posted February 26, 2019 08:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Lol true

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exactly, but i'm sure i'll get a chance to properly tell you things like i enjoy talking to you because you seem engaging and lively, and i find your obvious sensitivity as endearing as your desire to mask it and pretend it doesn't exist among other things

posted February 26, 2019 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
exactly, but i'm sure i'll get a chance to properly tell you things like i enjoy talking to you because you seem engaging and lively, and i find your obvious sensitivity as endearing as your desire to mask it and pretend it doesn't exist among other things

all in good time though, need the right transit and all that

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Aww wait I'm having a mind orgasm right now lmao.

posted February 26, 2019 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Aww wait I'm having a mind orgasm right now lmao.

But you're contracting yourself at the same time, why would I need a transit to make it a 'good time'

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everything is better with the right timing

posted February 26, 2019 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
everything is better with the right timing

so when i get around to it you'll see what i mean

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True I guess.

posted February 26, 2019 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I thought once I read online that this placement could indicate issues with the mother. Or either something about the father being absent.

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I used to know a Taurean, had strong feelings for him, who had Mars conjunct Saturn in Cancer. His mother killed herself, after his brother committed suicide, and he'd lost his father a couple of years before I got to know him.

posted February 26, 2019 10:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
True I guess.

Oh and you could've easily gotten away with this one lol it was that good.

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and here i thought your expectations were on stilts

i meant all of it, but that other side of me i was referring to is a bit different than all that

posted February 26, 2019 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
and here i thought your expectations were on stilts

i meant all of it, but that other side of me i was referring to is a bit different than all that

takes a while for anyone to see it though

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Lol it was, I need to go back and see where I went wrong with my estimation of you.

posted February 27, 2019 06:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Lol it was, I need to go back and see where I went wrong with my estimation of you.

And it doesn't take a while for them to see it funny, it takes a while for you to show it lol we've got enough history on here to prove it

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to be fair people can't see what i don't show

when i'm close to someone or they've known me a while they see other sides of me, particularly one on one if i like them

i'm not one for letting people in very far

posted February 27, 2019 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
to be fair people can't see what i don't show

when i'm close to someone or they've known me a while they see other sides of me, particularly one on one if i like them

i'm not one for letting people in very far

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posted February 27, 2019 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I used to know a Taurean, had strong feelings for him, who had Mars conjunct Saturn in Cancer. His mother killed herself, after his brother committed suicide, and he'd lost his father a couple of years before I got to know him.

Another Mars in cancer, Aries Sun, is a great guy. He's a great father, owns his own business, is creative (makes furniture, is a musician, and he makes other things, too). His dad passed when he was younger, but his mum is still around, and they are close.

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posted February 27, 2019 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Yeah I'm like you in that way. You need to have some sort of pass if you are to get to know me lol.

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posted February 27, 2019 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
there's just sentiments that are reserved for people who are special, and also i hate being close to people generally so if someone manages it i couldn't help it lol

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posted February 27, 2019 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Lol I'll take it as a compliment (don't ruin this again lol)

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posted February 27, 2019 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
well i wasn't going to take back the truth

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Haha I know it's a bad and somewhat creepy comparison. But it's like when trying to suffocate someone and wait for their body tenseness to let go as a sign of death.

posted February 27, 2019 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Haha I know it's a bad and somewhat creepy comparison. But it's like when trying to suffocate someone and wait for their body tenseness to let go as a sign of death.

Like finally you surrender lol. Whew.

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you say it like you do that often lol

posted February 27, 2019 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
you say it like you do that often lol

personally i'm only cool with being choked during sex and preferably the other person lets go before i die, but i guess going that way wouldn't be too bad

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Lol it's the movies. I'm pure. Pure and innocent, at least what that Pisces guys' opinion is of me lol 😏 whatever.

posted February 27, 2019 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

They really love their mothers that's fore sure. I remember thinking "why is he telling me about his mother" it was weird to me at first.

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posted February 27, 2019 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Lol it's the movies. I'm pure. Pure and innocent, at least what that Pisces guys' opinion is of me lol 😏 whatever.

I don't think they'll care what you're "personally cool with" when someone is actually on your a**. But it's good you put your wishes out there lol. Law of attraction

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can't be as pure as me, virgos are inherently pure 0 degree virgo is probably as pure as you can get

i imagine killing someone irl is nothing like in movies, probably way harder

i had been reading some book about nero that described a couple assassinations that didn't work out too well at first and took a little extra

posted February 27, 2019 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I was strangled as a kid. Nothing about being choked is sexy to me.

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sorry to hear that, i was abused too

posted February 27, 2019 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
sorry to hear that, i was abused too

if i let everything that happened when i was a kid affect me still though i wouldn't let anyone touch me at all

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Thanks, and I'm sorry to hear that.

I can't take anything around my throat, except a loose necklace. If anything feels like it's starting to constrict around it, I pull it away.

posted February 27, 2019 10:32 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Thanks, and I'm sorry to hear that.

I can't take anything around my throat, except a loose necklace. If anything feels like it's starting to constrict around it, I pull it away.

I've been beaten up as an adult, too. One time, I couldn't walk for five days. It was my sister (as an adult), not a man (that was when I was a kid), but still not a good thing. If anyone wanted to choke me, I'd be really concerned.

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it's cool, is what it is

i'm weird about things on my throat too, scarves or anything make me anxious and i'm not ok with anyone just touching my neck either except in a sexual context

makes it different for whatever reason

it doesn't concern me when it's only sexual since it doesn't translate into being violent or aggressive anywhere else

i imagine your sister has severe problems, that's rough

my older brother is the violent type but as adults that hasn't been an issue he just makes a lot of noise and tries to take everything outside but he shuts up eventually and nothing happens

i always just say **** like "why do we have to go somewhere? just hit me here if you want it to go there so bad" we havent fought like that since i was about 13 or so and he was 20