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posted February 27, 2010 02:14 AM         

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posted February 27, 2010 02:44 AM         

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He made a bad joke on the day i had PMS.I snapped and told him via text that i didnt like what he said.well he said that i wasnt cool and couldnt take a joke...WTF

Then on the phone I screamed at him for being sooo cold and distant.Then told him that maybe I wasn't the girl for him and that Im way to emotional..He thought that I was crazzy/scarry..
Yes, I yelled and then we said good night..The following day he called to see if I slept well.i said fine then NEver heard from him again.
Didnt bother tellling me that he was dumping me..Just never came to see me or answer his phone or text..I even said sorry...via text
OMG I really liked him..
We spoe 4/5 times a day,now zero.He told his friend that he dumped me cause I disrespected him...Oh well
I stop calling ,,,its been a week since i heard from him..Im Angry

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posted February 27, 2010 02:55 AM         

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You're too much woman for him.

Take it as a compliment.

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posted February 27, 2010 03:43 AM         

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EDITED.

What a waste of time to even reply.

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posted February 27, 2010 04:26 AM         

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Haha this thread is hilarious.

I love the swing between the description of Aquarius and then OMG HE DUMPED ME!

So what?! Get on with your life and I suggest you take a long hard look at that attitude if yours because I don't blame the Aqua. With that verbal aggression, you are very dumpable!

lol

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posted February 27, 2010 04:29 AM         

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You totally disrespected him and it sounds like you could have gotten intimate with him too soon aswell, otherwise you wouldn't be pulling that sh1t on him nor feeling so hard done by!!

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posted February 27, 2010 04:47 AM         

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".His sensitive sweet ass
didnt like that i yelled and disrespected him....LOSER"

I'm sorry, but wtf is this? I don't know what he did, but the fact that you write that you disrespected him and he didn't LIKE it is really weird.

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posted February 27, 2010 04:55 AM         

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Lara, yeah isn't it funny? I don't think this thread is about astrology anyway, it's just got too much emotional baggage.

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posted February 27, 2010 08:19 AM         

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WEIRD is right.

It's like saying "I stabbed him 300 times and then I told him to get up. How dare he not get up!"
LMAO

haha I love the internet - full of 'past their sell by date' fruitcakes!

Maybe LL should just delete this thread .

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posted February 27, 2010 02:26 PM         

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I was never intimate with him.....We never even kissed..Im in NY and He is in Florida..We had a long distant relationshp. We were to meet up last week.
He was a no show
Yes I was a bit harsh to him but his cold shoulder and behavior isnt right.He should of told me how he felt instead of deleting me like this...

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posted February 27, 2010 02:34 PM         

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Dont call him,never answer the phone..I dont know whay you are feeling but detachment is good..If he is not worth it so you dont hurt yourself,but if you like him he has to deserve you,So let him to make you something..
BTW;
Actually here we only listen one side scorpio-aqua-virgo etc..so how we can be objective...(my libra placements runnnnnsssss)

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posted February 27, 2010 02:43 PM         

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Thanks..I stop calling and texting a week ago. Im trying to move on.I posted this to try to understand him,what could be going on in his mind..One day he calls to check on me to see if im ok then not a word.
I flew to florida to meet him and he stood me up at the airport.
Wouldnt answer my calls or text..I took a cab home.He said to his friends that I disrespected him..That I knew he wasnt coming to the airpoirt..
Im sad.Im trying to nderstand what happened.Oh well...Moving on.i hope

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posted February 27, 2010 02:44 PM         

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Thanks..

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posted February 27, 2010 02:45 PM         

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I don't mean to be rude but if you'd never been intimate then you weren't in any form of relationship and he owes you nothing!!

Is it possible your expectations were too high or you were ahead of him in the relationship?

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posted February 27, 2010 02:49 PM         

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it sounds like you could have gotten intimate with him too soon aswell

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ugh I HATE when people say "ooo girl dont sleep with him now!!!" like how soon is "too soon" because "too soon" to some people is like within 3 months. clearly this bit doesn't matter. he didn't dump her because she "gave it up" he dumped her because she can't control her temper.

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I don't mean to be rude but if you'd never been intimate then you weren't in any form of relationship and he owes you nothing!!

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so it's "be intimate" too soon and get dumped and then not "be intimate" at all and it's "he owes you nothing"??

not to be attacking you lara, i just think this is nonsense and sounds like something the daily mail would say.

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posted February 27, 2010 02:51 PM         

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lara,you're not being rude.
Thats the thing I told him this was moving on to fast..He called me his girlfriend on Valentines day and we had planned to have a relationship. He got divorced 3yrs ago and his wife left him...He told me of his hurt and he wanted a realtionship with me...

He is a sweet man and I just wanted to understand..I wish him well

@Amowls
"clearly this bit doesn't matter. he didn't dump her because she "gave it up" he dumped her because she can't control her temper!"
YEP THats True!

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posted February 27, 2010 03:03 PM         

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If you can't fight with someone, screw up, say the wrong thing ,apologize, have him screw up, apologize etc--it won't work.
Everyone acts like a jerk at times.
Many relationships die as they transition from the dating self to the real self with it's flaws and insecurities.
We all have them.
Some people flee when the other person has less than perfect moments and traits.
He sounds like he may be one of those. If so, the less you invested the better.
It still hurts badly to lose a relationship if for only for the loss of hopes and dreams.
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posted February 27, 2010 03:36 PM         

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U said it perfectly ami!

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posted February 27, 2010 03:55 PM         

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Ami.

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posted February 27, 2010 04:25 PM         

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not to be attacking you lara, i just think this is nonsense and sounds like something the daily mail would say.

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Why is it nonsense? lol
If you aren't intimate you aren't EXCLUSIVE. Period.

He owes her nothing. It's not his fault if she fantasized they were in a relationship when they weren't !!!!

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posted February 27, 2010 05:30 PM         

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He apparently told her that she was his girlfriend, on Valentine's Day... if he said nothing of an open relationship, then I would say that made them exclusive.

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posted February 27, 2010 05:41 PM         

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If you can't fight with someone, screw up, say the wrong thing ,apologize, have him screw up, apologize etc--it won't work.
Everyone acts like a jerk at times.
Many relationships die as they transition from the dating self to the real self with it's flaws and insecurities.
We all have them.
Some people flee when the other person has less than perfect moments and traits.
He sounds like he may be one of those. If so, the less you invested the better.
It still hurts badly to lose a relationship if for only for the loss of hopes and dreams.
Ami

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Yep, its like that saying by a certain late Movie star: "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you certainly don't deserve me at my best."

Just move on hon, he isn't worth it.

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posted February 27, 2010 07:25 PM         

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Talk is cheap. Words mean nothing and action is everything.

She failed to qualify him and that is that.

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posted February 27, 2010 07:42 PM         

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Yep, its like that saying by a certain late Movie star: "If you can't handle me at my worst, then you certainly don't deserve me at my best."

Just move on hon, he isn't worth it.

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posted February 27, 2010 10:59 PM         

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She failed to qualify him and that is that.

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I mean first you accused her of being intimate "too soon" and now it's not soon enough.

Really it is clear that she was dumped because he didn't like being yelled at. Aquarians don't like to spend mental energy on high emotions (speaking as one myself). We get anxious. I was dumped by one because he said that he just wants to yell at me sometimes and he doesn't like yelling at people (I was having a blast teasing him but apparently this one took it seriously). We like fun, we don't like heavy crap. It really makes no difference if our partner "puts out" or doesn't put out. I've had long relationships that started when we slept together after meeting once, and relationships (like my current one) where we didn't even so much as kiss but spent every night together for a month. And generally when people use the term "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" it means they're exclusive.

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