posted June 11, 2010 08:27 PM         

Maybe you can relate to that side of the 6th house Rasberri, judging by how much this acute observation from Diana has made you appear pretty defensive?

posted June 11, 2010 08:31 PM         

I just am not being used so you understand why I was skeptical, ya kno.

posted June 11, 2010 08:53 PM         

Sometimes we do generalise, ya know. I never said YOU in my own realisation through Diana's observation. I simply agreed with her so take a chill pill...

posted June 11, 2010 09:36 PM         

I just wanted to clartify this wasn't a personal experience of mine.
Not saying it makes my views better, just clarifying.

posted June 11, 2010 11:49 PM         

Doesn't that just sound more 8th house then 6th house though, dealing with other people's resources..?

Don't you ever feel used or felt like using the sign on your 8th house?

posted June 12, 2010 01:30 AM         

You have no idea how much this resonates with me. My Venus - chart ruler - is at the end on my boyfriend's 6th (while my Mars is in his 12th) - he heals a lot of my wounds just through even day to day little things, trust, etc.

posted June 12, 2010 06:37 PM         

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Anyway, I call it the house of energy exchanges and experiences. You're actively learning and engaged with life and others with this house.

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That's so very well said. With him, venus/mercury in my 6th, it's like if that/my old familiar pattern/emotion of running away when things become somewhat difficult haven't got a chance anymore.
As if for the first time you feel a responsibility for another that can't be denied.

posted June 12, 2010 10:46 PM         

I just got back from a very long, tiresome trip that allowed me very little computer time.
There's no reason to be snippy with each other, and Lara if you have a problem, whether it has anything to do with this thread or not, You can talk to me, either on the boards or privately and I will do my best, but in the meantime please, PLEASE try not to take it out on others, this goes for everybody, ok?

Can we do that?

posted June 13, 2010 03:19 PM         

I feel like I can't read charts here without people freaking out or projecting. Not necessarily the person whose chart i read, but sometimes someone else just reading the thread freaks out.

I don't know if anyone has noticed, but I haven't done a chart reading in depth here in a long long time. I'm afraid to. I feel I'm walking on eggshells regarding readings.

The way I was treated in this thread was RIDICULOUS. I did absolutely nothing wrong. I initially said "sometimes." Then, after people got huffy, I clarified it, but it was like I never even did so, because people just continued to act as if I never clarified what I meant. I can't believe no one thinks some of the people who were outraged at the people with less than glorious reviews weren't rude and can't see they were out of line. Raspberri was so rude to anyone who had a different view than hers and I seriously cannot believe no one said anything. I feel like I am living in the midst of some weird social insanity here. Anyway, it doesn't matter.

I've been feeling this way for a bit now. I've started to post somewhere else and I gave a reading without feeling like I had to be very careful about what I was saying and I was shocked to find out the person was thrilled that I could nail a pattern they had, but didn't realize until I pointed it out. They said I really helped them. I was so humbled and was glad to know that. Here, I would've been yelled at. I was actually scared they were going to yell at me when they responded even though what I wrote was not at all rude or inappropriate. I feel this thread is a metaphor for how I've been feeling for a bit and why I haven't been doing readings. It's a real problem for me that I feel that way and this thread was just a catalyst for me to finally do something about it.