posted January 27, 2010 03:36 PM            

I like a dominant man, who absolutely knows what he wants and takes it, and if that is me I will willlingly follow him wherever he leads.

I like it when he looks into my eyes like he is reading the very core of my mind, like he doesn't see my shell, just what's inside. And there has to be a stillness about that bit..............calm before the storm.

I like to be able to fight against the dominance, but he is so in control I get nowhere.

I like biting, hair pulling, grabbing, low grade pain.

I don't like making love, anything too slow (unless it is a brief interlude to tease), light touch, gentleness, submissive/child like behaviour.

I also don't like talking (all communication is through the eyes), but I like noise.

I like to surrender, I like to be taken.

posted January 28, 2010 10:02 AM            

Turn ons:

- genius in intellect (my husband has an IQ of 176 which is very close to mine - the first thing I fell in love with was his mind)

- incredible talent (as an artist, musician, writer, scientist, mathematician, carpenter...or in any field really); one who is innovative and forward-thinking

- kindness to animals and children - probably my Cancer Sun, Mercury and Mars influence

- rapier wit and a snarky, sarcastic, cynical, dark sense of humor that really pushes the boundaries (I like comedians like Bill Hicks, Dave Attell, Patton Oswalt, Jim Jeffries, Ricky Gervais, Jimmy Carr, David Cross, Bill Maher and Russell Brand - I suppose one would term them as "blue" comedians) - that could be due to my Aqua ASC and my 8th House Uranian influences

- a true and natural nonconformist (rather than someone who intentionally tries to be different just for the sake of being different or 'avant-garde'); an original thinker who lives an unconventional life

- a person who is self-confident and assertive, but not overly so; I like people who are confident yet humble at the same time, assertive but also courteous, respectful and considerate of others

- creative, artistic people (they tend to be more open-minded and visionary in their thinking)

- people who are sensual and down to earth, yet spiritual at the core; I prefer to be around spiritually concious people who are cosmically aware and live purposefully but I can't stand the 'wishy-washy, flaky' type of spirituality

- people who are paradoxical, complex, multidimensional and multi-layered - I get bored easily

- loyalty, honesty, highly moral and trustworthy; a person with a highly developed sense of ethics

- one who is highly affectionate but not clingy. Despite all my Cancer influences I'm not the clingy type and I can't stand people who are clingy and overly needy; I need a lot of space and freedom and time to myself - must be my Aqua ASC and my badly aspected Venus (Venus square Saturn, Venus square Neptune, MC and IC)

- one who is interested and knowledgeable about a lot of things; someone with many interests and pursuits - to me, curiousity is a very attractive quality

- a person who shares my love of nature and enjoys hiking and being surrounded by all the natural beauty that exists in this world

- a person who is a homebody at heart but also enjoys going out, travelling around the world, and exploring new things

- I lean more toward introverts than extroverts but ultimately favor people who are a balance of the two. I am drawn to people who are dramatic and charismatic and quirky but who also know when to tone it down

- one who strives to learn and grow and evolve, both spiritually and personally

- people with simple yet refined tastes and sensibilities; someone who is sophisticated and worldly and has experienced a lot in life, who has an appreciation for the sensual aspects of luxury, yet isn't snobbish and overly materialistic

- physically , I tend to be attracted to tall, dark-haired men with brown eyes but when I was single there were always exceptions to that particular type

Turn offs:

posted January 28, 2010 11:15 PM            

Turn-ons:
- someone who is complex yet keep things simple;
- masculine and natural;
- sensitive, selfless and caring;
- intelligent, well-mannered, confident and has values;
- not boring (open-minded), with sense of humor.

Turn-offs:
- selfishness, self-victimizing, overly dramatic, accepting defeat facing own weaknesses;
- holding grudges about anything;
- no passion about anything in life at all;
- immaturity, rudeness, crude aggressiveness, lack of manners;
- shiny builder muscle. XP

posted January 29, 2010 04:17 AM            

This isn't always accurate.
Like you said - there are several things that come together lol

Leaping - I completely understand! lol and I had to laugh when you said "love Sag" - because my ex (Sag with some Scorpio) was my best match sexually. I do like Leo men as well. I'm in love with one actually LOL But I don't think it would be the same sexually. I get the feeling Leos are more "tame"... but I probably shouldn't generalize.

posted January 29, 2010 07:14 AM            

turn offs.. bad hygiene, bitter guys, lame , way too many time heard, innuendos and replicas... just kissing for a very long time....

Venus + Pluto in 7th, Scorpio
Mars in 12th , Aries (cnj Lust, Eros and AC

posted January 31, 2010 06:32 AM            

When I read Aries Venus interpretations.. the chasing part doesn't suit me that much (but my Venus might be in Taurus). I stand my ground - I don't move in his direction in any way, physically or otherwise. I usually bring him to me.
This makes me feel in control, mainly if I only used eye-contact to get a reaction (Venus opposite Pluto) - which is a turn on! lol

posted January 31, 2010 07:41 AM              

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PDF - would you call staring intently in a suggestive manner.. chasing?

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posted January 31, 2010 02:32 PM            

Turns on:
you know this movies in which two people are mad at each other and all of a sudden they start kissing and undress fast?

dressing up, role play I am another person, an inocent one who is bieng seduced, or a prostitute seducing my man

caresses, kissing, kissing.

talking, wispering, noisy, noisy
the feeling of being posessed and merging, possesing him, him possesing me.

strong emotional bond,
looking at his face and see him so inspired and turned on.
eye contact
candless
cuddling,
surprises
openess to try new things
connected with my needs
passion
dirty words
feeling desired