posted April 23, 2010 02:37 PM            

I just met someone who I like, but OMG! His Saturn is on my Mars and he is so intent on thinking he is Smarter than me and just better than me in general. He makes me feel like I'm an idiot quite frankly... lol. But, I know I'm not which is why it's soooo irritating!!!

posted April 23, 2010 02:51 PM            

shrugs

so why do you like him???

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posted April 23, 2010 02:56 PM            

I'd also look at geocentric Venus Nodes. They are overlooked by astrologers imho.

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posted April 23, 2010 10:56 PM            

I have a tendency to be attracted to men with Saturn squaring my Mars. Sometimes it's works out, especially in friendships, but other times, like in romantic relationships, it's just awful. If he gets critical, I can bully them back. I think I may subconscious seek out these kinds of guys because I feel I need to prove myself to a man, seeing I never got to prove myself to my father.

But the worst was with an older guy who had:

--his Mars parallel my Saturn
--his Mars/Uranus conjunction opposing my Mars
--his Saturn/moon conjunction in my 5th, quincunxing my 10th house Sun
--his Pluto was in my 12th, squaring my Venus

posted April 23, 2010 11:04 PM            

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are there any natal hard aspects to that conjunction?

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posted April 24, 2010 02:50 AM            

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insecurity on the part of the Saturn person comes from a feeling that the Mars person expresses everything they want to be but are insecure about in themselves

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I've actually noticed this aspect a lot

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posted April 24, 2010 03:07 AM            

It is not a close one.

His Saturn is conjunct my Sun at 12 Aries... and square my Mars (3 Capricorn) & Neptune (5 Capricorn) -- and also Moon (18 Capricorn).

I loveeeeeeeeee him so much lol I don't feel like he downplays my intelligence at all. He is very supportive and he really cares a lot. I don't know anyone quite like him.

raspberri - Maybe his patronizing attitude has something to do with your Mercuries.

posted April 24, 2010 03:24 AM            

Staborgi, it's in Saturn: A new look at an old devil. There's a mars/saturn synastry chapter in there, if you like i can write up some of it tomorrow as quoted text ~ np. It's kinda worth it to buy it tho, but then again I think I like all of her books

posted April 24, 2010 03:55 AM            

LOL Lonake.. s'ok I'll always love you!!

ummmm Pluto over my Mars was not as eventful as you'd imagine. Nothing horrible happened.
I guess Pluto and Neptune are friendly planets.. even though Pluto-Mars can go either way... so maybe I did not experience this in the typical way. I know someone else who had a Pluto-Mars transit as well. She was seriously scared about it. She does not know much about astrology but she read horrible things about it. Nothing has happened to her either.

Maybe this is a strengthening influence in my career? It's possible.. Capricorn represents "career" for me in a solar chart.

Also, the M-P conjunction is well-aspected in my chart: sextile my natal Pluto/SN, trine Venus/NN, sextile Jupiter/MC.

posted April 24, 2010 04:08 AM            

Makes sense.

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pluto going over my neptune was a v.sobering experience, some dreams dashed, the ones that had no real substance.

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interesting because i feel like some dreams are being dashed and others are being given a *lot* of back-up.

So I guess the unrealistic dreams are dashed, while the workable ones are being realized. This is mainly career related.. which is interesting since in Placidus (I tried to stop using this lol.. but I'm sooo used to it)... Neptune rules my 10th house.

posted January 29, 2017 09:00 PM            

I have attracted Saturn conj my Mars in Taurus. (I have retro Mars sext Saturn natally.) I prefer Saturn conj Mars rather than opposite it.

The Saturn connection is usually in lower degrees of Taurus (My Mars is 8 Taurus.) I have never attracted it later than 6 or so degrees, then it starts opposing my Moon at 12 Scorp too directly or getting close to opposing my Venus (18 Scorp).

Saturn conj my Venus is also ok (I have venus sesqui-square Saturn which I never even realized) but I do NOT like Saturn opposite my Venus! It is very unlucky financially (I'm an artsy financial person with Moon conj Venus) so Saturn later in Taurus opposite my Venus in my 8th house really frustrates me & typically, the person shows up with a really condescending or usery and it's always to my disadvantage.

I was looking at three charts of my best girlfriends - all married and in relationships for 15-20 years.

In each of these, they have Saturn/Mars aspects going one if not both ways. (All three girlfriends are born same year as me and all have Saturn/Mars aspects natally, two have Mars in Taurus (the other in Pisces.)

S&T
Her Saturn in Gem opp his Mars in Sag (orb 3)
His Saturn in Gem square her Mars in Pisces (orb 6 - she has this natally too, they're close in age.)
His Saturn exactly conj her Sun & sextile her Moon & trine her Jupiter.

Composite Moon conj Saturn, Mars trine Saturn and many other soft trines sextiles.
No children

They have been best friends since the first day of college but it took them about 5+ years to get together as a couple. I think she was in love with him right away but it took longer for him to come around.

K&S
His Saturn conj her ASC/Mars in Taurus & sextile her Moon
Her Saturn in Cancer square his Mars/Chiron (Aries)
Her Saturn trine his Jupiter & Square his Uranus
Don't know his ASC/chart angles
Saturns sextile

Composite saturn opp neptune and loosely opposite sun/mercury conj. They also have sun loosely conj Jupiter & Moon conj Venus
comp saturn trine pluto & inconjunct venus

She admits he complains he doesn't get as much sex as he'd like and he works more than she'd like. They've had some bumps but love each other very much.
They have two children.

B&B
Her Saturn in Cancer opp his Mars in Capricorn (orb 4), trine his Pisces Sun
His Saturn trine her Mercury (she's a Virgo) & loosely conj her Moon. His Saturn in her 5th, inconjunct her ASC
Their Mars exactly trine
His Mars sextile her Venus
His Jupiter in her 1st house

Composite Saturn opposite Venus/Merc (orb 7)
and comp saturn opp Sun going in other direction (orb 8.)
comp saturn trine uranus
His Mars conj her North Node
Her ASC conj his North Node

They met working abroad. He was engaged to someone else originally. They were friends for a long time and eventually got together. They were also separated at the beginning of their relationship when they came back to the States due not being able to get jobs in the same location but eventually, it all came together. They have 1 child

With the guy I been seeing...
His Saturn in Taurus conj my Mars (orb 2) in my 8th and opp my Moon (orb 6)
My Saturn loosely opp his Mars in Cappy (orb almost 8)

His Mars in Cap (saturn ruled) trine his own Saturn
My Mars in Taurus sext Saturn natally
The sex is pretty good because our Mars are trine, his Mars sextile my Moon and Venus
& his VE/MA midpoint is conjunct both my Moon and Venus.
(but if we fight or get off track, yes, the sex can definitely suffer!)

His Saturn is also inconjunct my Sun
My Saturn is also square his Sun/Moon MP (also conj my ASC, Sun/Pluto)
my Saturn square his Chiron
Pretty sure my Saturn sextile his ASC.
Our saturns are sextile (orb 2)

I do feel loyal to him and feel like I could easily commit. And I think the Mars/Saturn connection does help with sexual fidelity. (Mars in Taurus can be a bit of a pleasure-lovin' ho' - lol!!!) His Jupiter/Sun conjunction in Libra is in my first house which I think helps to offset the Saturn and we have some quirky Uranian aspects for excitement.

When we met, there was insane attraction and then we began bumping heads almost immediately. He wanted to take things more slowly, I wanted to zoom ahead. He was cooling off and originally cutting and critical, I was really eager and frustrated. He wanted to be in control to a ridiculous degree and well...I learned to let him.

At one point, we didn't see each other for several months but we still talked a lot on the phone. In that time, I learned him a lot better and he has really chilled out. These days, our rapport is much better but it hasn't changed our external schedules or his hesitancy completely.

We've been on/off for 9 months. He has been wayyyy more hesitant to get into a full-time relationship buuuut...he doesn't want to let go either.

Also, we have Mars Square Saturn (wide orb of almost 5) which I've heard could be the kiss of death. Both of us are pretty Uranian and that is also reflected in the composite which could be doing it.
We have Mars on DESC square Jupiter (orb 1). Mars also loosely Squares Saturn in 9th getting closer to MC.

What I have noticed in composite with mutual Mars/Saturn aspects is...if you have a conjunction and a square, you'll get trine in the composite.

But...if you have a mars/saturn conjunction and then an opposition, you'll likely get the SQUARE in composite which why...sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't.