posted June 11, 2010 04:28 PM         

I know that someone's planets falling in my 4th house, do feel good to me - at least when it comes to those like Venus and Jupiter. I'm now thinking about the 6th house, and trying to remember whose planets fall in my 6th, and vice versa.

I found this post from Zala, quoting Steven Forrest:

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To me, in the realities of the astrological counselling room, there are
two immutable premises:

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently sweet that enough selfishness, confusion about sex, or
immaturity cannot turn it sour.

There is no manner of astrological interaction between two people that
is so inherently bitter that enough patience, devotion, and humility can
not only make it last, but make it something precious to both people.

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posted June 11, 2010 04:32 PM         

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I'm not getting defensive; I just don't like black and white interpretations.

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posted June 11, 2010 04:33 PM         

Where there is darkness there's light that kind of thing..

Im very nonchalant about this because I have been used and have used..such is life.

My Aries friand as not used me..overworked me..hell yes lol.

posted June 11, 2010 04:42 PM         

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My partner and I have Our Sun,Mercury,Mars,Jupiter and Chiron all in the sixth house. Whats more is that we have a very beautiful, romantic, exciting and honest relationship that is now 4 years going strong.

OK. The 6th house is not just 'responisibility, work, service, daily duties etc' it has much deeper meanings too that often get overlooked. The 6th house is these things also, yes, and things can be exactly what the two people may need. And if they can come together in a relationship where all of a sudden they feel like they are connected to the real world, in the here and now of so called 'boring everyday life' where they can do lovely amazing simple daily things together then that is brilliant! To take joy in the simple things in life is perhaps the greatest thing you can do.

For me i have not a speck of earth in my chart and Danny is completly out of touch with reality in his own ways (saturn 12th..theres more). So our strong 6th house is GREAT.

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posted June 11, 2010 05:21 PM         

There's some bad too though, just like with any house. For the 6th, besides the house person feeling exploited, they can also feel like they're in the shadow of the planet person. Like they're permanently stuck in "supporting role" and the planet person is the "star."

The latter is how my sister experiences my Sun-Neptune cnj in her 6th house. But we have a lot going on in synastry to create that feeling on her part, and she has her own issues natally.

Focusing on the 6th, she puts her SN-Chiron cnj in my 6th house. All my life I was aware that she needed me as a security blanket. Even though I'm the younger one, she always looked up to me. I didn't realize she was building up an inferiority complex and harboring envious feelings until I was in my late teens and some of it started seeping out.

It hurt me really bad and seemed so unfair: I was devoted to helping her grow and feel happy (her SN-Chiron in my 6th house), and she resented me bc she leaned on me and idealized me (my Sun-Neptune in her 6th house). For a long time I felt guilty but now it mainly p1sses me off.

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posted June 11, 2010 06:05 PM         

In my experience, people in my 6th house are usually touching my Mercury, Chiron, Juno, or Valentine...and it's in Cancer too so perhaps that colors things a bit. I find planet person to be healing, but I'm not entirely sure what effect I have on them.

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BM, maybe since your moon is in Virgo then the 6th is more comfortable to you. There's maybe an attention to detail which you like.

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Yeah, I do feel like people with planets are alot more attentive, and in the little ways that count.

The only person I've ever felt taken advantage by in the past didn't have any planets falling in my 6th, though we do share a moon conjunction in Virgo. For now it just seems that she got too comfortable because of the conjunction, but I'll have to look at house overlays later.

posted June 11, 2010 06:13 PM         

I don't feel comfortable going into more, but meeting him was a real turning point for me, in a good way (for the most part).

posted June 11, 2010 06:34 PM         

I think that the real way to live life is to let go and let God and that is a test for all of us. It has been said that astrology can only be fought when we allow ourselves to experience God pure and simple; that is when we will truly know in our hearts if someone is right for us and whatnot. I'm struggling with this but I have always had one constant in my life and that is love. There is only so much astrology can give us. We need the light of God much, much more.

Imagine that freedom for a sec.

posted June 11, 2010 06:57 PM         

He is definitely healing my Mars (energy-level) by his Venus (love), it's not a big sexual attraction (in fact; not at all!) but more a body healing by those genuinely touching moments which give me EXACTLY what my "destroyed" body needs.
Ofcourse I can't exclude the sex because that also is a healing thing which gives my body the food to go on..

posted June 11, 2010 07:05 PM         

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Thanks for all the positive replys everyone. The one thing I don't like about astrology is how much people think things are either yes or no, good or bad etc.

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Well, from your above statement, you think it's black or white: It can ONLY be good or it's 'black or white" to you. You asked for 6th house synastry interpretations and people gave them to you, but you only want the good interpretations. You are actually very black or white.

You are actually acting out exactly what you are accusing others of -- take a real look at your above post and then read what you wrote about people saying anything but good things about the 6th house and you will fit exactly what you are rallying against. So hypocritical and absurd.

posted June 11, 2010 07:08 PM         

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Diana.

Shut up.

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Excuse me?!