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Topic: Without getting graphic, what's it like to sleep with a Scorpio?
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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted October 29, 2010 02:47 PM
 
scorp sun never got me hot and bothered a bit. never could see what was so sexy about them, they all thought they were plenty sexy though. gimme a scorp venus any day of the week though....aries, i can relate....my ex would be like "we always had the most awesome sex" and I'm like..."we did? repeated jibjab from a pile-driver never did get me off.. sorry... IP: Logged |
ekf
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posted October 29, 2010 03:41 PM
best ever was cap sun, taurus moon. virgo ACsmoldering hot, endless energy and an absolutely need to be the best. in synastry we had sun conj mars and venus trine pluto. sigh...missing desperately... IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted October 29, 2010 03:50 PM
Yes, Sco Sun AND Venus = most amazing sex leading to screaming orgasms. Sexual, passionate, sensual, romantic, caring, mentally stimulating and simply satisfying on all levels. IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted October 29, 2010 03:55 PM
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MyVirgoMask
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posted October 29, 2010 03:56 PM
"my ex would be like "we always had the most awesome sex" and I'm like..."we did? "  OUCH! Yes, Venus Scorpio or Scorpio Moon rocks imho Though I am happier than I ever have been with anyone with my Aqua (sexually as well). I'm sure his Taurus Mars opposing my Scorp Venus also helps  IP: Logged |
Valus
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posted October 29, 2010 04:13 PM
It depends a lot on the chemistry. I've been with some women who I had no chemistry with and, I can honestly say, there was nothing impressive about my "performance". Then I've been with women who I have great chemistry with, and it's completely different. I find that really fascinating. And there's not just good or bad chemistry; it's always different; I'm always different.The best, of course, is when there is real love, honest intimate communication. The more loving and attentive you are (and feel like being with someone), the less important it is to possess any kind of "technical" ability. The more you take your time and create the right loving atmosphere, the less actual "work" you have to do. Build her up with compliments, kisses, tender looks, and then she'll gush like the Ganges. Simple as that. She knows.  But it needs to be real. There needs to be real love there. Otherwise, you'll always be looking for the guy with the biggest, hardest dick, who can stay hard for the longest stretch of time. Yeah, sounds great, but actually its really sad. You may as well just use a vibrator.
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MyVirgoMask
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posted October 29, 2010 04:43 PM
Valus, your Scorpio Venus just adds like 100-fold to your Scorpio-ness, I think
And nothing wrong with vibrators while waiting for our mr right 
imo 'technique' is something overrated and I've had good sex because of good chemistry - chemistry is very important.
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glamgem25
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posted October 29, 2010 05:10 PM
I completely agree ValusIP: Logged |
MegaScorp
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posted October 29, 2010 05:32 PM
Male Scorpio here. For me I can go for hours on end even when I'm tired and to be honest, it turns me on most to see my partner turned on... I love our bodies pushed up really close to one another, lots of hugging tightly. It has to be very close and intimate with lots of foreplay. Just like a lot of skin on skin contact really and LOVE kissing! I lose all my inhibitions when I do it, it's the one thing in life I'm genuinely confident at and feel very natural and at ease with. So yeah, I would say I'm the cliched "passionate" and "intense" Usually bring that passion out of others too, even if they're shy!But yeah, maybe it's down to more than just your sun sign as many have had bad experiences. If it's of any note I'm Scorpio Sun with Taurus Moon, Mars and Venus in Libra, Virgo rising. Most of my other planets are Sagittarius. Not sure what that combination means on a sexual level? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 29, 2010 06:56 PM
It means you're very Venusian, MegaScorp
Your personal planets are all pretty much in Libra/Taurus, which are both Venus-ruled, and probably explains why you're so sensual too. Scorpio to me may or may not be sensual, but does crave intensity. Taurus I've found is so much more about sensual touch (and scent as well)
Virgo rising probably makes you picky about who you choose to get close to. IP: Logged |
Mblake81
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posted October 29, 2010 07:10 PM
MBlake
Have you not got over your Uranus jokes...yet No, its mine and nothing you can do about it
http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?title=smelloscope&videoId=156616 Lets get lootin'!
The robots personality is gemini
~ my 2 gemini friends and my mother behave the same, spontaneously saying something light hearted and silly. I have a hard time being serious with them... goof balls IP: Logged |
Diana
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posted October 29, 2010 07:17 PM
Well, Valus, how do you know what the chemistry was like? Obviously it was pretty good and there was a lot of "like" and maybe even love involved, but love isn't enough when it comes to sexual compatibility. There are plenty of couples who love one another but have a very awkward and unsatisfying sexual connection. There is more involved. Some of it is chemistry, but the chemistry can be there but then it just doesn't work -- that, I think is technique and also some people just have different tastes. Who said anyone was looking for a big dick and someone who can last forever? Those aren't necessary and some people don't like too endowed men. Some people don't even like vibrators. IP: Logged |
Lara
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posted October 29, 2010 07:19 PM
Well said Diana. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted October 29, 2010 07:21 PM
My ex was so not the typical scorpio, he wasn't hot or smoldering...but rather cute. Hewould actually seem more like a moody cancerian who when he was having a spell or a tactless happy-go-lucky sagittarian (on a good day). However, that did mask a certain calculating ability and focus (some might say obsession) that was undeniably plutonian. Strange. So if I say I enjoyed our sex life, it was because definitely because we meshed well together like that...not because of his sign. It was just too bad that was the only thing that stayed consistently good...LOL. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 29, 2010 07:34 PM
I like your Uranus jokes, Mblake  ------------------
Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted October 29, 2010 08:53 PM
I'd also like to add something about the Scorpio experience.I agree that the Venus in Scorpio ROCKS!!! However, for every benefit there are downfalls. Scorpios influences can brood, withhold sex, cheat, use it to manipulate you (heck just CONTROL you in general, sheesh) punish, reduce everything to "sex", have very bad bedroom manners, not be able to tap into deeper emotions, not understand what it is to MAKE LOVE, be TOO INTENSE... like not be able to laugh during sex, be vulnerable, etc... I would say that although Scorpio MAY indeed rule the bedroom in some respects (scorpio moon, scorpio venus) it's not ALWAYS WORTH the downfalls... I'd take a Sagittarius with a Capricorn Venus any day over the Scorpio Venus, just because of how dark and manipulative and just downright mean that influence can be... Great sex is one thing, but... at some point, it's nice to have MORE. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted October 29, 2010 08:59 PM
Venus in Scorpio must make for awesomely loyal lovers because my bff with this placement has always been more concerned about her boyfriends than she is about me or our friendship. Not that I care anymore since I'm about 700 miles away from her and living my own life now, but its annoying when you get screwed over because...ughhh, I digress. I see her next weekend because I've been named the godmother of her son. Meh. I just hope she follows through with driving me back to the airport on time, like she promised.
I like Scorpio Moon alot though, find I have alot in common with them being an 8th house Moon. It's nice when you're not looked at as ill or crazy for having extreme emotions.
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Diana
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posted October 29, 2010 09:26 PM
Pluto: I agree with the venus scorp. The guy I was with used it as a weapon, totally. He was definitely the dark side of venus scorpio.
bm: No, that's not loyalty, it's the dark side of venus in scorpio which can be so obsessive. Venus is in detriment in scorpio. Some people with this placement are out of control. The woman in Fatal Attraction portrays the dark side (to the extreme) of Venus in Scorpio.
Tiger Woods also has venus in scorpio. IP: Logged |
PlutoSquared
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posted October 29, 2010 09:34 PM
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Benedict Moon*
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posted October 29, 2010 09:40 PM
Yeah, I figured as much...I was just being a little facetious. I just don't understand how someone can be so all-or-nothing about romance and men, but easily ditches their friends for their jealous ******* boyfriend in the most inconvenient moments (like if she was your only ride home from the Club at 2am). She is so freaked out about being single since in her mind it = alone. Its true, I guess, but not a bad thing....especially in her case. She literally settles for the most undesirable relationships because she'd rather be unhappy than stand on her own. Like, wow....She also has Venus conjunct Pluto to make things even better...LOL. She's a classic case of 'don't know what you have till its gone'. It took me putting 700 miles between us for her to even *consider* that maybe there's an error in her ways. Or maybe she's just dying for me to come back because she misses having a flunkie. Yeah, so not happening. IP: Logged |
StarrofVenusGirl
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posted October 30, 2010 12:14 PM
Boy, I am loving all the love we Scorpio Venuses are getting in this thread LOL. My belief that I am damn good in bed has been validated But yes, there is definitely a dark side. I would say Scorpio (any Scorpio in personal planets) is probably my favorite lover. I attract them like flies to honey. My first was a Scorpio who also had Venus in Scorp and Mars as well. His Sun was conjunct my Venus. I probably had the best "losing virginity" experience a girl can have and we were both teenagers. I have an ex with Scorpio Venus and Mars and we had really great, boundary pushing sex. I don't think I could have accomplished those heights with someone who didn't share my Scorpio-ness. So I would say they are pretty good. I don't pick relationships or sexual partners based on Sun sign though I agree with everyone else who says ultimately it's ALL about chemistry. The best I ever had was an Aries. IP: Logged |
scorpio17
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posted October 30, 2010 12:40 PM
I don't kiss and tell.
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Intensity
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posted October 30, 2010 07:40 PM
wow pretty heated debate going on here loland that picture is really distubring! so what i get from all this is that .. scorpio venus and mooners are pretty hot and a different story to people who are just scorpio suns then ... this is a bit out of context but what experiences have scorpio suns, moons, and venuses with leo suns, moons and venuses .. just out of curiosity ... I feel that sometimes when leos and scorpios meet its as if they have met their match ... I could be of course wrong .. but whats your take on it? IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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posted October 30, 2010 08:28 PM
Here is the thing that I learned about Scorpios.
Your experience with them is directly related to how much you are willing to emmerse yourself in the moment, and let down your walls.
Scorpio doesn't just want in your pants, they want in your head too.If you are self conscious or the type that holds back, then your experience will be a bit different.
If you are giggly, and worried about your hair, and how you sound or look, it's just not going to work with them. If you can find one that you can give yourself to with complete abandoment, then IMHO, I repeat, IMHO, you will never want someone else the same way.
It's like they leave a mark on your that nobody else comes close to.
AGAIN, MY OPINION, AND YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT OPINIONS, LOL!!! IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted October 30, 2010 08:37 PM
My two closest friends , a Leo and Scorpio, have been together over 20 years and are very happy together.Venus in Scorpio can go either way with the loyalty. Esp in males. They can use those powers for good (healing, loyalty, and very deep levels of acceptance. Never being afraid of another's darkness) or to just be manipulative pricks, always with a good 'poor-me-i-can't-help-being-a-monster-but-maybe-if-you-love-me-enough-you-can-change-me' justification for their pathetic behaviour I'd say it depends entirely on the person, and it's really the person's own choice what kind of road they choose to take. IP: Logged |
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