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Topic: Mars Cancer and Sensuality/Sexuality!
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Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 12, 2012 10:07 AM
  
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Originally posted by amurr:
The cancer mars men I know purposely want to degrade and destroy women. As long as one isn't trying to hurt other people or tear them down any sign can be wonderful. I just can't take the hostility. My Cancer Uranus in the 12th wont accept bigotry so I find it best to go my way.
Well, if you have Cancer Uranus in the 12th, then there's a good chance that someone's Cancer Mars will fall in your 12th in synastry, which could explain your difficulties with them. IP: Logged |
amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 12, 2012 11:38 AM
Its a little more complicated than a 12 house position. They are also doing the same destruction to other women. My position is stop there victimization of women, not that it encourages the problem. I bring to light their attempts of inflicting pain as they do to so many. Once they realize others have feelings and quit reacting to only there own feelings then being around them will be pleasurable. Think before reacting.I'm sorry you are so offended, these are just facts from sources outside yourself. I have my opionion and don't need you to tell me how to think. Moving on.... IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted January 12, 2012 12:24 PM
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amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 12, 2012 02:46 PM
Married to a Cancer 11 years. I understand them well. All signs have positive attributes, I have learned to get to know the negitive side because that will be your challange in the relationship. Have know many Cancer moon people. Good luck to you!IP: Logged |
lu_pirate
Knowflake Posts: 118
From: rio de janeiro
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 12, 2012 02:57 PM
Mars in cancer are more romantic and cute than usual! It's great if you are a girl and he's a boy.Be very caring to him, also he has Cap moon and Cap moons needs lots of attention and to feel important! IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 12, 2012 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by amurr:
I'm sorry you are so offended, these are just facts from sources outside yourself. I have my opionion and don't need you to tell me how to think. Moving on....
 I was just adding my two cents as far as astrologically what could be going on. If you wanna be touchy about it, that's your prerogative. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
Knowflake Posts: 659
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 12, 2012 11:51 PM
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Originally posted by Fondue Knight:
I was just adding my two cents as far as astrologically what could be going on. If you wanna be touchy about it, that's your prerogative.
omfg I LOVE that movie <3
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amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 08:55 AM
Fondue-please just state your premise instead of attacking as "touchy" crabys do. No reason to be deffensive. My statements were confirmation of anothers opinion and didn't have any connection to you. No more fighting, okay Fondue.IP: Logged |
Malena
Knowflake Posts: 237
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 08:57 AM
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Its a little more complicated than a 12 house position. They are also doing the same destruction to other women. My position is stop there victimization of women
How many Cancer Marses are you talking about that do this? Just curious because it's not clear what your sample size is. IP: Logged |
amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 09:32 AM
Three. I am confirming the same thoughts as others on this page.IP: Logged |
amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 09:34 AM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
omfg I LOVE that movie <3
Very dramatic IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 4557
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 09:47 AM
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Originally posted by amurr:
Fondue-please just state your premise instead of attacking as "touchy" crabys do. No reason to be deffensive. My statements were confirmation of anothers opinion and didn't have any connection to you. No more fighting, okay Fondue.
Wow. You definitely are touchy and project your own touchiness to others. This is an astro board. The observation that your 12th house Uranus in Cancer is giving you a hard time is a pretty astute one, and it was not meant to hurt your feelings. IP: Logged |
amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 09:54 AM
anong-can you be more defining in your statements? Wow and you are, reaction words. Or does someone not agreeing with your belief system put you on the deffensive? Please read all comments between Fondue and me before reacting in his deffense instead of jumping on the band wagon midpoint. How do you know what anyone else meant? Why would you jump in on someone else discussion instead of making your own viewpoints known? I can't carry you please make your own conversations. Discrimination in your view point.IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 10:28 AM
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Originally posted by amurr:
Fondue-please just state your premise instead of attacking as "touchy" crabys do. No reason to be deffensive. My statements were confirmation of anothers opinion and didn't have any connection to you. No more fighting, okay Fondue.
Oh man...  Now we're fighting?
I never "told you what to think" as you insinuated above and you are ABSOLUTELY projecting your own touchiness. I made a simple, innocent observation and you twisted it around.  IP: Logged |
amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 10:36 AM
Fondue-get a grip, innocent? are you under 10? Be responsible for your words. LOL Move on...I'm not interested debating your need to defend your planetary placements. There are more viewpoints than yours and I was connecting with others who shared the same view. Keeping your view point is fine, but trying to push me to accept yours is not sound. Yes, you come off as fighting. Peace be with you and good luck.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 139330
From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate.
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 13, 2012 02:11 PM
Amurr, I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you are not trying to be insulting. Perhaps, you don't realize that you come off as very abrasive. Please, kindly refrain from putting down others while expressing your opinion. We don't all have to agree, but we do all have to be respectful. IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
Knowflake Posts: 659
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 02:27 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Amurr, I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you are not trying to be insulting. Perhaps, you don't realize that you come off as very abrasive. Please, kindly refrain from putting down others while expressing your opnion. We don't all have to agree, but we do all have to be respectful.
I agree. aaaaaand with that, let's get back on topic  . Interestingly, I went on a date last night, but it was pretty uneventful. Within 2 minutes I figured out that this guy was a bad match for me. Way too passive and introverted. What was interesting though is I learned that he has mars in cancer like I do. I have noticed that individuals with a water sign mars are usually a pretty bad mix with me. Even though it should form a trine in a number of cases. ------------------
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amurr
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: Bakersfield, Ca
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 13, 2012 04:19 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Amurr, I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt that you are not trying to be insulting. Perhaps, you don't realize that you come off as very abrasive. Please, kindly refrain from putting down others while expressing your opinion. We don't all have to agree, but we do all have to be respectful.
Randell-Mr Fondue was abrasive to begin with, and if he can only understand this way of speaking then I apoligized him. Nor would he let me have my opinion. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 139330
From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate.
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posted January 13, 2012 04:50 PM
As a neutral third party looking in from the outside, it appears to me that you are the abrasive one. We have rules you agreed upon when signing up. You can feel free to express yourself, but not by putting down others when doing so. IP: Logged |
Fondue Knight
Knowflake Posts: 819
From: NY
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 13, 2012 06:49 PM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I agree.aaaaaand with that, let's get back on topic . Interestingly, I went on a date last night, but it was pretty uneventful. Within 2 minutes I figured out that this guy was a bad match for me. Way too passive and introverted. What was interesting though is I learned that he has mars in cancer like I do. I have noticed that individuals with a water sign mars are usually a pretty bad mix with me. Even though it should form a trine in a number of cases.
I agree with the water sign mars, except I haven't ever dated a Scorpio or Pisces Mars. Mars in Cancer is just too similar, in my experience. I think an Earth or Fire Mars would be a good fit. My Mars conjuncts my Sun, so that adds some fire to my disposition (plus fire ASC) and I think the Earth Mars would be steady enough to handle my flights of fancy. IP: Logged |
anongrl10
Knowflake Posts: 4557
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 14, 2012 04:31 AM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I agree.aaaaaand with that, let's get back on topic . Interestingly, I went on a date last night, but it was pretty uneventful. Within 2 minutes I figured out that this guy was a bad match for me. Way too passive and introverted. What was interesting though is I learned that he has mars in cancer like I do. I have noticed that individuals with a water sign mars are usually a pretty bad mix with me. Even though it should form a trine in a number of cases.
Sorry your date was "uneventful". Some times people are very different when shy or nervous. I hope you allowed for that as well.
I'll be seeing a Mars in Cancer guy and wonder if his Mars will come across as passive. Although so far, he seems to want me to arrange the date.... IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
Knowflake Posts: 1769
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 27, 2012 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by Alia:
cryptic and evasive personality
unstable emotionally
deeply spiritual and aware of connections
very oral indeed
very sexual breasts fixation homebodies manipulative truth hiders poets musicians talented souls but they ll drive u crazy
That was spot on and I mean exactly what I went through with a man with mars in cancer... But he was more into bottoms than breast, unless he was hiding that from me. And no, I don't have a huge bottom....lol
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Dreaming111
Knowflake Posts: 1769
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posted June 27, 2012 11:29 PM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I hate being a mars in cancer!!! I really can't stand it. It is the core source of weaknesses that I have in my chart, and it ****** me off so much. I try EXTREMELY hard to push past my mars issues, and it's so hard to do. I've pushed myself to near insanity a few years ago cause of it (and I mean insanity in the literal, medical sense of the word). It makes me very very fearful in relationships. Afraid I am doing something wrong is the biggest thing. I have been obsessive in the past about not being able to do exactly what my partner wants, but being unable to ask. It makes my emotions feel weak, squishy, meek, etc. It makes it extremely hard to initate anything physical, and when it is done it's super clunky/awkward. Physical action is very hard for me, because I don't know what I am doing.
I have gotten around MANY issues associated with my mars, but some still persist. In a relationship I am super attentive to my partners needs, the biggest road block for me is self-confidance. I have made huge strides in having confidance, but first, I need to find the right guy to put it to the test.
Rest assured, I REFUSE to let weaknesses bring me down, but it's extremely hard to do and I can overcompensate if I am not careful. I'm beyond obsessive about self improvement, I MUST do it at all times. So if I become aware of a problem in myself, it is worked on in full force.
Being awkward and clumsy is cute...
I think you need to let people know that and just relax about it. Because I know my guy was a bit of a um...dumb dumb. lol He was really sweet about various things but the biggest issue I had was his lack of honesty, with himself and I. Also, I think that stems from the fact he never wanted to let me down, but wanted to do his things on the sly. I didn't appreciate that. I really didn't. To avoid and issue because I wouldn't like it only to make me feel betrayed later. I did notice a vulnerability in him and that's what made me fall for him to begin with, so I don't think a few weaknesses are a bad thing. At the end of the day we are all flawed. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted June 27, 2012 11:30 PM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I do make the best of it. It's definitely a combination of things I do know that. The oppositions to my mars is what makes it nasty in the end. There is 0 and 1 orb for them as well so it's really strongly felt. I have to force myself to keep going and get started but I have learned over time. I'm also just spouting off my pluto here too. It doesn't like weaknesses in me, heh. In the end I just am a perfectionist who strives to be perfect (I know I'll never get there), and I get my undies in a bunch when I see a problem but can't do a thing about it.
Also about the sexual issues, You have a lot going on with your 8th house. I don't know that it is all tied down to mars in cancer. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted June 27, 2012 11:35 PM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
Mars in Cancer Men are Sexy.I have a lot of love and respect for this placement in Men.They are gentlemen and you can spot one from the following traits:
He watches you with those eyes that pull you in like the ocean(he prob has beautiful eyes). If he loves you, he will take care of you better than anyone, even your mother!
He seduces you with his humble sensuality and making love is a healing expereince with him. He is protective and warm.I am a Cancer Moon,Mars so i dont know if this is the reason I love this mars placement but they deff understand me better than anyone. Heres another thread on this, might help you  http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002434.html
Initially that's how it was. He had beautiful eyes, and I felt like he loved me with such warmth and care, like a mother. I felt healed and happy. But isn't that the case for most neptunian loves? But yeah I can see this aspect in him as well. Unfortunately it didnt last long. IP: Logged |
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