posted October 09, 2016 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I always wonder what they are like in bed! I get the vibe that they very careful and have their own way, and yes, definitely a natural initiative and with a certain cruelty which my submissive cancer side very much admires!

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Not necessarily so. Cappie Mars can give off that vibe, though, even when they're not. Dirty, rough, even crude, yes, but not automatically domineering or cruel (at least not a one-sided cruelty). Though the Cappie Mars I knew well (and who I knew a lot about his sex life over) was a Libra sun, Pisces moon (offhand I forget the other placements), and perhaps a different sun and moon sign would make someone different (or someone less evolved). As for him, he was annoyed when certain women were drawn to him assuming he would be violent and menacing towards them, though he was also annoyed with women who were fragile, squeamish princesses, too. He liked his women tough (since this word will be understood very differently by many people, I'll add that in more she can take life as it is, speak plainly rather than manipulatively and want to be spoken to plainly, and can stand up for herself), and it wasn't about submission of either one (save at moments), but more about give and take in a dirty, vulgar way.

Though come to think of it...of all the Libra suns (including myself) I know, in which I have some knowledge of their romantic and sex lives, not a one of them was into the classic lovemaking as they're portrayed to be (though there are other factors in all of them, like that guy with the Cappie mars, a Scorpio dominant woman, and myself with my 5H Sag stellium that also has Eros, etc). I believe someone I know with a Libra moon + Mars is, unless she has a very different side in bed (but then many, perhaps even most, people are different behind closed doors), but then she's a Cancer sun, and Cancers do strike me as the actual romantics of the zodiac, at least those I've known (though I've heard of and interacted with Cancers online who don't fit that mould). (I could add that I don't know any Pisces moons who needed it romantic and gentle, but the stereotype of being somewhat self-sacrificing seems to be true...until they give up too much and swim away to find themselves again.)

posted October 10, 2016 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Not necessarily so. Cappie Mars can give off that vibe, though, even when they're not. Dirty, rough, even crude, yes, but not automatically domineering or cruel (at least not a one-sided cruelty). Though the Cappie Mars I knew well (and who I knew a lot about his sex life over) was a Libra sun, Pisces moon (offhand I forget the other placements), and perhaps a different sun and moon sign would make someone different (or someone less evolved). As for him, he was annoyed when certain women were drawn to him assuming he would be violent and menacing towards them, though he was also annoyed with women who were fragile, squeamish princesses, too. He liked his women tough (since this word will be understood very differently by many people, I'll add that in more she can take life as it is, speak plainly rather than manipulatively and want to be spoken to plainly, and can stand up for herself), and it wasn't about submission of either one (save at moments), but more about give and take in a dirty, vulgar way.

Though come to think of it...of all the Libra suns (including myself) I know, in which I have some knowledge of their romantic and sex lives, not a one of them was into the classic lovemaking as they're portrayed to be (though there are other factors in all of them, like that guy with the Cappie mars, a Scorpio dominant woman, and myself with my 5H Sag stellium that also has Eros, etc). I believe someone I know with a Libra moon + Mars is, unless she has a very different side in bed (but then many, perhaps even most, people are different behind closed doors), but then she's a Cancer sun, and Cancers do strike me as the actual romantics of the zodiac, at least those I've known (though I've heard of and interacted with Cancers online who don't fit that mould). (I could add that I don't know any Pisces moons who needed it romantic and gentle, but the stereotype of being somewhat self-sacrificing seems to be true...until they give up too much and swim away to find themselves again.)

Course houses and aspects matter. I'm sure a much more materialistic Cappie Mars (as opposed to the mystical one I knew), say maybe a Taurus sun and Scorpio moon instead, could be a lot more forceful and cruel, especially if he "kept" her (that is, bought her things, was essentially her daddy, etc), perhaps seeing it as providing material security for emotional/sexual security. Just speculating here.

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thank you for sharing your personal experience. I am getting a better idea about cappy mars.

I agree with you that the different aspects a person's sun or mars makes surely makes them different in their styles, although they may all initially seem similar. one cappy mars I know closely has her mars (which is retrograde by the way) square her libra moon/venus conjunction. maybe that's why she gives off this cruel vibe. she's a leo sun. she's a very successful person, and one of those who can easily make her dreams come true. very spiritual and artistic too.

posted October 11, 2016 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
Ime, very emtional and goes through things with emotional sensitivity. They also had mars and venus in Cancer but underneath all that you will find a very careing person, kust try to overlook the moods and be sensitive to thier emotions. Your moods will have an effect on them so screen your moods. Very sensual when it comes to the bedroom if you like the feel of being close almost protective kinda style to love making. I could always see his eyes light up and he loved attention. Hope this helps!

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I agree.. Most guys would be embarrassed to admit, but thats why I love cats especially when you have those days where purring and/or cuddle sessions can go a long way.

Nothing beats a protective cat that understands your moods.

posted October 12, 2016 07:38 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
I will delete the portion above if you don't feel comfortable with me quoting it.

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posted October 12, 2016 01:07 PM            

Your wish is my command..

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

posted March 02, 2021 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by glamgem25:
I don't know about the Aries mars being aggressive....been with a aries venus/mars on and off for 11 years and there is not aggressiveness there at all sexually or any other way! Very laid back kind of guy!

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