posted October 27, 2015 06:06 PM            

So you mean the whole finger thing is complementary to astrological placement?

posted October 27, 2015 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
^^^^ one hand is equal length and one hand has index finger being longer. (I forgot to look at the othe hand #AriesMoonProblem)

So you mean the whole finger thing is complementary to astrological placement?

I see

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I figured. When one hand is of equal length the other hand is of either longer ring finger or longer index finger.

Either way, you say you're quite aggressive? If you don't mind me asking, i assume this means in matters of the bedroom (considering the thread?)

posted October 27, 2015 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I figured. When one hand is of equal length the other hand is of either longer ring finger or longer index finger.

Either way, you say you're quite aggressive? If you don't mind me asking, i assume this means in matters of the bedroom (considering the thread?)

All due respect but haven't you stated in a thread last year that you haven't had a relationship that lasted longer than 3 days?

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Lol. How do you remember these things?

By aggressive I mean daily matters. Just like all Cap Mars I'm very workaholic and not promiscuous. But I do think if I'm quite aggressive in all life matters. I don't think there's a difference for me.

posted October 27, 2015 08:22 PM              

it wouldn't affect your sex drive now

so when you were in the womb there were higher levels of testosterone which can result in the women having a shorter index than ring.

posted October 27, 2015 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by sarahhm:
the ring finger is just during development in the womb

it wouldn't affect your sex drive now

so when you were in the womb there were higher levels of testosterone which can result in the women having a shorter index than ring.

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I read that when women are exposed to prenatal testosterone in the womb, they show alot more confidence, aggressive behavior, and risk taking as children and adults.

posted October 27, 2015 08:44 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I read that when women are exposed to prenatal testosterone in the womb, they show alot more confidence, aggressive behavior, and risk taking as children and adults.

All of those components are related to our Mars sign, our drive. I believe that if you have the longer ring finger, your Mars sign and its aggressiveness shows prominently.

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posted October 27, 2015 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by sarahhm:
really? i'm probably odd one out then. not the highest sex drive, not that much confidence tbh and definitely don't do anything risky or agressive. mars in virgo though. and my index is nearly 3 cm shorter than my ring

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Interesting. What are your aspects to your Virgo Mars?

posted October 27, 2015 08:56 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Interesting. What are your aspects to your Virgo Mars?

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posted October 27, 2015 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by sarahhm:
ascendant square mars
sun trine mars
moon trine mars
mercury sesquiquadrate mars
venus square mars
jupiter square mars
saturn opposition mars
uranus biquintile mars
pluto square mars

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Well i would have to see the rest of your chart. Do you have a Moon/Saturn aspect?

I also see from the aspects you stated you have mars square pluto. So that most likely means you are from the Sag pluto generation, which means....you are very young lol. You most likely haven't tapped into your Mars potential yet!

posted October 27, 2015 09:18 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Well i would have to see the rest of your chart. Do you have a Moon/Saturn aspect?

I also see from the aspects you stated you have mars square pluto. So that most likely means you are from the Sag pluto generation, which means....you are very young lol. You most likely haven't tapped into your Mars potential yet!

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i have moon sextile saturn

posted October 27, 2015 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by sarahhm:
i have moon sextile saturn

i think i have i just don't do it outwardly. i rather keep my head down and work like hell and pull the strings behind the scenes and being more.. outward because in the end if things go wrong no one will point fingers at me.. i'm also very plutonian so it might have something do with it

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posted October 27, 2015 10:07 PM              

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Sounds like you may have some 12th house placements. Working behind the scenes sounds like Jupiter in the 12th but i could be wrong.

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posted October 27, 2015 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by sarahhm:
empty 12th house. stellium in 9th and 6th house and i have sun and moon in the 8th, mars is in my 4th house

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posted October 06, 2016 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by cherle:
Avoid. Avoid. Avoid. All that Mars energy turned inwards under the Crab sign in not inclined produce good results in a male psyche, especially if the Mars also falls in an inward-moving house.

Think: Passive-aggressive. Cannot communicate directly. So overwhelmed with their own emotions that they can't think straight about anything. Prone to being sexually neurotic, and not in good ways. Highly sensitive to bad experiences, may have had a trauma in the past that deeply wounded their sexuality and would take decodes of therapy to heal (but of course, they won't go to therapy because they are deeply crippled by their shame and guilt). Cries a lot, emotionally manipulative, psychic vampiric. So consumed with their own emotions that your emotions will send them into a downward spiral, dragging you with him, so you learn quickly to censor your own feeling to make room for his and only his.

In summary: A Cancer Mars man is an endless well of neediness, sexually and psychologically, so they aren't that good at reciprocating and being attentive to your needs. Or more to the point, he's an unsatisfiable parasite that will suck you dry, and then go running to Mommy weeping with snotty tears that you don't love him anymore.

If you're into that, go for it. I'm not. I dated three Cancer Mars men. One of them I was engaged to.

Of course, I'm being excessive and biased, but all of these things are true of the Cancer Mars men Ive dated.

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This is soooooooooooooo 100% accurate having just broken up with a mars in Cancer man. It was horrible. I feel drained and am now recovering in bed.

And yes, he lived with his momma. And yes she cooked and did everything for him. He would tell me she would clean his clothes after he left my place with a lint brush to get rid of all the cat hair and just shake her head, disapprovingly.
That should have been a red flag.

Also the worst kisser ever. Maybe it was just this one but it was just a sloppy mess I felt like my face was being eaten and drooled all over. Like I was being water boarded.

I didn't start out a believer in astrology, mostly I don't pay attention to these things but sometimes its too much to be a coincidence.

posted October 06, 2016 01:44 PM            

I had an amazing and very intimate sexual experience with a Mars in Cancer that happened (quite literally) on the same day that we met.

Afterwards however he shut down completely and sort of played the 'Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde' thing by building many walls and being overly defensive

My initial response was always to be patient and understanding because I was like, "wait. I am Cancer Moon myself with Mars squaring it. Trust me. Because I get where all of that is coming from" etc.

But he just didn't want to let me in no matter the attempts I made to reach out. And I tried plenty until I decided that I had to set him free.

It was a pity though because years later,he did say we would have made a wonderful couple.But i felt like he was trying to reel me back in emotionally(which he was really an expert at doing)

He had babies and got married to a Mars in Virgo. And when we saw each other again, the sexual tension was so huge

I agree that it can be a tormented position. But it is not 'beyond help' and possibly may need an extra layer of coaching and understanding. Especially if there are challenging aspects to it.

posted October 06, 2016 09:11 PM            

He is a total mommas boy. Lives with her even though he has his own separate home. She feeds him, washes and buys his clothes and does all the cleaning.

He's almost 40.

His cancer mars is part of a t-square involving Pluto and his moon. Oh boy.

It's also part of his grand trine with Uranus and sun.

I have cancer ascendant and Scorpio moon. I accept him as he is, BUT I do want him to give to me the same protection/security/admiration that he gives to his mom. He has trouble with that.

posted October 06, 2016 11:40 PM            

I don't know how his wife sees it, but she seems fine with it. Maybe it's because he's a devoted father to their children. And my cousin and his wife joined in laughing at my discomfort when they got me to watch one of the Jackass movies (it was a drinking game, any time I shut my eyes or ears or left then I had to take a shot of whiskey), so if he and his wife could both laugh at me at my expense then surely he can join with her against other family members, like his mother that he has stood up to for my sake. ('Course to do it just for the hell of it doesn't sound like something he'd do, but then neither would I.)

posted October 07, 2016 12:09 AM            

In bed, they are very giving and love to please. They like the girl on top, and are sort of submissive but not into bdsm or pain. They make making love feel like an all encompassing experience.

If you get a mature mars in Cancer with other balancing aspects it can make for a wonderful and loving person.

posted October 07, 2016 11:28 AM            

Funnily enough, is it a cancer Mars men thing that they still live with their mom (until they get married)? Living proof is my brother (because he wants to help family business), and my bf too (because he is so dependent to his mom for money/security and afraid to live alone - unless there are some woman in his life that he can escape to her house to sleep).

Both my mom and my brother have Mars in cancer. As my brother, he has Moon in Capricorn and Venus in Virgo, he is a mature and grounded Cancer Mars man and loyal, but sometimes I feel bad for him as I adore Leo sun men, that he's still single at his mid 30s because he's in search for perfect woman. lol.

posted October 07, 2016 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
I've been dating my cancer mars man for almost 2 years now and I live with him so I know every little quirk.
Yes they hold things in until they explode unexpectedly. Yes they love their mom's. But they also love to cook, cuddle and nurture. I feel so loved when he wraps me up in his arms. He's very protective of me and his loved ones. He doesn't lose his temper at people a lot, but if it involves his loved ones he will take a person down.
Yes his temper does sometimes get the best of him, but he is a very loving person.

In bed, they are very giving and love to please. They like the girl on top, and are sort of submissive but not into bdsm or pain. They make making love feel like an all encompassing experience.

If you get a mature mars in Cancer with other balancing aspects it can make for a wonderful and loving person.

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Mine doesn't cook at all. Yes, he likes to cuddle...lol. Very submissive and totally into bdsm. Which is all fine by me.