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Topic: Venus in Gemini... - Non-human?
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Polo C
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posted December 26, 2009 12:58 AM
  
Here is something else I just found _ quote:
Venus in Gemini also has a not undeserved reputation of being fickle. Beating the boredom is why Venus in Gemini is able to juggle more than one partner quite effectively. The inconstancy is also due to their search for the theoretical ideal relationship. What looks good on paper proves quickly to not be so great in reality. When your idea of a perfect relationship can change quicker than the weather changes in Melbourne, the mind (and the heart) can wander just as quickly. The trick to Venus in Gemini is to keep things interesting, keep him guessing, keep him curious and keep him texting.
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hanakin
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posted December 26, 2009 08:58 AM
BelageNot everyone is meant to have deep, intense love relationships. Speaking in general terms, Venus in Gemini people are here to experience light hearted and changeable affections. That doesn't make them non-human. Just don't expect loyalty and depth and true intensity from them, and you will be okay. Belage what you said here strikes a chord inside me. I had a friend who was gemini sun, gemini venus (a bit like the guy i dated for some reason they were born the same day and arrived at the same time in my life).
He was very keen onto getting a sexual relationship with me because as he said to me ' I cannot get into a real relationship from the moment i know it gets deeper than a friendly sexual relation i don't know what i have to do anymore'. I of course disagreed, i'm taurus sun i need someone with a deeper sense of love than that. But it also sorts of explains what you said. On how they are not here to have meaningful love relationships. IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire
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posted December 26, 2009 11:40 AM
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How about Mars in Virgo... What would they be here to do?
They are also fickle surface dwellers. Unless you're a stockbroker... and then they're ALL yours (or at least they'll do a decent job of acting like they are).
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teasel
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posted December 26, 2009 12:10 PM
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Not everyone is meant to have deep, intense love relationships. Speaking in general terms, Venus in Gemini people are here to experience light hearted and changeable affections. That doesn't make them non-human. Just don't expect loyalty and depth and true intensity from them, and you will be okay.
This really isn't true for me. Sometimes, I honestly wish that I could be this way - it would be much easier on my heart at the moment, that's for sure. My Moon/Venus trine Pluto, though ~ and then there's that minor aspect from Saturn. Even with long-distance, I will be loyal. quote:
Dang! Is every Venus in Gemini like this? Why does this planetary placement cause them to behave in such a egotistical way?
Nope. Not even close. quote:
The trick to Venus in Gemini is to keep things interesting, keep him guessing, keep him curious and keep him texting.
The part in bold is a no-no for me. That gets on my nerves... I'm not into casual romantic/physical relationships, and I need to know where I stand. No disappearing acts, no games.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted December 26, 2009 03:58 PM
That's a weird post - I've been partnered up with more than a few Gemini Venus men and they were all very sweet and expressive, one had Moon in Gemini as well. But I guess thats your "cool style" of posting on here, Predominantlyfire.IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire
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posted December 26, 2009 04:14 PM
Thanks for that compliment Lonake. I think my experience with Venus in Gemini is confounded by the main ones that have hurt me had Moon in Capricorn. Maybe it's a Moon (which is my chart ruler) in its' detrimental sign in my natal descendent type thing? But on the whole i find, as do alot of people that Venus in Gemini is as i've described it. Light, fickle, non-commital, and basically a total joke unless all you want is a lay - which to be honest i don't. And if i did i'd hardly be moaning because that's what i got with all of them. Maybe i need more intensity than Venus in Gemini can offer. But doesn't everyone? Who ARE they good for? Should they all just be working as prostitutes if they're so light-hearted and free-and-easy about who they sleep with? Venus in Gemini is said to lead to 2 sources of income.------------------
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swirl-kitt
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posted December 26, 2009 05:28 PM
P, are you upset because they left soon after sex ? or because they left before you had sex ? or because they were having sex with others while they were having an affair with you ? or because they lost interest in you soon after you started a relationship ? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 26, 2009 05:33 PM
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But on the whole i find, as do alot of people that Venus in Gemini is as i've described it. Light, fickle, non-commital, and basically a total joke unless all you want is a lay
Because you're only paying attention to those who aren't complimentary. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted December 26, 2009 08:03 PM
To Teasel, of course, if your Venus aspects Pluto, no matter what sign it's in, you're going to crave intensity, that's a given. That's why I prefaced what I said with "in general". I am speaking in general terms which may not apply to an individual chart with its complexity. To Hanakin, I didn't say that they are not here to have "meaningful love relationships." Their love relationships might be meaningful to them, but not to you because your taurean nature is different and requires stability and steadfast commitment. What I am saying is that we are all different, and there are different kinds of love that suit different kinds of people. The problem arises when we try to remake people into what we think we want or need or when we persist on asking of them what they cannot give. People tend to get upset at Venus in Gemini folks because some of them will make promise they cannot deliver. IP: Logged |
Polo C
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posted December 26, 2009 08:07 PM
Let me ask, to all with the complaints against Venus in Gemini: What are the relative ages of the ones in question? I ask this to suggest that possibly it takes someone with this placement a longer time to mature.EDIT: quote:
PDF - Should they all just be working as prostitutes if they're so light-hearted and free-and-easy about who they sleep with? Venus in Gemini is said to lead to 2 sources of income.
What is the second one? quote:
They are also fickle surface dwellers. Unless you're a stockbroker... and then they're ALL yours (or at least they'll do a decent job of acting like they are).
So Venus / Gemini with Mars / Virgo natally is a double No No? Yikes!!! I am glad to have found this out now before it had become too late. It's a terrifying thought. Someone who is that superficial combined with someone who is as deep as myself would never work. Seems that it would ultimately turn out to be a tragic catastrophe!
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Predominantlyfire
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posted December 27, 2009 03:39 AM
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are you upset because they left soon after sex ?or because they left before you had sex ? or because they were having sex with others while they were having an affair with you ? or because they lost interest in you soon after you started a relationship ?
A mixture of things. She has hang ups about sex for some reason. So there was never enough of that. But i'm mostly upset because of how cold a person can be. And how much she was just using me. (I was a crutch, and the only person she could be around all the time without doing her head in. She had a bit of social anxiety caused by some trauma and etc.)
I'm most upset because i don't think i will ever have anyone i find as beautiful to the eye as her. There's just no way. I don't know how i got her really. Probably because she had other things wrong with her. I mean no beautiful looking model like woman is going to stick with me are they unless there's somthing else wrong with them. I knew that. I put up with short-comings, because of her other really nice traits, and of course every inch of her body. And i do mean every inch.
The funny thing is i really believe in karma, and this is what this was. 10 years ago i went out with this same girl, and I hurt HER. Wierd isn't it. She even left the island we live on very soon afterwards, and didn't move back for 10 years. I was very indifferent to her back then. Always looked good as i was very brown and fit from roofing etc, had a nice fast car, and an attitude that got me as many admirers as it did enemies.
In the interum period i mellowed quite alot, and she got seriously HOT. I can't really explain it. But the way she made me feel this time, is identical to the way i inadvertently made her feel 10 years ago. It's a total reveresal. I'm glad i've paid this karma off, and i will be much more careful in the future.
Honestly what goes around comes around. Doesn't matter when, but it ALWAYS does. ------------------
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Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 04:14 AM
Good for you PDF.
That's the way it is with youth though eh?
Wisdom comes eventually & I'm thinking you are at war with yourself over skin deep beauty vs finding a deep & beautiful soul that sees the real you underneath. That can only happen when you make peace with yourself. IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire
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posted December 27, 2009 04:33 AM
She was older than me. She was 37. I'm 35.------------------
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Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 05:42 AM
I was talking about you cherub.You are quite the onion my friend. IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted December 27, 2009 05:53 AM
I think this is all a result of transit neptune opposing your moon. You believe you have these feelings and this person is great and then BANG you wake up one day and you feel like throwing up.I have transit neptune opposing my venus. Its nice to be a in a dream and then its nice to wake up too ------------------
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Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 06:00 AM
Hi BHow goes your day? I asked your guardian angels to lead you to the perfect place for you & puss. Watch for the signs K?
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I was talking about your attitude to women while you were younger as opposed to your emerging feelings now if that makes what I said any clearer. Interestingly enough have a look at your transits on http://www.astro.com Tr Pluto is conjuncting your stellium I believe. IP: Logged |
belgz
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posted December 27, 2009 06:39 AM
OMG spanky you would not believe what happened to me today!! I was on the net and i was just mucking around looking at houses while im down here and i found the perfect house for me and my cat! I couldnt believe how cheap rent is down here. I would pay $600 a week in Sydney for this house.Its PERFECT. Its kinda cute its 3 bedrooms and its tiled and most of all its in a quite street for my princess and what else is great is that i rang up over the phone and offered to pay 6 months up front and they approved me. They would never do that in sydney without viewing the house, I am now looking into how much it would cost me to bring all my house furniture 20 hours away from Sydney and what the best way to bring kimbba down. But again astrology is ruining my hopes and dreams because everyone knows not to move when transit uranus is square your moon. Look at this house...
http://www.realestate.com.au/cgi-bin/rsearch?a=o&id=4043289 06&cc=AUSTRALIA&c=46570683&p=30&s=sa&t=ren&tm=1261892388 ------------------
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Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 07:11 AM
Oh B that's wonderful. I'm so happy for you. The house looks beautiful.
27 is a good number I think. What are your numerology numbers B? I ask because mine is a 6 - name number & every house I have lived in has been a derivative of 6.
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vapor-lash
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posted December 27, 2009 07:13 AM
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vapor-lash
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posted December 27, 2009 07:17 AM
Pred-Fire,Prepare yourself for a shock. .
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vapor-lash
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posted December 27, 2009 07:18 AM
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vapor-lash
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posted December 27, 2009 07:19 AM
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.I don't only believe that Capricorn Moon has no connection whatsoever with your romantic woes.. I'd go as far as to say that it is the only thing that attracted you to these women in the first place and kept you together, for however long.  I'm not sure what else went wrong in your synastry. In this ^ particular case I think at least part of the problem is her Retrograde Venus.. (You should read a little about this aspect) But Capricorn Moon? Naw.. Not with your chart.
You don't ONLY have a Cancer Asc. You have Saturn in Cancer ON your Ascendant. Saturn is dignified in Capricorn and the Moon is dignified in Cancer.. so that is a --- dammit I forget what it's called .. lol it is a SOMETHING and it MATTERS! It sounds like "double whammy" - but it's something else.. double mutuality? Anyhow - This is a very emotional aspect imo And possibly a long lasting one.
You lack earth so you'll attract earth.
But how much fire did these "cold" women have in their charts? Warmth is generally associated with fire.. IP: Logged |
Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 07:23 AM
Cool investigating Vapor. 
I do wonder what PDF will think of this turn of astro events lol.
EDIT I'd love to hang around & find out but I swear I'm about the face plant into the keyboard.  IP: Logged |
Predominantlyfire
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posted December 27, 2009 07:27 AM
Yes but Saturn is in detriment in Cancer, and the Moon is in detriment in Capricorn! I didn't realise her Venus was retrograde. Would make alot of sense even though i don't really know how to properly interpret retrograde planets.
2 of them had Mars in Leo. The last one had it at exactly 0 degrees! Otherwise not much Fire.
In fact i can name at least 5 people i've slept with who had both Mars in Leo and Venus in Gemini. It's a sexy combination. But the Moon in Capricorners out of that lot were the hardest to get close to by a country mile. The Moon sign definately f*cked it.------------------
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Spanky Butler
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posted December 27, 2009 07:34 AM
So by deduction you would need a fire moon person with a fire or water venus.IP: Logged |
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