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Topic: 12th House Composite Mars
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Ursa
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posted November 26, 2009 12:07 AM
  
I am hoping to get insight from anyone else who has experienced this. In my composite with this aspect there was cheating and deception. I also know of another couple's composite with this aspect and in that relationship the same occurred, another relationship began astride the first. Both relationships ended. Does composite mars in the 12th always signify disaster?IP: Logged |
iQ
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posted November 26, 2009 03:32 AM
<< Does composite mars in the 12th always signify disaster? >>
Only if it is afflicted by a square, quinucnx or opposition.IP: Logged |
Coffee
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posted November 28, 2009 04:46 PM
Always? No. Disaster? Unlikely, yet the rare chance it could happen, as normal.
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posted November 29, 2009 08:02 AM
ME and my boyfriend who ive been with for 10 years have mars in 12th in our composite chart.Yeh i cheated on him. But thats only because we were young and we wernt very stable. IP: Logged |
Ursa
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posted November 29, 2009 05:21 PM
Thank you all for the replies. In my own composite, the only aspect to 12th house mars was a square from pluto in the 3rd. Mars in cancer, pluto in libra.It was a great composite otherwise. I had read some about this placement for mars and as with a lot of stuff on the internet, it was all pretty much the same and most articles suggested it was a very negative placement. The man I was with at the time left me for someone else, I don't think he wanted to, and in fact did it vengefully. He made that choice and it ended the relationship. The other couple I mentioned experienced something similar but there was no element of revenge. I have never cheated on someone in a relationship. Thanks again. IP: Logged |
Astrology4U
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posted June 07, 2011 09:41 PM
I sure hope that someone who is familiar with the topic of this thread replies. I am really curious to know if there is anyone in the world that may read this, is there anyone, who is currently in a relationship someone for whom you share a (composite mars in the 12th) if so, how is your sex life with that person you share Mars in the 12th with? I have been involved with two men that when are charts were compared, we had a 12th house Mars. What is really interesting is, I like both these men more than I had ever liked any man, got along with them extremely well, felt comfortable and at ease with them, I mean everything was great, that is until sex came into play. I was not satisfied by either of them. Neither of the charts had planets in the 5th house but one of the guys, we shared a composite Moon in the 8th house. It seemed like with him, had he compromised a bit more when it came to sex, everything concerning satisfying sex would have been solved but he was not willing to invest the time into my feeling more comfortable with his sexual appetite. The second guy, no planets in the 5th with him either, yet Uranus is in the 8th and it is Trine Saturn in the 4th as well as trine Mars in the 12th. However, I did some reading and Mars trine Saturn or uranus in a composite chart is not all the great. Currently I am with guy Number 2 and I can tell that he feels he is not satisfying me but I do really care for him and want to try and work things out. Any advice or a share of experience would help. Thanks in advance... Astrology4U IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 07, 2011 10:03 PM
I curious to know if the relationships with the composite 12th house Mars started off as a secret relationship.. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted June 07, 2011 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by Astrology4U:
I sure hope that someone who is familiar with the topic of this thread replies. I am really curious to know if there is anyone in the world that may read this, is there anyone, who is currently in a relationship someone for whom you share a (composite mars in the 12th) if so, how is your sex life with that person you share Mars in the 12th with? I have been involved with two men that when are charts were compared, we had a 12th house Mars. What is really interesting is, I like both these men more than I had ever liked any man, got along with them extremely well, felt comfortable and at ease with them, I mean everything was great, that is until sex came into play. I was not satisfied by either of them. Neither of the charts had planets in the 5th house but one of the guys, we shared a composite Moon in the 8th house. It seemed like with him, had he compromised a bit more when it came to sex, everything concerning satisfying sex would have been solved but he was not willing to invest the time into my feeling more comfortable with his sexual appetite. The second guy, no planets in the 5th with him either, yet Uranus is in the 8th and it is Trine Saturn in the 4th as well as trine Mars in the 12th. However, I did some reading and Mars trine Saturn or uranus in a composite chart is not all the great. Currently I am with guy Number 2 and I can tell that he feels he is not satisfying me but I do really care for him and want to try and work things out. Any advice or a share of experience would help. Thanks in advance... Astrology4U
Hummm how can I say this??? In no way do I mean this in a bad way.. Women are very mental, when it comes to sex, you have to mentally let go, before you can physically let go.. (get my drift) Maybe there is a mental block with these 2.. Or have you had better experiences with other men? Im not sure how old you are, but I can tell you for women, after the age of 35 sex changes and is a whole new ballpark so to speak 
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BeeCalliope
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posted June 07, 2011 10:15 PM
I wish I could help you, I had composite mars in the 12th square pluto in the 3rd (sadly, the only aspect we had to mars at all)and the aspect played out in textbook, worst case scenario fashion. Cheating with multiple partners, lying in an attempt to control information and maintain status. Power tripping, basically. Sex was great, very edgy a la that square to pluto but I was to find later that I was completely deceived. I'd love to hear others experiences too. I hope that IQ is right, maybe if you have positive aspects you can find a way to channel with the energy in a different way. Maybe there is a depressive quality to martial energy that I was unable to feel, the square to pluto in my case was one of two very heavy squared aspects, each about 0 degrees and applying. IP: Logged |
Astrology4U
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posted June 08, 2011 11:47 PM
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Astrology4U
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted June 08, 2011 11:50 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I curious to know if the relationships with the composite 12th house Mars started off as a secret relationship..
No it did not, at least not from my end.
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Astrology4U
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posted June 08, 2011 11:55 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Hummm how can I say this??? In no way do I mean this in a bad way.. Women are very mental, when it comes to sex, you have to mentally let go, before you can physically let go.. (get my drift) Maybe there is a mental block with these 2.. Or have you had better experiences with other men? Im not sure how old you are, but I can tell you for women, after the age of 35 sex changes and is a whole new ballpark so to speak
I am in my late 30's. As for the mental block, he does tell me a lot that his head is not right, I am not sure what he is trying to say but I am thinking it has to do with each of our sexual taste. Let's just say that he expects me to completely let go with him but I won't do that. I expect for him to earn my trust so that I can feel comfortable with letting go but he doesn't seem to be able to live up to that challenge, he has Mars in the first house and he is a Sag rising. He wants what he wants and he wants it now. I move a lot slower than he does and I will not be rushed. So maybe that is what it is because we do have a strong chemistry. Astrology4U IP: Logged |
Astrology4U
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted June 08, 2011 11:57 PM
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Originally posted by BeeCalliope:
I wish I could help you, I had composite mars in the 12th square pluto in the 3rd (sadly, the only aspect we had to mars at all)and the aspect played out in textbook, worst case scenario fashion.
Were there any planets in the 5th or 8th, if so, which ones?
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Astrology4U
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posted June 20, 2011 11:02 PM
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hannarama
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posted November 20, 2011 10:57 PM
I'm reviving this thread! I have a composite Mars in opposition with Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, but trine Pluto. Is it good that it's trine with Pluto? Or does it mean me and my boyfriend will be freak nastying all over the place?IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 21, 2011 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I curious to know if the relationships with the composite 12th house Mars started off as a secret relationship..
YES YES YES YESWe met at work and he asked me out when he heard I gave my 2 weeks'. quote:
I'm reviving this thread! I have a composite Mars in opposition with Saturn, Uranus and Neptune, but trine Pluto. Is it good that it's trine with Pluto? Or does it mean me and my boyfriend will be freak nastying all over the place?
Due to that Pluto trine, I'd say both. Maybe if the freak nastying is frequent enough, it might use up all the 12th House Mars energy so that there's less to be turned into suppressed anger, which this placement is prone to.Be very assertive in defining the terms of the relationship. Don't let him keep you a secret from anyone. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 21, 2011 02:30 AM
Thank you Capriquarius!I won't let him keep me a secret once I'm comfortable, but I'm actually quite a private person so if our relationship was just between us at first I'd be okay with that 'til it became more sturdy. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
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posted November 21, 2011 02:33 AM
I just saw your synastry chart and it would be very challenging for him to keep you a secret, since your Ascendant is on his MC. You will be visible in his public life. Also, your Sun in his house of open partnerships. IP: Logged |
hannarama
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posted November 21, 2011 03:03 AM
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I just saw your synastry chart and it would be very challenging for him to keep you a secret, since your Ascendant is on his MC. You will be visible in his public life. Also, your Sun in his house of open partnerships.
Oh you went and checked it out? The Cancer one, right? Thanks so much! I was hoping someone would 'cause I didn't know if it was a good thing all those planets were near his ASC (if I remember correctly). The only thing is that's synastry which says how we interact with each other (by the way, so if I'm visible does that mean he'll like showing me off? 'cause you know... I wouldn't mind that or anything. :P ) but the composite is about the relationship itself. So there's still a chance it could be kept a secret? IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted January 13, 2012 09:25 PM
Reviving this thread yet once again.The guy I was with the longest and loved the most so far in my life and I have a composite mars in 12th house. I cheated on him. It broke our relationship at that point, there we tremendous force to marry on his side and I was simply not ready. One year later after that one unfaithful night, we broke up. Our relationship did not start out as a secret. Infact we were in a long distance relationship for 4 years but we took time every year to stay with each other for about 1-3 months. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 13, 2012 09:34 PM
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Im not sure how old you are, but I can tell you for women, after the age of 35 sex changes and is a whole new ballpark so to speak
Err.. What does it mean if a woman in her mid-40s still behaves and has the appetite of an 18 year old? I'm being serious.
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Lioness
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posted January 13, 2012 09:38 PM
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Err.. What does it mean if a woman in her mid-40s still behaves and has the appetite of an 18 year old? I'm being serious.
Im not 100% sure how you mean it... From an 18 year old... Do you mean that this person is not interested too much in sex, or interested in it more?
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted January 13, 2012 09:43 PM
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Im not 100% sure how you mean it... From an 18 year old... Do you mean that this person is not interested too much in sex, or interested in it more?
I can't get my wife to be not interested in sex just ONE night a week!! And she's into these marathon sessions too. It's embarrassing when I get home from work and she goes for it and I have a teenaged son who snickers!! Can you Imagine if this ends up in counseling? Lol. Hahaha IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 14, 2012 12:07 AM
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I can't get my wife to be not interested in sex just ONE night a week!! And she's into these marathon sessions too. It's embarrassing when I get home from work and she goes for it and I have a teenaged son who snickers!!Can you Imagine if this ends up in counseling? Lol. Hahaha
Thats the Leo in her  But really when a female is 18 your not "as" interested in sex as you are when your over 35....
The libido of a 35 yr old woman is like an 18 year 20 yr old male.. When women are younger (not all cases, of course) its not about the sex act, its more mental and wanting to connect with the person...
When the female is older, is the SEX ACT that you want!!!! LOL IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted July 29, 2018 11:50 AM
Does this placement indicate bad sex between two people? IP: Logged |
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