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Topic: Venus-Mars or Venus-Pluto in Synastry
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 34204 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 30, 2010 05:21 PM
Sounds dangerous , Girlfriend  ------------------ If I am not for myself, who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I , Bruh IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 1012 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted April 29, 2012 08:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by oneruledbymars: Interesting...look at the Draconic Chart and see how his natal Saturn interacts with the Composite Chart.Some where there is a connection unless it is that SN of his but I feel like there is something going on with his Saturn as well.
Aha! Finally someone mentioned the draconic charts!! lol I'm not completely understanding what they r all about. I have this aspect -venus conjunct pluto- in synastry with someone (double whammy too with orbs under 3 for both) but this aspect doesn't show up in the synastry with the tropical charts. What does this mean? I am unable to find anyone who knows about draconic charts.
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neptunicity Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2012 04:45 AM
Pardon me for the ignorance, but what does "DW" mean?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 1988 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 30, 2012 05:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by neptunicity: Pardon me for the ignorance, but what does "DW" mean?
DW = double whammy, when for example your Venus aspects their Pluto and their Venus aspects your Pluto. A connection between two same planets that goes both ways (but not necessarily the same aspect). IP: Logged |
gemisagscorp Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 30, 2012 06:25 AM
I have mars/saturn conjunct his venus/saturn in scorpio 2 within degrees. My pluto conjunct his venus 9 degree so its wide orb.I feel more like a pluto in this and it is way more intense than my exboyfriend who I had a pluto conjunct venus 5 degree.But then I checked our synastry in draconic chart and here my pluto in conjunct his venus exact and his pluto is trine my venus/sun.
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virgogirl Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 06, 2012 12:20 PM
Hope this is the place I'll get my answers...I keep reading about plutonian aspects in synastry and becoming more confusing. Can someone please help me get it right... His pluto in virgo in 7 conjuncts my sun in virgo, his pluto sextile my moon (wide orb ) and squares my mars and neptune. His venus sextile my pluto, his saturn trines my pluto. My ascendant trines his pluto. My pluto is in taurus but also natally I have pluto in 12 house. Intensity is off the charts. We're not a couple- he's married. But it feels like we're drawn to each other and at the same time avoiding close contact. Tension can be cut with knife... We also have venus/mars conjunction in both leo; mars venus opposition; eros/psyche opposition and psyche/eros exact conjunction both in scorpio. Please, I feel like I loose myslef in this connection- feels fated, intense, out of control...thanksIP: Logged |
virgogirl Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 06, 2012 01:17 PM
I messed up. My pluto is in libra. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 1818 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 06, 2012 01:54 PM
I think Venus-Pluto results in a love/hate relationship, whereas Venus-Mars is more of the "I have to have you because you're everything to me" and vice versa.IP: Logged |
virgogirl Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 06, 2012 02:04 PM
How do you think soft aspects play out. Venus in sag sextile pluto in libra. I feel because there is so many other aspects it's so hard to tell which is stronger. I do feel obssesive - like I just can't quit him...get him out of my mind. It scares me...IP: Logged |
fenia Knowflake Posts: 77 From: athens greece Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 06, 2012 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by virgogirl: Hope this is the place I'll get my answers...I keep reading about plutonian aspects in synastry and becoming more confusing. Can someone please help me get it right... His pluto in virgo in 7 conjuncts my sun in virgo, his pluto sextile my moon (wide orb ) and squares my mars and neptune. His venus sextile my pluto, his saturn trines my pluto. My ascendant trines his pluto. My pluto is in taurus but also natally I have pluto in 12 house. Intensity is off the charts. We're not a couple- he's married. But it feels like we're drawn to each other and at the same time avoiding close contact. Tension can be cut with knife... We also have venus/mars conjunction in both leo; mars venus opposition; eros/psyche opposition and psyche/eros exact conjunction both in scorpio. Please, I feel like I loose myslef in this connection- feels fated, intense, out of control...thanks
My dear virgogirl these are very intense feelings for a virgo,but I think you're lucky to have them! How comfortable are you with them? I think you have a heavy pluto influence in your synastry, that's why you get obsessed and there is a "must". You must keep seeing him. Great moments! I love plutonian relationships.. Mars venus is the greatest aspect for sexual attraction. So.. be careful cause he's married though,huh? IP: Logged |
virgogirl Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 06, 2012 04:29 PM
Thank you for your input. Funny enough I have only 3 pluto aspects natally- mercury,neptune and midheaven. All soft. I do have scorpio moon so maybe...pluto is in my 12 house but in libra. Mostly venus, uranus and saturn in my chart. So confusing- I can't get past him for 2 years without having to run away or hold on to sth. It's overwhelming. Plus he keeps poker face most of the time. But cappie sun so what else expect...IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Always Sunshine here :heart: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 11, 2012 10:57 AM
Thanks for the info Ami, I thought square and conjunct are such a hard aspect for the moon person but it's really good to know that there'll be a happiness with this aspect. quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: My absolute favorite is Moon/Pluto. In synastry, we have a DW. My Pluto conjuncts his moon at my MC.His Pluto squares my moon(exact)This one is a feeling I have never had. It has all of the power of the Pluto square Mars but not the combativeness. To me ,it feels tender like when you saw your baby for the first time or when you loved someone so dearly your heart swelled. This I have only had for a very few people: my grandmother and my children. It is a combination of very tender and very powerful. This would be when you want to just sit and touch his face ,wash his hair or give him a bath like a baby lol I feel like I can separate them and the different feelings/senses they give like various spices or different flavors.
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sc0rpioRising Knowflake Posts: 443 From: somewhere! Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 11, 2012 11:48 AM
oneruledbymars: that was the best answer ever! 
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