sexuality that cannot be taken lightly. You manage to dominate relationships, even though your approach to sex is basically passive. One reason for this is that your incredible emotional intensity can completely overwhelm the unwary. Another is the fact that you are so insightful; you are quick to see other people's weaknesses and figure how they can be useful to you. And of course, there is your extraordinary sex appeal. When all these factors are working together you can become a sexual juggernaut--a Lover who can't help but get your own way. All this emotional power brings with it a certain degree of messiness. Your feelings and the feelings you inspire in others have a way of getting out of control and disrupting your everyday life. This is particularly disturbing to you because you are essentially a very conservative Lover and like to keep your emotional life as discreet as possible. So, it is not uncommon for you to resort to subterfuge, deception, or even intimidation in order to keep the real story of your inner life from being broadcast to the masses.
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evander Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:23 AM
hello how about mars in aries venus in scorpio? (if it's not too much trouble )------------------ if you want to see my chart paste: i41.tinypic.com/29z8u2w.gif in the adress bar of your internet browser IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 01:28 AM
hi MoonPixie, this combo was posted, the mars pisces venus gem, so let me know if you want yours or another's in its place, this goes for everyone whose natal combo has already been posted, should've mentioned that..IP: Logged |
cristiname Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Earth. Welcome! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 03:03 PM
hello!would you please post Mars in Leo, Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Aquarious, Venus in Leo. thank you very much!!! 
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Taurean_Scorpion Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Santa Monica, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 17, 2009 03:20 PM
Lonake, much appreciated.IP: Logged |
CarbonUnit Newflake Posts: 11 From: Austin, Tx, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2009 03:46 PM
Lonake,thanks so much for taking the time to post that!!Your the Best!!  IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 12:22 AM
jcweimpw, quote: If you have Mars in Aquarius with Venus in Scorpio you are... the Sexy LiberatorSex often brings out the worst in you. It's not that you're an inept Lover. On the contrary, you take sex so seriously and approach it with such intensity and imagination that you are always in demand. What holds you back, however, is your inability to compromise on issues of desire. Your ideas are fixed and your needs a bit overwhelming. You tend to be a difficult and demanding partner even when your intention is to be gentle and loving. You are so hard to deal with because you are always pulled between an intellectual awareness of sex as a simple, unromantic transaction and your deep, emotional ties to the sexual experience. You are a Lover who is equally capable of white-hot passion and icy cruelty, or touching loyalty and callous wanderlust. You can overcome this inconsistency because, above all else, you are still an idealist who wants love to be true and sex to be meaningful. But it's not going to be easy.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 12:33 AM
emma_duncan, quote: If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Virgo you are... the Naked SensualistYou may be the most basic and earthy of the Mars in Taurus Lovers. You see sex as a simple bodily function for which all the pretty lies of romance can offer no redemption. Some might find your approach hard and animalistic but, in fact, you are a very kind and civilized Lover. Your purely material approach to love means you measure affection in terms of real acts of generosity and service. You prove your love by what you do for your Beloved every day. Unfortunately, no matter how nice you try to be, you have a weakness for expediency in your sexual makeup that often gets you into trouble. It's just very difficult for you to pass up any chance for a good time--the quicker and more convenient the better. You are not always proud of this susceptibility to physical pleasure. Sometimes it takes you to places you'd rather not admit you've been. But you'll never get away with denying it. The fact is, the more you try to separate yourself from your lust, the more likely it is to own you.
... quote: If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Cancer you are... the Technician of Obsessive LoveYou have an intellectual, playful approach to your love life even though you are one of the more emotional Mars in Gemini Lovers. Your heightened sensuality only makes the game more interesting and your ability to tune into the feelings of others only makes you a better player. You know that, with your sex appeal, you have the capacity to manipulate other people both mentally and emotionally, but you only use this ability for recreational purposes. After all, it's about having fun, isn't it? Of course, it's not only about having fun. It's also about finding shelter for your sensitive and vulnerable emotional self. The fact that you seek this shelter in an idea does not lessen the need. If anything, it makes your obsessive behavior seem strangely calculated and cold-hearted. You are not an easy Lover to understand. You love the things your partner represents more than you love him or her. If they only knew that the person most confused by your contradictory behavior is you.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 12:38 AM
hi Azalaksh, here you go quote: If you have Mars in Virgo with Venus in Libra you are... the Basically Sociable LoverYou differ from most Mars in Virgo Lovers because you are just as interested in courtship as you are in the sex act itself. You enjoy the romantic games and flirtatious jousts that go along with sexual arousal. You like to watch the way that people react in sexual situations--the way desire muddles thinking and alters behavior (sometimes even your own). Unlike most Mars in Virgo Lovers, you tend to avoid approaching sex directly. You are one of the few Lovers of this type who can actually be embarrassed by the erotic. Your appreciation for sex as social play makes you one of the most agreeable Mars in Virgo Lovers--a sensual and earthy Lover who is willing to wait. There is one problem with you and this sexual game playing: you're too good at it. The cool practicality of Mars in Virgo allows you to play these games and go through all the motions of love and romance without ever surrendering yourself to passion. Since that surrender is what these games are about, winning in this way is the same thing as losing.
... quote: If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Scorpio you are... the Ruthless SentimentalistYours is a poweful sexuality that cannot be taken lightly. You manage to dominate relationships, even though your approach to sex is basically passive. One reason for this is that your incredible emotional intensity can completely overwhelm the unwary. Another is the fact that you are so insightful; you are quick to see other people's weaknesses and figure how they can be useful to you. And of course, there is your extraordinary sex appeal. When all these factors are working together you can become a sexual juggernaut--a Lover who can't help but get your own way. All this emotional power brings with it a certain degree of messiness. Your feelings and the feelings you inspire in others have a way of getting out of control and disrupting your everyday life. This is particularly disturbing to you because you are essentially a very conservative Lover and like to keep your emotional life as discreet as possible. So, it is not uncommon for you to resort to subterfuge, deception, or even intimidation in order to keep the real story of your inner life from being broadcast to the masses.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 12:46 AM
hi leapinglemur14, quote: If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Cancer you are... the Emotional ExtremistYou demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. You need edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges, but you also need emotional comfort and security. This adds an intense, visceral need to your sexuality that is scary at times. People are drawn to you because of your loyalty and outstanding courage, but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme experiences with love. Because you take such a radical, all-or-nothing approach to sex and love, the whole operation often becomes terribly inconvenient for all parties concerned. Because of this, you are often happiest when your love life is constrained, by circumstances beyond your control. You are better able to maintain the security you need when there is a social or intellectual buffer between you and the free exercise of your incredible passions. Such constraints also allow you to hide your emotional vulnerability.
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leapinglemur14 Knowflake Posts: 438 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 02:35 AM
holy **** that hit home. and also explains that no matter how casual i say and want things to be they always end up being more so, at least on my part. explains why i was always consistently single too.tyvm for the time and effort IP: Logged |
etherealenlightenment Knowflake Posts: 494 From: far away... Registered: May 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 02:37 PM
Thank you so much Lonake!! That really was spot on!! I really appreciate your time and effort in typing this all out... could you possibly also do Mars in Scorpio Venus in Cancer?? I didn't see that combination yet... thank you so much!!!  IP: Logged |
Dani California Newflake Posts: 19 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 03:33 PM
Thank you so much for taking the time to do that, much appreiciated.  Wow, fascinating stuff hehe  IP: Logged |
emma_duncan Knowflake Posts: 128 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 06:49 PM
Thank u v much   IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Knowflake Posts: 994 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 07:39 PM
Thanks for your time and effort, Lonake!!  IP: Logged |
jcweimpw Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Pinckney, MI USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 07:45 PM
Thank you Lonake.IP: Logged |
FoxyAries Knowflake Posts: 62 From: Bay Area, California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 19, 2009 11:28 PM
Thank you!Venus in Taurus, Mars in Gemini ! IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8104 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 20, 2009 02:02 PM
hi cooljen, quote: If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Gemini you are... the Artful Love AddictYou are a sweetly duplicitous Mars in Pisces Lover, who uses a charming smile and a rational explanation to conceal seething emotions and desperate sexual needs. Often you are trying to escape the extreme feelings that sweep through your sexual nature, ar at least avoid looking at them too closely. For this reason you may appear calm and aloof with regard to sex when, in fact, you're just befuddled and fearful of what the next wave of sexual madness might bring you. You are even more reluctant than most Mars in Pisces Lovers to commit yourself to relationships. Instead of using your keen sensitivity to guide you to the perfect partner, you often use it to manipulate the feelings of others and dance around the issue of love. Of course, sooner or later your need for emotional sexurity forces you to stop playing games and find a serious relationship. Once this happens and your secret is out, you will find that being a hopeless love addict is really not so bad.
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