posted December 09, 2014 06:36 AM
"Men with the aspect (Woody Allen, Harrison Ford, Rock Hudson, Sean Connery) identify more with the power and control issues of the aspect: they switch emotions on and off at will in order to maintain control of the object of their affections and then begin to complain that their partners are unstable and psychologically damaged. What they fail to see is that it is almost certainly their fault that the woman in their life who wants to be loved and cared for is bewildered and confused by the emotional amputation they are subjected to and eventually it takes its toll on their mental health and wellbeing".☝︎That is my fiancé. He has Venus in Pisces conj Asc op Virgo Pluto but what happens is that I have a Cardinal sq incl Pluto, Moon, Sun, Mercury, Venus so it becomes my Pluto vs his Pluto-a game of Titans.
We also have Virgo Mars conj Asc (me)and his Cap Mars conj my Moon so things can be very, very volatile.
I am extremely aware of the **** he tries to pull, or my Pluto is rather, and it's very hard for me to not engage in a battle. I know he sometimes wants to break me down so he can rebuild me but I am too strong for him. Those are his own words. He has also said that he needs someone that IS strong because he is aware of his games but he didn't expect to meet someone with willpower made of pure fire and concrete.
I honestly don't recommend someone with a soft mind and heart to try and figure these people out. It can be maddening 
Lindaland
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posted December 08, 2014 11:32 PM