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Topic: Unrequited Love ~ Do you see it? Astro Case Study
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:31 PM
The end of their story is quite sad. quote: Her boyfriend, Christian Laggiard, 29, said: "She met him when she needed help with her English studies. He would leave letters for her but she was not interested in him. "He said he couldn't live like he was, not having his feelings returned. He had had enough."
quote: He left a note saying: "She was going away forever, leaving me alone.
the rebuffed Dunn, in May of 2001 turned a gun to Ms. Ferro, quote: She tried to flee as he opened the car door and took aim but he put three bullets in her back and two in her head. A sixth missed.
He then turned the gun on himself. quote: Moments before the murder, Dunn handed his note to a friend of Emanuela's and told her: "The police will be here soon." [...] "But now we will be together forever up in heaven. Don't cry because we will be happier."
quote: Guiseppe Marabatto refused to reveal the contents of the letter but he did say, "there were phrases from a 38-year-old man who was besotted with a girl much younger than himself".
quote: Dunn had no criminal record or history of mental illness and gave no warning of what he was about to do. He even laughed and joked with his wife's grandad before leaving home to commit the murder. Dunn's wife Cristina said: "I didn't notice anything strange about him. He left at about 10am with his bag, saying he had to pop into town on a quick errand. "He said he would be home soon as usual. Before he left he helped my grandfather carry a heavy bag and even joked, 'Is it Christmas already?' "Grant was an exceptional man - generous and reserved. I can't rationally explain what happened." [...] Police spokesman Giuseppe Marabotto said: "It seems to be a crime of passion. We discovered from our colleagues in Britain that he had no previous convictions. "He just lost his head."
His progressed chart had a quite viscious looking t-square at the time, along with a Sun sq Uranus for acting out irationally. Capricorn Asc, chart ruler Saturn in 1st house opposed 2deg Mars in H7, forming a t-square with Mercury in H3. H3 being of course our neighborhood, our community. He traveled a very short distance to where he knew she was going to be, as she had just left her class and was still in the school parking lot, and dealt with his Saturn/Mars tension the best way he could. Very tragic story. --------------------------------------------- Here are a few articles on the story, the news quotes were lifted from these sources, http://www.thefreelibrary.com/OBSESSED+ASSASSIN%3B+Killer+teacher's+love+notes+to+girl+victim.-a074786515 http://www.thefreelibrary.com/FATAL+ATTRACTION%3B+Brit+teacher+kills+student,+19,+then+himself+so...-a074786209 http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/1342367.stm ----------------------------------------------------------------- Here is their birth info from AstroDatabank, Dunn, Grant Gender: M born on 16 April 1963 at 01:10 (= 01:10 AM ) Place Argyll, Scotland, 56n24, 5w27 Timezone GDT h1e (is daylight saving time) Data source Quoted BC/BR Rodden Rating AA Biography Scottish schoolteacher in a private school. Though married to an Italian wife, Dunn had an unrequited love for one of the private students, 19-year-old Emmanuela Ferro. In jealousy and frustration, he shot her to death on 5/18/2001 and then shot himself. Ferro, Emanuela Gender: F born on 7 February 1982 at 12:45 (= 12:45 PM ) Place Pinerolo, Italy, 44n53, 7e21 Timezone MET h1e (is standard time) Data source Quoted BC/BR Rodden Rating AA Biography Italian student in a private school. Her married teacher, Grant Dunn, fell in love with her, in spite of the fact that she was married and she did not encourage him. In jealousy and frustration, he shot her to death on 5/18/2001 and then shot himself. *Astrodatabank reports she was married, other news sources claim she just had a boyfriend. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:33 PM
The lack of rational explanation is interesting, it brings up Pluto/H8 it seems. I agree that some latent emotions were strongly brought out in him as a result of this 'relationship.' One interesting thing I saw that no one touched on was that their NN were conj in Cancer, his Aries Sun went in to complete their grand cross with her Capricorn Venus and her Libra stellium.I went looking back over the responses at some insights here from you all, lots of talent here! And if you guessed it was her don't be discouraged cos part of the reason for me posting this was that the answer did not *pop* when I first looked at the charts, so right or wrong it's good exercise  from Vapor-Lash: "His Mercury - chart ruler is only getting negative aspects.' ---You can see this in his attempts @ further communication being continually rebuffed. It's not for lack of trying. "his Moon in Capricorn and her Venus retrograde in Capricorn. Venus R can come across as "cold" to direct planets in the same sign - mainly the Moon (the Moon is affectionate). A Retro Venus keeps emotions inside.. This is the only thing that MAY have made him feel rejected" ---I just wanted to add this again because it drew my interest, for others who haven't read this. "IF it is him - then I'm actually doubting his love... I'd call it Arien challenge -mania. He feels he can't OWN her Mars-Pluto..and he wants to keep trying." ---Yes, unfortunately true. "His Saturn conjunct her Sun. He could be very in awe of her and very supportive of her. I feel that she would have the upper hand with this aspect in terms of love." ---The supportive aspect being the teaching capacity, yes. It started there and then he wanted more. "If these people have never even dated.. he would see her as a challenge and that's enough for an Aries with Pisces Venus to think he is in love - for a life time (as long as the relationship never materializes)." ---I think he did. A challenge on which he projected many romantic feelings. from electricmind: "she's got neptune in the 7th house which already gives her boundary issues and idealization in one-on-one relationships." ---H7 is also what we attract. "her mars/saturn/pluto libra stellium falls into a conjunction on his midheaven. again, a lot of idealism and looking up to." ---Hmm, I usually think it's the MC person who looks up to the other who has planets conj that pt. "venus in the 8th, even in capricorn... for some reason i'm feeling like given her 7th house neptune as well, she might be a bit obsessive about relationships in general." ---Again Venus can also be what we attract. In H8 it's so potent for her, with that close square to Pluto it's hard to say how else she would have met this dynamic had she lived.  "aqua suns can harbor crushes for a long time. mostly because they are trying to distinguish whether its just friends feelings or romantic feelings." ---He came on to her repeatedly and she shrugged it off, the Aqua/Capricorn indifference? from GotGemini: "Just going by the Sun opposite Saturn, I'd say it was he that was into her and she is very hesitant. Plus, she's got Venus in Cap which takes forever and a day to fall in love. On top of that, she's a detached Aqua Sun and Merc so she's a little more impervious to love. On his side, he has Venus exalted in dreamy Pisces so he's in love with the feeling and thought of being in idealized love. Plus he's an all or nothing Aries. Plus he's natally got Venus trine Neptune so he already idealizes love anyway." ---It looks like a quick interp but imo you were completely right on about everything you wrote. There's more to it but for a quick snapshot, it's good work! I was actually surprised how many people picked him, as from their natals I would've thought most would have chosen her! IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:33 PM
from Diana: "I can defintely see why he would feel it more, due to the house overlays." ---Good call, I didn't pay attention to these in the beginning, just poring over all the aspects. "There is something, it seems, of a power imbalance" ---V. true, student-teacher. You said you saw it in the synastry with 8th/12th... but I'm wondering where? The taboo is also that he's married. The taboo is also that he overreacted violently to something he couldn't have. "It's even possible, from the charts and transits that someone died. Maybe both. I'd say there is a strong likelihood stalking was involved. All of this is very possible from their natals and their transits. Doesn't mean it happened, but it was definitely rife with the possibility. There are so many aspects in natal and in the transits showing this that I am not even going to bother to type it out unless i have to..." ---Obviously completely spot on! And obviously I'm gonna wanna know the list Actually some things struck me strongly after I posted the extra charts (the last set being the transits on the day they died): t.pluto conj his asc/her dsc. t.karma conj her n.saturn/his n. mc, double whammy w. her n.karma on his n.saturn. Pretty strongly states they had business from before and will have business the next time around as well. Natally they also have d.w. of Saturn conj MC. They both have prominent Karma, his conj Mars which conj her Moon falling in his 8th. Reading the synastry after the transits literally gave me shivers, and I already knew the case. But do you think t.Pluto was the make-or-break? "It's really hard to say who was the aggressor here, because both charts show the actions, which usually happens in cases of domestic violence, crime, or stalking/harassment. The victims chart will show the same stressors as the perpetrator.' ---I've seen this as well. "I can definitely see that this got intense, this unrequited love -- I think it turned into something hideous." ---True. "I guess you won't tell me if I am at all right then..." ---Ahh! I wanted to say how impressed I was but I couldn't! lol it's been hard work keeping this a secret.from Benedict Moon*: "Aries Sun, Leo Mars, Pisces Venus: The hopeless romantic who chases. Pisces Venuses are prone to unrequited stuff of novels, Aries Sun/Leo Mars combo can't resist a challenge. And who better to fit the actual challenge than an aloof Aquarius Sun with a introverted retrograde Capricorn Venus?" ---Great work just going by signs, it's amazing how easy it is to push those to the side. "Her neptune squaring his pisces venus is like waving Smirnoff in front of an alcoholic. He will totally fall for the allure of neptune. Putting her on a pedestal, seeing what's not there, attributing characteristics to her that never existed, etc." ---This is something I missed as well. Another good call. from staborgi: "Saturn I've been reading has a lot to do with our deep insecurities, what we think we're not good at and how when someone touches that they can bring all that out and it can seem like that partner is everything you always wanted to be so Saturn reacts by becoming super possessive, maybe even obsessive..his seems to be getting hit pretty hard" ---Super possessive. Nothing else closer to the truth. "Also that Mars conjunct Moon...Mars usually reacts "hungrily" toward the Moon and the Moon is one's very psyche so he might feel like he really sees deeply into her. And the fact that two outer planets are hitting his MC...the angles to me are so personal, she might seem out of this world to him" ---I like how you interpreted mars conj moon, and good call on the hits to his Mc.
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:34 PM
from DD: " I am not really sure I know how to access unrequited feelings in astrology" ---This is one of the great astrology mysteries, for sure lol. To me anyway, partly the reason I was interested in responses. "I don`t know if maybe the 8th house is also part of an attraction pattern" ---I think it is, along with 5th and 7th. His natal Mars in the 8th was pretty strong here, conj her Moon. "Neptune in 7th house also seems to be prone to "love from afar" or "the dream of love"." ---Her 7h Neptune, that threw a lot of people off. You can act out your h7 or attract it, it seems. And it plugs into his Pisces Venus, which is square her Neptune, this has to be at least part of the key, although it's not what we usually think of re: h7. "their ideas of a relationship are opposed or are not easy to combine" ref, h7 rulers opposed. ---This is true. "her Moon conjuncts his Mars in his 8th house - so she actually *could* touch him on a very deep level; but maybe he would be a bit afraid of letting someone that deep into him? Ins uch cases it happens often that the 8th house rather repells than attracts. Itīs just too much,e specially with the lack of other attraction aspects." ---I think you touched on a jackpot aspect here. "Anyway if he reacts to that Moon-Mars-conjunction in his 8th house, it could maybe be in the case of some intense sexual passion, but I would prefer if there were other more stable aspects, too." ---For both of their sakes I would have liked more stable synastry between them as well. "the ruler of his intercepted 8th house, Sun, opposes her Pluto and Saturn. It also squares her Venus. This could be of course very very intense, or completely suppressed and blocked. this actually is a strange synastry from his side, completely unbalanced. On a more superficial level there is just nothing there, but if you get under the surface, it is like a timebomb ticking away." ---Jackpot. I'm interested, did you pay more attn to this *because* the Sun is intercepted? Does that do something extra to it? "And her 8th house ruler is exact conjunct his MC" ---I hate to say the implications of this regarding her death being well known through him. :shudders: "Where she met him because of HIS profession, but not necessarily as a coworker" ---This is true.from lalalinda: "A classic aspect of unrequited love is Venus square Pluto which she has" ---I hate to say this cos I have the same aspect but it can go both ways. The fact that hers is in the 8th as well....If I had looked at her chart I would've liked to put her on the awares of any man who seemed 'too' interested. And I'm sure she had her share of intense involvements that were 1 sided in her short time. In cases like this I hate to see lives play out the classic way you think they would. from Belage: "I see that his Saturn and his Neptune square her Chiron, so I would say that he broke her heart. ---Ultimately, I agree. And she didn't see it coming  from Cherle: "No strong aspects to his Venus" ---This is true. Another thing that threw people off. But it's love he's claiming. Something irrational that flew in under the radar. "Welcome to the "Unrequited Love for Some Impossible-to-Please Cap Moon Guy" Club, girlfriend!" ---I have Capricorn Moon myself but I agree heartily: the men seem to have hearts that are v.hard to please! Ahh! There's more responses than this lol! I'm gonna have to get back to the rest as I made this post up last night lol so I'm working back in time or something Be back later! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 1576 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 09:58 PM
Fun stuff, Yay! 
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staborgi Knowflake Posts: 470 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 10:00 PM
WOW What a story, I'm totally blown away. Apart from the grim story, this was a really interesting exercise and great learning experience...I think we should do more of these! Will definitely be going back to some of the responses to look a little more closely at what everyone said...there really was A TON going on here! This is also really interesting because I've often wondered about charts that speak to each other or are deeply connected in ways that we don't expect or hope for (i.e. "easy" love). The lack of Venus aspects on his parts really makes sense to me now...I was beginning to doubt my choice when people brought that up but now I have to wonder- if Venus was involved (among other things, with all this outer planet stuff it might have just been trumped either way) would he have done such a thing?IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 10:02 PM
I knew it was murder/suicide. I almost wrote that, but decided to say it another way - maybe both died. I could tell by their charts that this was most likely what happened. No one has really hit on what led me to see it. There are SO MANY things pointing to it, that it's ridiculous. I was thinking it, but didn't want to go there, but then I saw his progressed chart and it just became even more crystallized in my mind. The transits clinched it for me.
It's going to take me a long time to type it all out, because it was in all the charts -- I have to see confirmations in more than one chart to be sure. I didn't even do the other charts I usually do. I will end up doing them. I'm going to have to print out all the charts to make writing it all out easier and more cohesive. IP: Logged |
vapor-lash Knowflake Posts: 1868 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 10:27 PM
Diana - You were just amazing honestly!I'm wow-ed by you right now. I'll run every synastry by you in the future LOL Lonake - That truly is a very sad story. Thank you for the thread. It was a great idea and we all learnt a lot from it! It's horrible it had to end this way. I am sure now that he was sexually obsessed and saw it as love I've had two of the significant aspects they have. One is Mars conjunct my Moon - I have this with my ex and he was convinced he wanted to marry me before our relationship became physical. I am happy it was never too serious afterwards, because I much prefer being friends. I can't say I was ever in love with him - but we were very well matched physically. I have the Saturn-Sun -- very close, as you might remember, with my Leo guy. He was also in a position of power towards me when we first met. He was/is very supportive. But our relationship has never been "obsessive" or weird. We're both pretty laid back and friendly. There is always an undertone of sexuality but there is also a great friendship and lots of mutual affection. I think this might be due to other aspects though. The reason I said he might feel "inferior" in some way... and he might be in awe of her... is that -- that's how Mr Leo feels about me LOL But he is actually attractive and he's a great person.. so I'm surprised by his feelings. I find this Saturnian. IP: Logged |
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posted April 13, 2010 10:47 PM
(((Diana)))) You rock! x o x AmiIP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:51 PM
Diana it would be great for us if you could do a write up, and really instructive. Thank you  IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 464 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:52 PM
Lonake thank you for this learning opportunity. We should have more threads like this.Now looking back, I see that the ruler of her 12th house is Venus, and her Venus is her 8th house of sex and death, in Cap which is ruled by Saturn. Her Venus is squared natally by Saturn and by Pluto. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:56 PM
Vapor, I found her chart browsing on Astrodatabnk trying to find a celeb who had a birthday like mine for that astro twin thread. And a list of people popped up. She's born less than 2 wks before me,and we both have the same Venus Pluto square. And then I read her biography and thought why not put it to LL? We've done things like this before, but not so involved, I don't think. I'd like other people to do more of these too Except we'll have to act like we don't see Diana's post, it would be like looking at the answer key while taking a test lol.IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 464 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:57 PM
Sorry if it has been posted before, do we have any information on the asteroids Dejanira and Nessus for their charts? IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 13, 2010 11:58 PM
Hi Belage, seeing the aspect like you say gives me shivers.edit, Here is their birth info from AstroDatabank, Dunn, Grant Gender: M born on 16 April 1963 at 01:10 (= 01:10 AM ) Place Argyll, Scotland, 56n24, 5w27 Timezone GDT h1e (is daylight saving time) Ferro, Emanuela Gender: F born on 7 February 1982 at 12:45 (= 12:45 PM ) Place Pinerolo, Italy, 44n53, 7e21 Timezone MET h1e (is standard time) You can just go to astrodatabank.com and look em up to add em to 'my astro' real quick. except for his i had to add in 'Odan' since that is a city in Argyll, which may be a county, in Scotland. So Odan would be his birthplace. It looks like "Odan, Argyll, Scotland" IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 12:38 AM
DD: "I)nterestingly the composite Sun is conjunct his natal Venus though. so if HE is the attracted one, it might be an indicator for the significance of composites and especiaslly their aspects back to the natals." ---I think it's valid. Parallels would be interesting to look @ too.GG: You are too cute. You know my Sun is opp your Asc/Mars  Ami: "She has mars, conjunct Saturn and Pluto--it seems ---in the 5th house." ---This is a huge driving force of a stellium. It could typify males she encounters or her own male energy. In H5 it could just be stops and starts with being fertile and wanting to conceive very badly. There are a lot of ways this could have gone. "Is the 8th house Venus a wild type of Venus in the sense that Venus would not like to be in Scorpio's house and so acts out of character for Venus." ---I think it means her Venus is doubly impacted by Pluto and she's fated to encounter very strong feelings and the taboo in her love life/relationships, either by her feelings or by someone else towards her. Think of it like this: You're born with a certain natal energy (Venus/Pluto) you either feel it act it out, but you can also EASILY become a projection for anyone who harbors obsessive tendencies in their chart. Don't know how clear I sound here. DD: "Maybe that is Venus-Pluto, too, especially with Venus in Cappy. I rather stay within myself than annoying someone with my presence." ---I have the same square, I feel similarily. It's strange for me because at the same time there's fear, there's a lot of passion too. It's an odd dynamic. "That is also a side of Pluto. Unwavering loyalty - of course coupled with very high expectations of the same loyalty back." ---I agree. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 12:39 AM
Diana: I was thinking my Venus would be conj yours, but it's all the way back @ 25. I still like the way you write anyway  "A lot of people are remarking about his unaspected venus, but that can go both ways. It can actually make it stronger and out of control, like a rogue planet." ---This is interesting  "Yes, but her karma is on his saturn. It goes both ways with these two which makes it so hard to figure out." ---Diana, what would you say about synastry the woman's Karma conj the man's Mars?winter: "His mercury (7th house ruler) is at the midpoint of her Sun and Moon" ---ahh i forgot midpoints too. his natal merc is quite conflicted tho, square his mars i believe. this couldve played into something...remember how she ignored his communications, i wonder if this is part of the reason he was set off. lalalinda: baby, you know leo risings are all about the ! thank you x0x0x "They were both dealing with a heavy Pluto transit. He on the Ascendant, She on the Descendant." ---No kidding. Talk about awestruck when I saw that transit. buzzorific: "He's smitten over her. Reason? Her Neptune is aspecting his Sun. With every crush I've had, their Neptune was running amok making me see all the illusions as real." ---I'm gonna be on Neptune-alert after reading this one 
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 12:40 AM
Deux*Antares: "His Karma on her Moon = Ouch!" ---I was so surprised to see they both had prominent karma. His being conj his mars, and that conj her moon, in his h8. I'll never doubt that asteroid again. I'm now officially on Karma-alert.Vapor: "Because Mars on a woman's Moon or Venus is pretty huge for sexual attraction." omg I have Moon/Venus and every man who has Mars conj this has me running in the other direction, I just don't find them attractive, is it because their Mars squares my Saturn/Pluto? IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 01:37 AM
I hate writing it all out, lol. Everyone, stop!
I'll start with the natals. His first.
His sun's ruler, mars, is in leo, conjunct a nasty fixed degree associated with murder. Karma is right there next to it, also at a very nasty degree. Mars is the focal point of a t-square with a mercury/neptune opposition. It was this merc/nep opposition that really led me to believe he was the one with the unrequited feelings. That aspect can indicate delusional feelings that careen out of control. The nep/merc is on the 5th/11th house axis, being stronger on the cusps than if it were in the houses. To boot, Neptune is on a critical degree that also is violent. It is also rx, which doesn't help the functioning of the planet. To add to the matter, the 5th/11th axis is conjunct more evil degrees. Venus is exalted in pisces, which can be a very fantastical placement, with daydreams of love being projected onto someone who doesn't feel the same. Think neptune in the 7th, but on steroids. It being unaspected turned it into a beast in his case. It has a wide trine to neptune, which couldn't have helped. Its ruler, neptune rules the 3rd of the mind, so his thinking can be very neptunian, which can be good, but in his case, with the rest of his chart, it was not.
He has no air, unless you count saturn and the MC, and I really don't as stand alone placements for a deficiency of element. He couldn't look at his feelings logically, so they became obsessive. His MC is at another very critical degree, ruler venus, which we just discussed. Ahh, I forgot, his t-square with mercury/neptune square saturn. I already discussed the merc/nep, but the square to saturn from the 5th/11th may have meant he felt her rejection and his feelings for her were stripping away his self-worth.
His neptune really sealed it for me. He is very neptunian. It makes many aspects that all are within orb. The mars square neptune is one I see a lot in domestic murders, whether it be in natal or in transit. It is present a lot. To me, it says the person's anger, rage, violence, actions (mars) is blown out of proportion, delusional, dangerous, nebulous (neptune). Of course not everyone who has this aspect or transit will be this way, but taken with other transits and natal configurations, it is a standard that is there quite often. The chart ruler, jupiter, is also a bit critical, and besides a few wide orbed aspects is unaspected. Posited in the 3rd of the mind, it can magnify his thought and emotions. It disposits to mars, which I already covered, so it's in that mess of a configuration. Moon is trine mercury, which sets off the entire configuration. All that energy feeds off almost every point in his chart, which could've been a good thing, but for him, it wasn't. It's what the person does with the energy that matters. He couldn't control it, so he became obsessive. Maybe it was because the lack of air, so that he couldn't detach from all of his feelings. Obviously, it isn't that simple, there would be other non-astro reasons as well, but astro-wise, that's my theory, along with the other things I've mentioned so far. The progressed chart and the transits just pushed it all over the edge for him...added fuel to the fire, so to speak.
Saturn disposits to uranus, which surprise of all surprises, is also critical in his 8th.
His DC is critical. Ruler is mercury, which is bound up in those two t-squares. Someone like him, with a deficiency in air would do well to do air type activities -- reading, critical thinking, etc. To forget his fire/water/earth thoughts and drives. A therapist would help an air deficient person, because a therapist is detached. Talking to a friend about the feelings would've helped too, but he didn't tell anyone, it seems. Talking is air (gemini). I need to backtrack as to why I picked him as the obsessed one. I wrote why in my previous postings. The house overlays were all in his personal houses. That was what clinched it for me. I thought there was a power imbalance not because of the overlays of the more personal houses, but because of the MC action. That told me there was someone more in a position of authority here, but I wasn't sure who, because it went both ways. At the time, I didn't think anything violent had occurred. That came later when I saw his progressed and then started to dig further. Before that, I had noticed the critical degrees in both charts and it was nagging at me, and I thought maybe something happened, but brushed it aside. Once I saw his progressed, I was floored, and then I really started to look for it. Of course I found it.
Her chart also had critical degrees, troubling aspects and transits, but the feel of her chart was more the one of a victim, but I couldn't be entirely sure. Between the two natal charts, I started to see things that troubled me. Her stellium in the 5th screamed victim to me. Mars, saturn, pluto all conjunct in the house of love and sex made me look closer, because I knew something was awry in that area of her life, given that lineup.
So...I dug deeper with that in mind. I still didn't know if it was she who was the stalked or the stalkee, but I FELT it was her. I kept telling myself, while looking at the charts, to "keep an open mind, you don't KNOW she was a victim, make the theory fit the evidence, not the evidence fit the theory." So, I really strove to do that.
Her chiron in the 12th stood out too. Not because it's such a bad placement, but in context with the rest of her chart. A hidden enemy wounded her. It is also at a critical degree. So is her AC. The ruler of her 12th, venus, is rx and in her 8th house of death. Ruler of her 8th, saturn, is also critical and part of that violent stellium in her 5th. Her IC is on a degree of violence (murder). Neptune in the 7th can ATTRACT stalkers too. Her neptune disposits to pluto, which is conjunct the violent stellium in the 5th. venus is square all of that, close. venus square pluto can attract obsessive people. It's also square mars and saturn, tight, which can be a marker of violence if the rest of the chart indicates it, like hers does.
Her neptune is unaspected, so its given more power in the chart. It rules her 11th house of others/groups of people, which is traditionally ruled by uranus, which is erratic. Interestingly, now that I know he was her teacher, her venus is almost in her 9th of higher learning. Ruled by saturn which I already discussed is stressed.
Mars and venus are intercepted in her chart on her 5th/11th axis, the same houses he has the opposition of his merc/nep and in the same signs as his sun and MC.
I wonder if it'll post all of this....? I better stop and post and restart. IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 01:57 AM
quote: Diana: I was thinking my Venus would be conj yours, but it's all the way back @ 25. I still like the way you write anyway "A lot of people are remarking about his unaspected venus, but that can go both ways. It can actually make it stronger and out of control, like a rogue planet." ---This is interesting "Yes, but her karma is on his saturn. It goes both ways with these two which makes it so hard to figure out." ---Diana, what would you say about synastry the woman's Karma conj the man's Mars?
Your venus is actually conjunct my MC. It would depend on the chart. It can mean a lot of things. I've seen it in the chart of someone who was the father of her children, so that is one way it can manifest.
Karma is a very accurate asteroid. I almost always see it active at certain times in my astro studies.
I am still not done writing all of that out. I want to do their transits. I think I will take a break first!
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Lonake Moderator Posts: 4780 From: U.S. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 02:04 AM
OK transits! Read this after  ------------------------------------Thanks so much, Diana!  When I looked at the charts I just focused on interaspects and became confused. This is a reminder to study natals more, for sure. And I don't know the fixed degrees but I'll be studying them now, thanks to you  1 question I have is, his n.mercury sq to saturn is 10 degs. Is that allowable? Or do you digest more the bigger picture? Also! Something I saw that looked very jaw dropping to me, the day of the murder, transiting karma was in late libra conj her saturn and his mc. It mimics the synastry of her natal karma conj his saturn on her mc. What does this tell you? The repeat of Saturn, Karma, MC? What does asteroid Karma represent to you in natal & synastry? I don't pay attn to asteroids much so am curious. P.S., My moon is conj your Mc, too  IP: Logged |
Diana Knowflake Posts: 2394 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 02:15 AM
I'm probably going to do the transits tomorrow. Sorry...there is just so much to cover and I want to do it properly. There are, if i remember right, countless transits that supported my theory. The natals are always the most important charts, but people never listen to me when I try to tell them that. Everyone wants to focus on synastry, when that is just transits to the people's natals. Sigh.
The karma on her saturn and his MC was definitely chilling. Since saturn rules her 8th, that solidified it for me that something, maybe death occurred, but so did a lot of other transits at the time. Karma was also opp his sun/ic, the ruler of which is intercepted in the 8th/2nd axis -- her sun and moon, natally. Creepy.
Wow, your natals are mirroring my SA aspects! IP: Logged |
evanski Knowflake Posts: 360 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 02:20 AM
So sad that murder/suicide isn't uncommon. Suicide alone is tragic. It breaks my heart reading about custody battles that end up in this situation  'I found her chart browsing on Astrodatabnk trying to find a celeb who had a birthday like mine for that astro twin thread.'
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DD Knowflake Posts: 7072 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 03:04 AM
Very interesting.I will list my conclusions later on, whenI have drawn them. but so far I want to point out one thing: It was not LOVE, it was obsession. maybe that is why we didn`t find love-aspects for him,b ut he had a strong strong 8th house and Pluto emphasis? IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 7072 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 04:24 AM
Diana, Brilliant! And it shows that we really have to look at ALL The charts, and not just quickly skim some aspects. Anyway, some of my conclusions are: ° houses are really important, but placements int he houses can also be expressed through projections (we tend to forget that 7th house is also the house of "enemies"). ° paying attention to configurations, closed circuits. I actually saw the Grand Gross, Lonake mentioned, which got me confused, and yes it makes sense. ° also it seems that the nature of the aspects (square or trine or whatever) DOES play a role, in making qualitative differences. ° we should not underestimate the 8th house. His was extremely strong in disturbing ways. For me the most "interesting" part of it was, how there was so little going on in the "normal" love / attraction-things (Moon, Venus, 5th, 7th house), but then there was this huge emphasis on the 8th house. A strong undercurrent that got out of hand. The thing is, I saw that, I just didnīt draw the right conclusions to what I saw. *sighs* So back to the beginning.  IP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2196 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 14, 2010 06:56 AM
I Love this thread!!------------------ Blog IP: Logged | |