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Topic: Interracial, intercultural and interfaith dating
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Chiemi Knowflake Posts: 2110 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 06:16 PM
Personally I see nothing wrong with dating outside of your "race", I mean we're all human with the same organs and bodily functions, plus when we die we all decompose into dirt lol. My aunt was married to a white guy and dated alot of mexicans in her younger days and my mom almost married a white guy (great grandmother didn't like him though) before she married my dad. I've also found out recently that my grandma dated some middle eastern men in her day and even some of my uncles on my fathers side have dated and married hispanic/white/ and asian women. In short, I'm pretty much used to seeing interracial couples. I like to date interracially (or even in my own race) and as long as you aren't coo-coo for crazy puffs, we share common interests, and I find you attractive then you're ok to get to know in my book.
I have Jupiter in sag in 5th 7th house ruler (capricorn/saturn) in 9th house 9th house ruler (aquarius/uranus) in 7th house I also have juno in sagittarius
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ail221 Moderator Posts: 7119 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 06, 2013 06:22 PM
My parents were intercultural/interfaith Mother Christian and father Muslim with a alphabet of ethnic groups in-between them.I have inter-racially and inter-culturally dated. Shurg just the NYC lifestyle. Sun conjunct Jupiter 3rd Venus in Gemini 2nd opp Uranus 8th Mars trine Uranus/Neptune IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1385 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 06, 2013 06:55 PM
ruler 7th in the 9th.Venus-Uranus, Venus-Jupiter, Venus-Neptune. Sagittarius or Gemini DSC. Predominance of Air or Fire signs, more likely Sagittarius. A lot of Aries and Geminis I know LOVE inter racial dating. Noticed some Aquarians hang too. Leo and Libra... not as much, but I have known some white Leo women to be crazy about hispanic men. Robert De Niro is a Leo man who is married to a black lady. I don't know many Libras and the ones I do know are more independent bachelor(ette) types or are in a relationship with someone of the same background. The relationship I am currently in is interracial, and I am drawn to these kind of relationships myself. I have Jupiter in the 9th, as my chart ruler, ruler of the 7th house in the 9th, fire dominant chart. Uranus is in the 2nd house. Another trend I've noticed are Virgos involved in such relationships O.o maybe it has something to do with sharing a ruler with Gemini, another sign with a propensity for dipping their toe in the pool of diversity.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 06, 2013 09:01 PM
My family is interracial and delineated on a couple other dimensions, denoted by a successful 20 year marriage. Venus and Uranus in Synastry and Composite 7th House have something to do with that. My natal Uranus is also in the 7th House. IP: Logged |
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posted March 06, 2013 09:56 PM
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posted March 06, 2013 09:58 PM
Ive dated different types of ethnicities. I live in a pretty mixed place so....IP: Logged |
ruledbyplutoandmars Knowflake Posts: 155 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 06, 2013 09:58 PM
I went Black and I might not ever go back, to be honest. Idk.Sun: 4th House Moon: 1st House (Ascendant) Mercury: 3rd House Venus: 4th House Mars: 4th House Jupiter: 4th House Saturn: 7th House Uranus: 5th House Neptune: 5th House Pluto: 4th House 5th House: Sagittarius Venus: Sagittarius Mars: Sagittarius Jupiter: Sagittarius ------------------ Rising: Virgo Sun: Scorpio Moon: Virgo IP: Logged |
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posted March 06, 2013 10:41 PM
According to AstrologyZine, women with sun or Mars in Sagittarius and men with moon or Venus in Sagittarius are drawn to this.From my personal observation I've also seen a lot of Aquarians and Geminis date interracially/interculturally. For my part, my Mars is in Sagittarius and my boyfriend's moon is in Sagittarius. My ex's moon was in Sagittarius as well. Both relationships have been interracial. Kim Kardashian has her Mars in Sagittarius... for anyone who is wondering IP: Logged |
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posted March 06, 2013 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: My parents were intercultural/interfaith Mother Christian and father Muslim with a alphabet of ethnic groups in-between them.I have inter-racially and inter-culturally dated. Shurg just the NYC lifestyle. Sun conjunct Jupiter 3rd Venus in Gemini 2nd opp Uranus 8th Mars trine Uranus/Neptune
Same here fellow new yorker
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 07, 2013 01:56 PM
I'm based in and around NYC too. I've dated every single race represented on every single American questionaire about race, and people across five continents. And I married a Caucasian. So what?IP: Logged |
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posted March 07, 2013 02:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I'm based in and around NYC too. I've dated every single race represented on every single American questionaire about race, and people across five continents. And I married a Caucasian. So what?
Two words: Gemini moon.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 07, 2013 02:17 PM
My ex-girlfriend from Nigeria and Gabon were sweethearts, as was my girlfriend who grew up in Harlem.IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2013 02:29 PM
mmm... id be more curious about folks who end up settling down with people of other races and religions. just because there are lots that date inter-culturally, but then end up marrying and having children with people of their own circles, sometimes because it worked that way, or, because it was the convenient/comfortable thing to do. there is a difference between dating someone 'different' vs. having children.... like, this guy, who happened to be white (friend with another guy) who dated a black chick for years, but at the end, he never felt comfortable with the fact that his children would not look exactly like him...*_* i heard this is what caused the breakup...they started talking about children....and you can imagine. as for me, ive only being able to date inter-culturally, if you are too similar to me in terms of background, i will not be attracted to you. i dont know why but for me, the more different you are to me, the better... i find that i travel the world by dating. i like the aspect of learning a different language/language expressions, food, culture thanks to my partner. i have saturn in saggitarius, 7th house also, uranus in saggie... and juno in saggie.. that is all that may indicate this. IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Registered: Mar 2022
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posted March 07, 2013 02:33 PM
I just cant do someone too white. It would feel like i am sleeping with a ghost or a loaf of bread lol!I think this is one of those times when my ladyfriend wishes i had someone else's brain lulz. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 2266 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 03:13 PM
I have a packed 11th house and a stellium in Sagittarius, so it explains why all of my friends are from different cultures. I have 0 friends from my background. My closest friends are black (Haitians), Chinese, Arabs, my french canadian peeps & etc.. I honestly don't see myself marrying a Filipino...Because I was born & grew up my whole life in Canada & I don't identify with my parents culture. I honestly consider myself more Canadian than Asian. Canada is a pretty multicultural place, plenty of immigrants from around the world here. Astrology can play a part, but I think it's more the environment you grew up in. If you live in a multicultural place dating inter racially is not a big deal. In the end it's not the race that matters, it's more the personality of the person that wins. But I do have a preference when it comes to guys...I find Latino guys hot. When they speak Spanish it sounds so sexy lool. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 7206 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 07, 2013 05:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by hikoro: mmm... id be more curious about folks who end up settling down with people of other races and religions. just because there are lots that date inter-culturally, but then end up marrying and having children with people of their own circles, sometimes because it worked that way, or, because it was the convenient/comfortable thing to do. there is a difference between dating someone 'different' vs. having children.... like, this guy, who happened to be white (friend with another guy) who dated a black chick for years, but at the end, he never felt comfortable with the fact that his children would not look exactly like him...*_* i heard this is what caused the breakup...they started talking about children....and you can imagine.
Hikoro, I've been married for almost 20 years. I have beautiful inter-racial children. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Knowflake Posts: 2110 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by MillyX: In the end it's not the race that matters, it's more the personality of the person that wins.
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GrlyGirl200 Knowflake Posts: 420 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 07, 2013 06:22 PM
For men the one thing I've always tended to see is the Moon/Venus in aspect with Jupiter or Uranus. In fact I'll say that Jupiter is a very strong indicator for interracial dating. The girls I know who have dated out of their race also have Sun/Mars in aspect with Jupiter or Uranus as well.I myself tend to date out of my race and I have Uranus in aspect with my Sun/Mars Conjunction...and Jupiter is in aspect with my Mars. I know a Gemini who tends to date dark skinned black girls...he is a double Gemini (and conservative Taurus Venus/Cancer Mercury and Mars)...with Venus tightly Square Jupiter and his Moon tightly Opp Uranus. I am talking to a Virgo who dated a half black and white girl for two years before meeting myself. He has no hardcore Uranus/Jupiter aspects (and in fact has a conservative Taurus Moon)...but he has a nice Jupiter/Venus Trine. I have an Aqua ex who has been dating white girls for a while but who had a serious gf that was Latino (I'm black and Mexican, and I was a serious gf). He has a minor aspect from his Venus to Jupiter...but he also has a Moon Jupiter Opp, and Moon Uranus Square. I have an Aries friend who was a major crush with conservative Taurus Moon...he has a super nice Moon Jupiter Conjunction...he has dated and slept with just about every race. He also has an Aqua Mars. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2013 06:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by MillyX:
Astrology can play a part, but I think it's more the environment you grew up in. If you live in a multicultural place dating inter racially is not a big deal.
my family is multicultural, my parents are from totally different backgrounds. dont know if im just mirroring things...
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hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2013 06:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hikoro,I've been married for almost 20 years. I have beautiful inter-racial children.
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hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1317 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 07, 2013 06:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by GrlyGirl200: In fact I'll say that Jupiter is a very strong indicator for interracial dating. The girls I know who have dated out of their race also have Sun/Mars in aspect with Jupiter or Uranus as well.
mmmm... sun in scorpio 7h, mars in aqua 10h, jupiter in pisces 11h, uranus in saggie 8h... i dont see anything..do you? IP: Logged |
peregrine Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Registered: Mar 2022
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posted March 07, 2013 07:36 PM
intercultural/ interfaith is hard too. i'm actually conservative lol! in theory i'd like to marry one too but i'm open to surprises. north node in gem h8. for example a lot of my chinese/ roman catholic relatives date jewish people. i think because it's not that far from the values they were brought up on. IP: Logged |
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posted March 07, 2013 08:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by hikoro: my family is multicultural, my parents are from totally different backgrounds. dont know if im just mirroring things...
This. But I've seen the Sag moon in men too much to ignore it too. For instance, Trent Reznor doesn't seem an obvious candidate but for 20 years he dated IR exclusively. Turns out he had a Sag moon as well. Whenever I see earth sign men do it they always have moon in Sag.
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