posted February 18, 2019 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Mariamne Mara:
ChildofVenus

When I said they want me to be their mom they expect I take care of them, I give them things such food, comfort or paying them the attention they require. Like babies. When it's viceversa (if I need something) they just don't care and I don't get any support, they act in a very selfish way, very demanding but they don't give to others. So it's usual I cut relationships with these kind of people.

I'm not anybody's mom, so when I did not give them such things, they got angry, I don't care, they're adults. If they have mother issues it's their problem.

Just my personal experience.

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posted February 18, 2019 02:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Mariamne Mara:

...., I don't know if it's related, but they've always tried to manipulate me, I see them as emotional terrorists.

Not trying to offend anyone, just my experience

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hahahahahahahaha

What is your Mars?

I think the same. The closer you are to them, the harder they pinch you, just like a CRAB.

Super attached to their Mammas is true, and they can be a nightmare if their Mammas isn't a good role model. So you need to know their Mammas first.

They expect others to take action is also truueeeee. lol. If you aren't take action for them, they will emotionally terrorize you. Ouch! My husband, my Mom, and my brother have it!

After living together with my husband, I realize I do all the homey things! He is exactly adult babies and I can see this with my brother too. I kinda disappointed tho because my Father is the man who still helps my Mother with every household things. He is okay with cooking, cleaning, laundering, etc, always ready whenever my Mom asks him to help her. He is what I'm looking for in a man. But here I am living with adult babies who you want to slap..

posted February 18, 2019 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
hahahahahahahaha

What is your Mars?

I think the same. The closer you are to them, the harder they pinch you, just like a CRAB.

Super attached to their Mammas is true, and they can be a nightmare if their Mammas isn't a good role model. So you need to know their Mammas first.

They expect others to take action is also truueeeee. lol. If you aren't take action for them, they will emotionally terrorize you. Ouch! My husband, my Mom, and my brother have it!

After living together with my husband, I realize I do all the homey things! He is exactly adult babies and I can see this with my brother too. I kinda disappointed tho because my Father is the man who still helps my Mother with every household things. He is okay with cooking, cleaning, laundering, etc, always ready whenever my Mom asks him to help her. He is what I'm looking for in a man. But here I am living with adult babies who you want to slap..

For me, Cancer Mars gives a headache, especially when they are fiercely protective to WRONG people. Like, they can be so irrational.

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posted February 18, 2019 02:59 PM            

Don't you have Moon in Aquarius?

Well, my Mother has Mars in Cancer and my Father is an Aquarius moon. The worst part is, my Mom is never fully emotionally happy with my Father no matter how he helps her with everything since he doesn't do well in emotion department. Mars in Cancer is VERY emotional and they NEED to be loved, babied, and cared for, in an emotional way, or they will act crabby all the time which can be stressful to deal with.

posted February 18, 2019 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
^^ yes, it's typical that Mars in Cancer tells you their sadness, it's their way to communicate and... they connect with people through that stories.

Don't you have Moon in Aquarius?

Well, my Mother has Mars in Cancer and my Father is an Aquarius moon. The worst part is, my Mom is never fully emotionally happy with my Father no matter how he helps her with everything since he doesn't do well in emotion department. Mars in Cancer is VERY emotional and they NEED to be loved, babied, and cared for, in an emotional way, or they will act crabby all the time which can be stressful to deal with.

With my husband, he refused friendship, he wanted a relationship, then I get trap forever. lol. Jk.

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posted February 18, 2019 07:44 PM            

I'm an Aqua Mars female, in 12th house!!! so independent and wanting to be alone.
Can't stand that co-dependant Cancer energy.

If it's not enough, I'm a Sagittarius Sun, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Moon. I sometimes hate people so much!!!

I guess these kind of Cancer people come into my life as my North Node is in Cancer 5th house, maybe it's that.

posted February 18, 2019 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Mariamne Mara:
Hearttreasure,

I'm an Aqua Mars female, in 12th house!!! so independent and wanting to be alone.
Can't stand that co-dependant Cancer energy.

If it's not enough, I'm a Sagittarius Sun, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Moon. I sometimes hate people so much!!!

I guess these kind of Cancer people come into my life as my North Node is in Cancer 5th house, maybe it's that.

Come on stand up and take care of yourselves, my adult babies. My experiences are not very good with these crabs.

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posted February 19, 2019 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
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Yes I have Moon in Aquarius and no I’m not good when it comes to expressing emotions. But it’s different when I actually like someone and I trust them. I can tell he’s emotional but he hides it. Are you sure they like to be babied? That’s not the impression I got when I tried to comfort him when he got sick. I even told him I would go get him medicine but he said he didn’t need it. Or maybe he was just trying to be manly and didn’t want me to think of him as being weak?
Perhaps it also depends on the aspects made to the Mars?

He hasn’t refused friendship he’s ok with it.

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Yes, Cancer Mars men loves being babied, not too much tho, but they love the attention like a Mother's love to her children.

They will refuse your help at first, my husband does it all the time, I'm not sure why, maybe the owner of Cancer Mars placement can explain it to us

I naturally like helping people in need, maybe it's my Sun conjunct Ceres, so even tho he refuses/rejects my help, I don't stop. For ex, whenever he gets sick I ask him whether he needs anything, he will always say "no, I'm okay", but I can see he is not, so I wait for a couple of minutes before asking him again, if he still says he is okay but his condition doesn't say so, I take/buy a medicine for him and make him drink it OR I take him to the doctor, but if he then admits he feels unwell and he thinks it's because he has no rest, I let him taking a lot of rest while keep checking on him quietly and cook/buy foods I think it's good for him. (My sister is a Doctor, so I know a little bit about some of medical things/treatment or sometimes I ask her)

The same when he gets minor injuries, like, getting cuts or he accidentally harm himself. I usually have prepared myself with some first aid kits, so, yeah, I end up taking care of him because he will always say "I am okay" or "it will heal by itself blah blah blah" while I know it's not.

posted February 19, 2019 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Mariamne Mara:
Hearttreasure,

I'm an Aqua Mars female, in 12th house!!! so independent and wanting to be alone.
Can't stand that co-dependant Cancer energy.

If it's not enough, I'm a Sagittarius Sun, Capricorn Venus, Scorpio Moon. I sometimes hate people so much!!!

I guess these kind of Cancer people come into my life as my North Node is in Cancer 5th house, maybe it's that.

Come on stand up and take care of yourselves, my adult babies. My experiences are not very good with these crabs.

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posted February 19, 2019 07:50 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Yes, Cancer Mars men loves being babied, not too much tho, but they love the attention like a Mother's love to her children.

They will refuse your help at first, my husband does it all the time, I'm not sure why, maybe the owner of Cancer Mars placement can explain it to us

I naturally like helping people in need, maybe it's my Sun conjunct Ceres, so even tho he refuses/rejects my help, I don't stop. For ex, whenever he gets sick I ask him whether he needs anything, he will always say "no, I'm okay", but I can see he is not, so I wait for a couple of minutes before asking him again, if he still says he is okay but his condition doesn't say so, I take/buy a medicine for him and make him drink it OR I take him to the doctor, but if he then admits he feels unwell and he thinks it's because he has no rest, I let him taking a lot of rest while keep checking on him quietly and cook/buy foods I think it's good for him. (My sister is a Doctor, so I know a little bit about some of medical things/treatment or sometimes I ask her)

The same when he gets minor injuries, like, getting cuts or he accidentally harm himself. I usually have prepared myself with some first aid kits, so, yeah, I end up taking care of him because he will always say "I am okay" or "it will heal by itself blah blah blah" while I know it's not.

Sometimes my brother does it too.

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We had dinner the night before and he mixed drinks. I had mentioned to him that's probably why he was sick. He said no that he usually doesn't have issues with mixing drinks. He said it was the food but I had it and didn't get sick. I was really worried so after hearing him up all night into the early morning. I just finally said I was going to run to the store and get him some medicine.

posted February 19, 2019 08:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Yes, Cancer Mars men loves being babied, not too much tho, but they love the attention like a Mother's love to her children.

They will refuse your help at first, my husband does it all the time, I'm not sure why, maybe the owner of Cancer Mars placement can explain it to us

I naturally like helping people in need, maybe it's my Sun conjunct Ceres, so even tho he refuses/rejects my help, I don't stop. For ex, whenever he gets sick I ask him whether he needs anything, he will always say "no, I'm okay", but I can see he is not, so I wait for a couple of minutes before asking him again, if he still says he is okay but his condition doesn't say so, I take/buy a medicine for him and make him drink it OR I take him to the doctor, but if he then admits he feels unwell and he thinks it's because he has no rest, I let him taking a lot of rest while keep checking on him quietly and cook/buy foods I think it's good for him. (My sister is a Doctor, so I know a little bit about some of medical things/treatment or sometimes I ask her)

The same when he gets minor injuries, like, getting cuts or he accidentally harm himself. I usually have prepared myself with some first aid kits, so, yeah, I end up taking care of him because he will always say "I am okay" or "it will heal by itself blah blah blah" while I know it's not.

Sometimes my brother does it too.

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are you sure he actually likes it and isn't just letting you do it?

i have mars in capricorn when i have an injury and say it will heal by itself i mean "i'll take care of it, leave me alone, it will heal" if someone was being insistent i might humor them on some level (if i didnt get annoyed) but it wouldn't be because i wanted to be babied

i dislocated a finger and sliced it open at the knuckle back in october, didn't feel like going to the hospital so i wrapped it up let it bleed on/off for 3 days and pulled it back into place when the swelling was down enough for me to do it

when i got a sprain earlier this month i took care of it myself

when i get bad burns or something and i leave it alone it's because they'll heal and there's no sense in fussing over it

if i'm feeling sick i want to be left alone about it, unless it's physically impossible for me to do something i'd rather do it myself

i don't want to be bothered or have someone hover over me touching anything, but if theyre pushy it's either let them or fight about it

and it's sort of ****** to ***** about someone trying to be nice unless theyre making things worse

posted February 19, 2019 09:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
are you sure he actually likes it and isn't just letting you do it?

i have mars in capricorn when i have an injury and say it will heal by itself i mean "i'll take care of it, leave me alone, it will heal" if someone was being insistent i might humor them on some level (if i didnt get annoyed) but it wouldn't be because i wanted to be babied

i dislocated a finger and sliced it open at the knuckle back in october, didn't feel like going to the hospital so i wrapped it up let it bleed on/off for 3 days and pulled it back into place when the swelling was down enough for me to do it

when i got a sprain earlier this month i took care of it myself

when i get bad burns or something and i leave it alone it's because they'll heal and there's no sense in fussing over it

if i'm feeling sick i want to be left alone about it, unless it's physically impossible for me to do something i'd rather do it myself

i don't want to be bothered or have someone hover over me touching anything, but if theyre pushy it's either let them or fight about it

and it's sort of ****** to ***** about someone trying to be nice unless theyre making things worse

just curious because nothing you say indicates enjoyment

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posted February 19, 2019 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Did you not read the part where she said she leaves him alone when he really doesn’t want to be bothered and quietly checks on him? I mean jeez we get it you don’t like Men with this placement.

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it's not a placement i care for, but i asked if she was sure he wanted to be babied because i didn't see anything that indicated that and none of the people with mars in cancer i've known (including the guy i used to **** around with) have been the type to want to be babied, but instead were the type to do **** like "do you need (insert whatever here)" when someone else had an issue

where in what you just responded to did i express dislike at all? i said in a separate post i dont care for certain aspects of the placement (and i said it once) and in this i was just pointing out that saying something will heal on its own doesn't equate with "take care of me"

and shared my own views as someone who doesnt care for being babied and does say **** like "it will heal itself"

she said his mars was in cancer not hers didn't she? i wasnt even saying much about him other than asking what he did that made her assume he enjoyed it

what are you even ******** at me over exactly? something you clearly misread?

i wasnt even talking to you at any rate

posted February 19, 2019 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
it's not a placement i care for, but i asked if she was sure he wanted to be babied because i didn't see anything that indicated that and none of the people with mars in cancer i've known (including the guy i used to **** around with) have been the type to want to be babied, but instead were the type to do **** like "do you need (insert whatever here)" when someone else had an issue

where in what you just responded to did i express dislike at all? i said in a separate post i dont care for certain aspects of the placement (and i said it once) and in this i was just pointing out that saying something will heal on its own doesn't equate with "take care of me"

and shared my own views as someone who doesnt care for being babied and does say **** like "it will heal itself"

she said his mars was in cancer not hers didn't she? i wasnt even saying much about him other than asking what he did that made her assume he enjoyed it

what are you even ******** at me over exactly? something you clearly misread?

i wasnt even talking to you at any rate

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posted February 19, 2019 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I know you who you were talking to. She doesn’t have to justify anything to you. That’s her husband she knows how he acts. Why would she lie? I mean really second guessing someone just because you don’t agree is irritating.

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well if she gets irritated by me asking a question about his behavior to get a better picture of a placement then she's free to tell me

i don't really give a **** if you find me asking someone else something irritating, cool story tell it to someone who cares

edit: i wasn't saying she was lying btw, someone could have one impression of something and then the reality could be different

posted February 19, 2019 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well if she gets irritated by me asking a question about his behavior to get a better picture of a placement then she's free to tell me

i don't really give a **** if you find me asking someone else something irritating, cool story tell it to someone who cares

edit: i wasn't saying she was lying btw, someone could have one impression of something and then the reality could be different

just like i said something that didn't at all mean what you took away from it and yet here you are ********

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posted February 19, 2019 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Oh,If you didn’t care you wouldn’t be here arguing with me would you? You are just here to make trouble obviously. You don’t like the placement good great nobody cares. But you want to ruin a conversation because you don’t agree. Typical Capricorn behavior lol. Next...

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i probably would, i **** post on 4chan about all manner of things i don't care about out of boredom so why not respond to you?

but in this particular conversation i mentioned not caring for the placement once, and then in an unrelated post i asked a question about what her husband does that gives her the impression that he enjoys being taken care of because what she described didn't seem to indicate feelings one way or another to me

i didn't say anything negative or positive about the placement in the post you're ******** about

posted February 19, 2019 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Oh,If you didn’t care you wouldn’t be here arguing with me would you? You are just here to make trouble obviously. You don’t like the placement good great nobody cares. But you want to ruin a conversation because you don’t agree. What’s with all the cursing? Is it really necessary? Typical Capricorn behavior lol. Next...

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posted February 19, 2019 09:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i probably would, i **** post on 4chan about all manner of things i don't care about out of boredom so why not respond to you?

but in this particular conversation i mentioned not caring for the placement once, and then in an unrelated post i asked a question about what her husband does that gives her the impression that he enjoys being taken care of because what she described didn't seem to indicate feelings one way or another to me

i didn't say anything negative or positive about the placement in the post you're ******** about

if anyone wants to make trouble it seems to be you, typical **** behavior

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posted February 19, 2019 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Have fun

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posted February 19, 2019 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i'd have more fun if i was talking to someone more engaging and intelligent, but is what it is

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posted February 19, 2019 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Have fun you can’t even have a conversation without cursing pathetic. Try saying something other than the B word for a change.

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posted February 19, 2019 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Engaging? Every other word is ***** this and ***** that. At least I can debate without the use of profanity.

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i don't know if you noticed this, but i just talk like that

this isn't a debate at any rate