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Topic: O... My... stupid retro Venus
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Ami Anne
Knowflake Posts: 1488
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 02:54 AM
 
I did not see your last question about the synastry and looking for each other. I did not look at the synastry. I was thinking about people I bonded with. What drew me ,at first,would still draw me at a later time.
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meta_4
Knowflake Posts: 1039
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 12:32 PM
Lioness,Not to rain on your parade, but his planets are mostly in your dependent houses. He can make you feel very needy, and also ashamed of how clingy you feel. I think that since Venus is in Retro, you need to be asking yourself what went wrong the FIRST time around. Why didn't it last, why did he hurt you, and most importantly HAVE THESE THINGS CHANGED? The Universe may be testing you, trying to decipher if you (maybe both of you) have learned your lesson. I can see that the Venus/Mars square is TERRIBLY difficult to resist, but try to keep your head on straight for the moment. Don't leap before you look.  IP: Logged |
belgz
Knowflake Posts: 2336
From: Planet love :)
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 13, 2010 05:59 PM
I forgot to come back here but I wanted to tell you something about those transits I mentioned. A person having transit Neptune negatively aspecting Venus will feel very much in love but then they will wake up from the dream in a matter of days and be fine.. But the person living through a transit of Pluto to Venus is a different story because Pluto is destructive and breaks your heart in a much more excruciating way (very much more sadistic) lol. Hopefully you will be okay  IP: Logged |
Lioness
Knowflake Posts: 675
From:
Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 10:33 PM
@meta
Yeah I do understand what u are saying.. Yes the circumstances that caused him to hurt me have changed.. I do feel the excitement being around him, but I do have in the back of my head what he did.. Which has caused me to move very slowly despite venus/mars and venus/uranus.. hehehe..
So far so good (high five)..
I am very leary of him and his intentions,keeping my cancer shell up... We have had some very good conversations though where the truth has come out.. Things I didnt know about then.. He's been confessing his lies.. So I do feel at least maybe some closure will occur.. @belz... I know... Pluto will be sitting there for a while.. I have to believe that everything happens for a reason, and what ever that reason has to be now.. But as I said I am Leary.. Keeping my guard up.
I have kinda been tough with him, letting him know what I dont like,and telling him this action will only push me away.. So its up to u what u want to do with that.. HE said I dont want to push you away... So I have been tough, but honest at the same time.. But than again I have venus sq pluto in my natal,and Pluto in my 7th... so its nothing new... lol.... The thing thats the hardest is he gives me soooooo much attention... You all know it's my weakness.. lol But yes Im sure a lesson.learning experience is in the process.. ESPECIALLY since transit SN conjuncts my Venus and his Sun.. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
Knowflake Posts: 334
From: Colorado Springs, Colorado, USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 13, 2010 11:07 PM
Racole12,I'd take it for a while (Venus in Scorpio, just to see how it feels. IP: Logged |
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