posted July 15, 2009 05:12 AM         

Went out with my latin friends to salsa night which is what I do every tuesday. The scorpio was there and I thought good, we can have a dance and be normal as we are both 25 year old adults. What does he do? avoid me and refuse to dance with me (we used to dance together all the time previously). So, I had to chant to myself all night, I'm worth better than his childish games and I danced the night away with everyone. I really dislike rudeness and disresepect.

posted July 16, 2009 02:34 PM         

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The Scorpio was there and I thought good, we can have a dance and be normal as we are both 25 year old adults. What does he do? avoid me and refuse to dance with me (we used to dance together all the time previously).

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You're walking a slippery slope here. This is a mind game champ you're dealing with. One who never passes up the chance to toy with the vulnerable. 666 is the mark of the devil, but it doesn't end there. 666 = 18 = 9 = Mars, ruler of Aries and Scorpio.

When a Scorpio wants you he will find you, and you will feel it. If a Scorpio is acting cool, the relationship IS over. Chase after him and he will clean his boots on you.

Generally speaking, the fire signs are radiators, the water signs are absorbers. Be sunny and bright and full of life and he will gravitate towards you. Persist once he's had his fill and he will suck all the energy, dignity, self-respect out of you.

posted July 16, 2009 02:38 PM         

It would be one thing if she were trying to hook up with him again--but she's just trying to be friends again.

posted July 16, 2009 06:53 PM         

So ive had a strange evening (thunder and lightening thrown in the mix) as I was on campus meeting friends and in walks in the guy i'd been in love with for two years! (Cappie with saggie moon and Asc. 18/1/ 1985))He'd hurt me by denying that we cared for each other and was very harsh. It was an emotional affair that went on for far too long. So I cut him off as a way of getting over him but then he called me out of the blue about a month ago and he said he wanted to say goodbye as he was leaving Uni. So I reluctantly agreed to meet hinm for coffee and it was lovely, like old times and he apologised for how he treated me. So that was nice, good closure. Tonight was also nice, I can recognise that I will always have some affection for him but that its not real too.

so yes, what is with this eclipse??seems to be creating emotional confusion??

posted July 16, 2009 06:56 PM         

It's nice that your Cap/Saggie was able to offer some closure and apologize. You can't un-hurt someone, but a heartfelt apology makes a difference.

posted July 16, 2009 07:07 PM         

yes, you are right. I looked at him tonight and had to remember it was affection I felt and nothing more. It reminded me that we had a good chemistry.

posted July 16, 2009 09:22 PM         

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Nine, why would she want this weenie to gravitate towards her?

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That's not what I'm saying at all. Her natural Jois de Vivre (sp) is attractive to him. And it doesn't matter what she wants, friendship or otherwise, he as it and will use that to get what he wants...emotional angst in her. This is his way of drawing the energy he needs to replenish his depleted stocks.

Question: Was he really in Prague that week?

posted July 16, 2009 09:57 PM         

I work around a couple of Scorpios (male and female) and neither one has any qualms about playing these types of mind games to get a few jabs in. It's never anything crass or in your face that they do...usually subtle but they drive their point home with their intended.

I agree; Saggies are generally full of life and spirit that many are drawn to us (anyone with energy and spirit, not just Saggies).

Your best plan would be to keep your dignity and hang around people who will draw you in, build you up and soothe your soul with good positive loving energy. Ignore him for the most part if he happens to be around by coincidence.

posted July 17, 2009 05:29 AM         

I'm not against all Scorpios....in fact if you take away the astrological aspect, its more about treating one another decently and with respect. That's all I asked for, no matter how long or short a relationship or dalliance, respect should be paramount.

posted July 17, 2009 11:45 AM         

"Your best plan would be to keep your dignity and hang around people who will draw you in, build you up and soothe your soul with good positive loving energy. Ignore him for the most part if he happens to be around by coincidence."

I totally agree. I'm worth so much more than this guy and the Cappie.

posted July 17, 2009 12:13 PM         

no tropical Scorpio Suns are actually born in the constellation of Scorpius because the Sun is only in that constellation from November 23rd to November 29th. It's the smallest of the zodiac cosntellations by far.

I believe in a blending of the tropical zodiac and constellation zodiac.

of course , many other things factor into the chart besides the placement of the Sun.

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

“She causes strife by causing arguments among men, by making them think their opinions are right and everyone else’s is wrong,” Dr. Brown said. “It really is just perfect.”

posted July 17, 2009 12:23 PM         

"so yes, what is with this eclipse??seems to be creating emotional confusion??"

posted July 17, 2009 03:45 PM         

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Surely ALL Scorpios aren't that regressive, though, right?

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Of course not. Born on the 9th, I attract them like moth to the flame. My older brother is one (11.11), Moon in Libra. Definately not the mindf**$&er type. He just doesn't get into that stuff. And I step on toes. Met another Scorp/Libra (10.31) that was really pleasant. Have also met really nice Scorp/Saggies. My mom is a Scorp/Leo (11.22) ... games

I'm now figuring out that we are individuals first, and the signs are just attitudes. The Mars/Pluto energy however, is tough to control, and it takes a strong person to manage it.

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I totally agree. I'm worth so much more than this guy and the Cappie.

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Right on.

posted July 17, 2009 04:56 PM         

I once dated a guy for about 2 weeks.. We were at the same uni and I told my friends that I fancied him. A lot!

A month or so later one of my friends told me that he had told this guy about me and that he wanted to meet me !

So it was great , and I couldn't believe how it had turned out to be so good. I usually find it so hard to really fancy someone and then start dating and without real chemistry I just won't let it go on.

But it was great, and he wanted to be my boyfriend so we were officially dating.. I thought he looked good, tasted good etc

However, there was something missing, and I don't know what it was. Noone understood why I did it but I told him I was busy and didn't go out with him and then I told him when I saw him that , well I know it sounds lame but I was 19, I told him he was too mature for me (he was 20!lol) and that I didn't feel like I was compatible with him... And then I did kind of ignore him at parties or when I saw him, but did say hi on a few occasions.

Astrology might fail to explain our motives but I feel like he probably really liked you but perhaps the way you express yourself was different than his, and that might be the only reason.

And you know what, I also went back to my ex after that , but not really went back. I just thought I had that 'something' with him but it didn't work out. It was over.

I can't stay friends after I'm no longer somebody's gf. It's painful and I feel like they would expect me to be as enthusiastic as before, but I can't do that, way too uncomfortable.

That ex was Cap sun/Sag moon

Also, my sister is Sag , 29/11 and her husband is a Scorpio so you might still be compatible with other Scorpios !! oh wait did that sound rude ?? lol. I love Saggitarius people, I could never be like my sister. She has always been very clear and honest about her expectations when it comes to her realtionships with her bfs and has so much self respect, which I usually lack !!!

posted July 17, 2009 06:23 PM         

a blending

Scorpio born in Libra constellation and Scorpio born in VIrgo constellation are different blend with different constellation,star themes

Virgo constellation http://www.constellationsofwords.com/Constellations/Virgo.html

Libra constellation http://www.constellationsofwords.com/Constellations/Libra.html

Raymond

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“It is absolutely the perfect name,” Dr. Brown said, given the continuing discord among astronomers and the public over whether Pluto should have retained its planetary status.

In mythology, Eris ignited discord that led to the Trojan War.

posted July 22, 2009 07:44 AM         

Hope everyone is doing well.

Went to Salsa this Tuesday night and had a wonderful time. I bumped into a lovely guy who has also got a job at the Uni doing a similar area to me and so that was very nice to see him. I danced the night away with so many wonderful men and was introduced to new people. The scorpio arrived and I danced once with him to prove a point. It takes more energy to ignore someone than to act normal so I was determined to be fine.

Then something interesting happened. I danced with a guy who I had previously told the Scorpio I enjoyed dancing with and he is a bit touchy with his hands but its all fun. Next thing I know the Scorpio has come over to the guy and warned him off me! My spanish is not wonderful but I heard my name and understood a few words and from the body language it was very much a "back off" statement.

Then I ignored the Scorpio for the rest of the night and danced with many guys. I know that he is not with his ex girlfriend any longer but I am not a plaything for him. But I had a great time,.

posted July 22, 2009 09:09 PM         

Scorps are like that (some anyways)...I know one guy who was interested in me at work and a very attractive guy was flirting w/me around the Scorp and every.time. I was within earshot of the other guy...Scorp made it known he had dibs on me...I would just roll my eyes because I knew the Scorp didn't really want me for his...he just didn't want anyone to move in on his so-called 'territory'...I call that selfish, sorry to say.

posted July 22, 2009 11:02 PM         

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I knew the Scorp didn't really want me for his...he just didn't want anyone to move in on his so-called 'territory'...I call that selfish, sorry to say.

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This happened to me too. I think certain immature Scorps can be like this (certainly not all Scorps.) It is a nasty and manipulative hook because it makes you believe they like/love/want you, when really they just want every woman they've ever vaguely had anything with to be "theirs" forever...when they don't want to be "yours." It waaaay confused me because, when a fire sign guy does this, it means he wants you to be his girl!!