posted June 30, 2010 05:52 PM         

He has Venus in Pisces and Mars in Cancer. No offense to anyone with these placements, but I don't think those people have any idea what they want! It floored me. He had given me every physical indication that he found me attractive, yet told me otherwise. His Mars is conjunct my Moon and ASC...I had a crazy sexual attraction towards him that I refuse to believe he didn't feel too. I just don't see how my feelings could have been so off?? Or maybe they weren't??

posted June 30, 2010 07:00 PM         

1. Words can create distance. Sometimes they prefer to stare.

2. They never miss people "physically" - because they always feel as though you are *there*.

Try not to get too offended about those things.

Also - sex seldom means much...
Unless they have more Aries.

Dino - even if he was attracted.. it wouldn't necessarily play out sexually. Some Pisceans drift away from sex for spiritual reasons. Others drift away from sex because they are afraid of their on pee pee.
I'm perfectly comfortable with the former, and perfectly critical of the latter.

I've said this before though.. with Pisces, more than any other sign..

It's often -- NOT you. It really IS him. (and his psychological issues... it has nothing to do with the synastry you share or anything YOU personally did right or wrong)

posted June 30, 2010 07:11 PM         

I am a confident and blunt woman, but in his presence I often feel like a jittery school girl. However, I LOVE how we get each other.

posted June 30, 2010 08:22 PM         

The disappearing Pisces is a common trait..

Here is how my Pisces experience was..
They just seem to go away for a while, and then come back like nothing.... This is him and his personality...

If he comes back to a ****** off person, thats when he looses all interest.. He wants to be accepted w/o explanation.

He hated answering WHY questions....

My pisces guy, always disappeared but then reappeared.. When he came back I acted like nothing...
He was pretty blown away, and eventually told me thats what he really really likes about me, the fact that I don't trip when he's acting like an ******* ...

This is the he will keep you guessing...

My Pisces hinted to things ALOT... For a Leo women who;s straight out, and says what Im thinking that hinting would just throw me off.... Drove me nuts...

Oh my god he kept telling me one day maybe I can wear my ninja shoes for you....

I was like ok....

posted June 30, 2010 08:45 PM         

I have a lot of Neptune influence, so their drifting does not bother me so much. But for some reason their dishonesty with themselves and others - does.

I find Pisces women more practical than Pisces men. My closest female friend is a Pisces woman and she is extremely honest with me. But maybe it's also a trust thing - because we've known each other for years.

posted June 30, 2010 11:55 PM         

He made no bones about liking me from jump street.
maybe this is where astrology fails, because he is just like all his older brothers who taught him to go for what you want.

But we had a love at first sight thing, so maybe I'm not qualified to really answer in this topic. hmmmm.

posted July 01, 2010 02:01 AM         

Sorry, I'm still a little bitter- can't you tell?? Lol.

posted July 01, 2010 04:16 AM         

"What do you mean they are afraid of their own penis?"

LOL, Oh god, it's true! Dynamitee, you nailed a lot in that one post (no pun intended). The Pisces stellium I am with seems to have trouble finding me "too beautiful" to... ahem. The Freudian psychology is complex and fun for my 8th house Mars to pick at (conjunct his NN).

He has also says he thinks he is a jerk when he does nothing wrong. Then when he does something jerky he doesn't realize it. It's like a fail-safe... at least he said it, at one point.

posted July 01, 2010 05:36 PM         

I guess those small verbal compliments are minor compared to what he does do and say!

posted July 01, 2010 05:45 PM         

I guess it's all good in the end, cos we are who we are, and shouldn't pretend to be something else to get someone to like us. It will only come crashing down in the end.

posted July 01, 2010 06:11 PM         

Bopbop- no offense taken! But since it's brought up, HE actually wasn't a very good kisser. Not to toot my own horn, but my kissing has always received top marks! But yeah, maybe our styles just didn't jive. Who knows!

This is a bit off topic from Pisces men, so lemme know if I should just start my own thread about it- but I was wondering, since my sexual attraction to him was so strong, which I'm sure was because his Mars is conjunct my ASC and Moon, do you think he, the Mars person, felt it to? Or is there one person who feels it stronger sometimes? Maybe because it activated two parts of my chart and not just the one on his? Because honestly, I felt like "if you even look at me I might jump you", and that's kinda rare for me.

posted July 01, 2010 06:18 PM         

Something else I noticed.. Pisceans are initially attracted to strong, self sufficient women. A few of us have Capricorn Moon (or other Cap placements and Aries as well (my sun is Aries). There was another girl on LL -- Venus de Milo who I'm pretty sure also had a Capricorn Moon, and she had similar problems with a Pisces.

For a while the Pisces guy feels safe with these women. He can rely on them for support. Maybe that's a usual pattern with water-earth (pisces-cap) -- mainly when they are both trasnspersonal, so there is basic understanding. Water feels at home with earth.

The problem is - Pisces much prefers playing saviour, to being the one "saved".. Astrologers always refer to Neptune/Pisces placements as having a saviour-victim complex. But it's interesting that many of the Pisces I know strongly want to be the *saviour* - It's a much stronger drive and desire..

In time, they leave the strong self-sufficient woman (even if they care about her) for someone who needs them more.. someone they can save - like the single mother alcoholic-striper.
Even if they are in love with you -- with strong placements like Capricorn and Aries - you inspire in them a feeling that you are actually FINE on your own.. so they're not very worried about you.