posted August 27, 2012 03:20 PM              

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the majority of us are parents here...the bells start clocking us in the head when we see things like this. If this was his idea of joke, he is sick. If he thought that we would give him feedback, he was sadly mistaken. Like YTA said, none of us want to be an accessory to something that we normally wouldn't do ourselves.

And the energy I am feeling on this one is making the arms on my hair stand up...

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posted August 27, 2012 03:38 PM            

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If it looks like a rat and smells like a rat...

I am focused and relentless when it comes to things like this.

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posted August 27, 2012 04:03 PM            

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Totally *AWESOME* how you guys have followed up on this. So great to watch a group such as yourselves in action. Really shows what stuff Lindaland is made of

Also, if this has to be pushed higher, the person(s) involved could be found through the birth data posted. Just putting that out there.

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posted August 29, 2012 09:58 AM            

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I see some people have already convicted me of rape. Tells me more about yourselves than anything.

Do you think I would be so stupid?

I came here for help, and got nothing of the sort.

SMH

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posted August 29, 2012 12:41 PM            

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You're in your 40s, and if you need help to handle your feelings regarding a 14 year old girl, I suggest you see a therapist. Astrology will not help you.

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posted August 30, 2012 01:47 AM            

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I wanted to say that I don't condemn you. You're only doing what your heart tells you. BUT..think of how dating a 46 year old man will affect this young girl for the rest of her life. Will she be confused, will she feel like she was violated even with her consent. Remember, she is only 14, she does not know any better. She could just be curious right now and feeling these feelings she has for you, but curious about what a relationship is like, and then later on she could come to really regret it and feel violated, feeling stupid about letting her curiousity put her in those situations. Just imagine how the images/memories in her head will traumatize her later on. She is not sexually experienced, she doesn't know how she feels about love or guys yet. She could be agreeing to do this with you because she feels something, too, but it will likely be deeply troubling for her, psychologically speaking later on. There is a certain point where age *does* matter. Psychologically speaking, there is a point where you can't ignore age, and it causes traumas and complexes. It's not wise for you to go through with this, especially for her future sanity and psychological well-being. If you really care about her, then think about her, and how this will deeply affect her, probably for the rest of her life.

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posted August 30, 2012 06:42 AM            

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WTF. I'm not here to play puny crap touchy feely softball. You're 46 years old. You have no right to feel that way about any teenager, let alone one that is far underaged. Get a f-ing grip, you maggot predator.

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posted August 30, 2012 11:37 AM            

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I really like the Venus Pluto topic...so I'm going to start a new thread that doesn't have this entire "issue" attached to it. Join me in there if you want to dialogue about its affects in your personal life or in synastry. Thanks!

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posted August 30, 2012 12:01 PM            

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Yes, "CrooklynBoy" "SMH" you need to get some psychological counseling, from a certified professional. No, a 46 year old ADULT and a 14 year old CHILD simply do not belong together. Your feelings are not healthy or natural. You almost sound like a typical predator. You make it sound like she's somehow interested in you. That's the typical delusions of child molesters. You know, "She led me on." "She wanted it," and other sick crap those types convince themselves.

She is a CHILD. She is NOT capable of being involved with an adult at the kind of level you are suggesting. The words that describe your thoughts towards her are "deplorable," "sick," "deranged," "repulsive," "nauseating," etc.. I could go on, and on...

At the very least, *IF* you care at all about her the way you claim, then you must have ZERO contact with her at all costs. DO NOT go near her in any way, shape or form. While you're at it, see that psychologist. You have to look at yourself honestly. 46 years old + 14 years old = BAD!! Absolutely no good of ANY kind will come out of this, and you could easily ruin the rest of her life. Please, go get help, and KEEP AWAY FROM THAT **CHILD**

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posted August 17, 2016 09:03 AM            

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What about people who are together or remain friends for years?

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Originally posted by cappy1277:
yep that's good old saturn for you. its not over until all the karma is played out...you'll know when its easy for you to walk away and could care less.

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