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Topic: Venus opposition Neptune (or other..)
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Dy-na-mi-tee Knowflake Posts: 238 From: Cloud 22, Jupiter Ave, Lalaland Registered: Jun 2010
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posted June 27, 2010 09:29 PM
I'm curious about Venus-Neptune aspects in synastry. It doesn't have to be the opposition necessarily. My uncle and his fiance have this aspect. They drifted apart this year and have now separated. I have a feeling this aspect is at least a "little" responsible for the problems. Tell me your story if you like. Who was Venus? Who was Neptune? How did this play out for you? Thank you!! IP: Logged |
seeleah Knowflake Posts: 92 From: kokomo, IN, USA Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 27, 2010 11:43 PM
well I naturally in my chart have a venus opp neptune and of course, I draw alot of that in my love relationships..I have a tendency of putting the men I love on petalstools, and then find myself disappointed later. this happened with me and my ex, so when I saw that with me and my bf, I took the advice, try not to do that! in the charts with both of them, I am the venus they are the neptune but again, I also have it in my natal chart too.I will say..when I fall in love...ooooh boy...it's intense it really is the agony and extasty as someone put it. IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1882 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 28, 2010 07:45 AM
This is different but related to Neptune so can help explain the Neptune side, anyway. My friend has his Neptune on my ASC. He has always seen me through rose colored glasses. It is like Don Quioxite. I feel like I can do no wrong in his eyes. I can be annoying,etc and he still sees me the same way. When I did the charts and saw the Neptune there, I realized the power of Neptune. Now, I wonder, as you were saying Dyn, what would happen if it were in a marriage. Would the Neptune wear off  Ami
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Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1882 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 28, 2010 08:21 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzFuL_RteXc This seems like a Neptune/Venus song. Ami IP: Logged |
soulful122 Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Registered: Jan 2010
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posted June 28, 2010 11:30 AM
Dy-na, I have the conjunction with my bf. My Venus is in the late degrees of Scorpio and his Neptune is in the early degrees of Sag, close enough to make a conjunction. His Neptune is on my Merc & Saturn also, and trines my Moon. We also have a few Neptune aspects in our composite so I'm not sure if I can distinguish what from what. For me, I feel like I'm just really accepting of him and his faults. I adore him most of the time and can sense what he feels/thinks/wants, when he's upset or happy etc. We're in tune to each others' feelings. Me more so than him I think lol. We also have a tendency to call/text each other the SAME time when we're apart.IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1882 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 28, 2010 03:22 PM
I found it on a discussion board. It is about Neptune and Venus in synastry. quote: gosh i think i may just have had a revelation!since our experiences were SO similar and we were all the venus people with close conjunctions (ours is a 2 deg orb), i'm feeling there may be something to this. tell me what you think. you guys also experienced a high level of unspokenness, but that it felt completely real and deep, but yet nebulous and with this aura of fear and confusion at the same time, and also, later wondered if those feelings were all fantasy. that was a large part of my experience too. well i am a pisces SN, living on my neptune line, my previous ex was a pisces and so is my father, and i just had pluto transit my 12th (which also contains neptune) for about 10 years. so i feel pretty confident i understand pisces/neptunian energy. well, as much as it CAN be understood. haha. i'm 99.9% sure that my boyfriend and i were just SYNCHED, telepathically. SO many confirmations of this, but so few that were verbal. it is like we are on the same freaking wave length and it's like we're sharing this mental space and just KNOW what the other is feeling/thinking and it just somehow FITS. it's so hard to understand or discuss, though, but it is powerful! how could that not feel 'fated' and 'meant to be'? even now when we hang out, almost a month since our breakup (probably 6 times since) we've experienced this, and i know it weirds us both out. well for me, it exhilerates, for him, i'm not sure, but i think it freaks him out (because he is determined to not believe in anything metaphysical), while at the same time, i don't think he can argue with what is so evidently happening, but darn it, he tries! so here's my theory: we LOVE this experience.. cuz our venus is activated. and it just feels right. but i think for them, we fully activate their neptunes (which normally they can keep tucked away, if they so chose) and it is an energy that is at once powerful, psychic, confusing, disorienting, all-consuming and completely dissolves their egos. they feel the oneness and the merging of their souls to ours, and here we are LOVING them, but they are in this precarious mix of neptunian energies that feel both totally immersing and amazing, and yet also scary as pies falling from the sky! it's like WHAT THE..?? so the experience is real alright, but the intensity of both their ego dissolution AND our love for them AND the high degree of unspoken psychic bond just freaks them right out! it's like we SEE their SOUL, and somehow we are synched up to it completely and we LOVE it (ALL of it, including the dark parts!), so there is immense love, vulnerability and it's the REALEST of real experiences. but it is we who consistently feels the love, and also feels the aches and woes and pains (as well as the immense beauty) of their souls, while for them it's more a trip of a lifetime. we BRING them love, but it seems we give them a choice with this clear-seeing love: to either let go into it completely and accept the incredibly profound bond, or to cling to their egos/boundaries tighter and run far away, cuz it freaks them out!
Ami
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vertiver Knowflake Posts: 583 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 12:02 AM
I seem to keep getting drawn to those whose Neptune opposes my Venus, so Neptune in late Sag. which is anyone born in the early 80's, alas I was born in the late 80's! I think it really emphasizes the delusional side of love, and remember that alcohol is ruled by Neptune, so the Venus person tends to over indulge in Neptunian things, such as alchohol and self-sacrifice. If natal Venus is already afflicated than the more negative traits of Neptune will be more promient. This aspect can also signify a spiritual connection, but it takes years to master Neptunian energy for ones benefit. IP: Logged |
DD Knowflake Posts: 4774 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 09:19 AM
I was thinking that maybe the Venus person wants a more personal exchange and the Neptune person a more spiritual connection? Even though things can easily get mixed up, and I think fascination, love and affection and telepathy may be there on both sides. I also think the fact that I am constantly dreaming of Jude Law (not big dreams, and mostly I am annoyed for having had to dream of him in the first place), may be signified astrologically by the Neptune placements: His Neptune is conjunct my ASC and Mars my Neptune is conjunct his ASC and Venus. Nuff said.
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angel100 Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Ireland Registered: Nov 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 11:17 AM
Would having someone's neptune tightly square your venus mean they would be dishonest with you and likely to cheat?IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 1147 From: Ohio Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 11:22 AM
I have my Neptune square someone's Venus, and I was the more honest one - as far as I can tell. IP: Logged |
LanaofAugust Knowflake Posts: 102 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 11:47 AM
I have Venus square Neptune DOUBLE WHAMMY (exact) with my man.We've known each other for 18 years and there has not been dishonesty between us. We are both very frank and value honesty. However, there has been quite a lot of confusion, which it's slowly but surely diminishing... IP: Logged |
Ami Ann Knowflake Posts: 1882 From: US Registered: Dec 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 01:11 PM
Dear Lana Could you explain this part of your relationship in more detail so I can get a sense of the practical workings . Thanks so much. Ami
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angel100 Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Ireland Registered: Nov 2009
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posted June 29, 2010 03:03 PM
Lana, I too am intrigued with this venus neptune square DW that you share with your man? IP: Logged |
LanaofAugust Knowflake Posts: 102 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 30, 2010 01:26 AM
Edited.When you ask for info, try to be polite and reply back. IP: Logged | |